i don't think test&dbol is a good combo if you dont want her to notice, probably it is the worst.Forget the dbol, and i 'd suggest something like test&eq, or test&primo. Use a small dose of test (it is your firs cycle though, like 250mgs/w and 300-400/mgs of primo or eq. Take proviron ar armidex to keep the water to a min, and most imp of all watch your diet, eat clean and low sodium(expetially if you decite t do 500 mgs/w of test) .You'll make quality gains and won't bloat. Tell' her you're taking lots of creatine, this should work well.