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Wife wants more kids - fml

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So we have two kids already. Wife really wants four and I don't. She started her period today and was crying (lol i still use protection so don't know really why she was shocked), and I am all excited. Then she gets upset that I am so excited, like wtf. I don't want anymore.

My youngest is 1.5, and life is finally starting to feel normal. I get to actually sleep straight from 10-6 every night without waking up. I hate baby stage but love this stage where I get to go do things with them.

Plus kids are expensive. I am not a 1% er, so it's tuff. She is a nurse, and I'd rather see her work full time in a few years once our kids are in school, than have more of these things.

Will this desire to want more ever go away
It has been a while for me and Christianity but aren't you the "decider?"
 
stereo - you know you will do anything a woman says for a piece of ass so stfu

woot - i guarentee you are putty in your gf's hands. lmao you went and bought her a car and you're not even married yet. You know how shit goes

java - yes i am the leader of our family, but wife and I still make decisions together. like i said, she is ok with us not having more right now. but that doesn't mean she is going to quit trying to make it happen. next time we are about to have sex she will try to keep me from using a condomn but that is about it, lol.
 
Its the live dink capital of the world
I loved Austin when I was there.

What's the name of that large outdoor pool/park thingie? You can spend a day lounging and drinking, then wait for the hipster chicks to let their tits out.
 
that's what i was thinking :worried:

i actually like wearing a condomn, cause it makes it that much more awesome when I go without one. plus i don't have any other options except not having sex which actually is not a option

since when are ass and mouth not options?
 
i actually like wearing a condomn, cause it makes it that much more awesome when I go without one. plus i don't have any other options except not having sex which actually is not a option

I actually like getting hit in the head with a hammer, because it makes not getting hit in the head with a hammer that much more awesome.
 
Hey, I can practically spit into mexico from my house. Nothing wrong with San Diego other than the extremely high cost of living.

High cost of living, shitty traffic, no seasons, implanted society, fake ass people (except woody and CEO though), cold nights year round, pretentious my city is better than yours attitude....

I'd much rather visit!
 
High cost of living, shitty traffic, no seasons, implanted society, fake ass people (except woody and CEO though), cold nights year round, pretentious my city is better than yours attitude....

I'd much rather visit!

I like the "no seasons" part. Fuck snow. I'll take a warm 77F year round any time.

Our high taxes and very, very high cost of living is our worst part.

The pretentious attitude goes for our whole state. Even the registered sex offenders living in the east county have that attitude.
 
Crime

Statewide FBI Crime statistics for 2009 include 144 murders/nonnegligent manslaughter; 1,108 forcible rapes; 4,850 robberies; 8,431 aggravated assaults; and 147,486 property crimes.[52] Wisconsin also publishes its own statistics through the Office of Justice Assistance.[53] The OJA reported 14,603 violent crimes in 2009, with a clearance rate (% solved) of 50%.[54] The OJA reported 4,633 sexual assaults in 2009, with an overall clearance rate for sexual assaults of 57%. Of note, in Wisconsin juveniles are nearly three times more likely than adults to be victims of sexual assault, with 11- to 15-year-old children as the highest victimized age group.http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wisconsin#cite_note-54
 
Crime

Statewide FBI Crime statistics for 2009 include 144 murders/nonnegligent manslaughter; 1,108 forcible rapes; 4,850 robberies; 8,431 aggravated assaults; and 147,486 property crimes.[52] Wisconsin also publishes its own statistics through the Office of Justice Assistance.[53] The OJA reported 14,603 violent crimes in 2009, with a clearance rate (% solved) of 50%.[54] The OJA reported 4,633 sexual assaults in 2009, with an overall clearance rate for sexual assaults of 57%. Of note, in Wisconsin juveniles are nearly three times more likely than adults to be victims of sexual assault, with 11- to 15-year-old children as the highest victimized age group.http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wisconsin#cite_note-54

Good thing I'm not 11-15 yrs old!
 
I loved Austin when I was there.

What's the name of that large outdoor pool/park thingie? You can spend a day lounging and drinking, then wait for the hipster chicks to let their tits out.

hippie hollow but those are mainly the old nasty burned out hippies
barton springs would be a better bet for eye candy
 
Sounds like she is the breadwinner and trying to supplement her own income. Those kids can sell your smoothies on the side of the road instead of you working a blender at the YMCA.
 
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she does do really well at her job being a nurse. it does get tight when we lose her income. we can still make it, but not much extras
 
Why do you assume shes the one being unreasonable?

Because she already has kids and is demanding more.

It would be a different story if they got married and suddenly he announced he doesn't want any children at all.
 
Because she already has kids and is demanding more.

It would be a different story if they got married and suddenly he announced he doesn't want any children at all.

why is that concept so hard to grasp lol
 
Bro...seriously if you don't want more kids you better either get snipped or wear rubbers for life. And hide the rubbers from her because if she wants more kids bad enough, she will prick holes in the condoms..

I seriously never understood how/why women seem to think they have the end all say in having children in a relationship.
 
This is a repost but you will totally lose this battle. Men are simply a tool in the family count. Women totally control the pussy!!
 
Why is it that practically everyone eventually gets married, but almost always it's the man that ends up suffering and having to over-compromise once that line in crossed?

Sometimes I don't agree with the way society is structured.
 
+1

You're screwed, ER.

I had a buddy who's wife waited until she knew she was ovulating, got him drunk, and convinced him to have sex without protection.

So he's fucking her, and right before he's about to cum she locks her heels on his ass and won't let him pull out. 9 months later they had their 3rd daughter.


Holy shit. And lemme guess, he's the one primarily supporting/taking care of them.
 
You have two kids, its pretty simple math. Tell her no more and thats the end of it.

Have you ever just made a decision for your family and told your wife "Thats the way its gonna be". ?

Men who are true head of the family dont unreasonably get pushed around like you do. When their wives are making unreasonable demands they put their fucking foot down and thats the end of it.
I dont have to be married to know that.


What's troubling is that if the feminists have their way it will be illegal to do this foot-putting-down stuff. It'll be considered some sort of verbal/emotional abuse.
 
When I got a vasectomy, they made me bring my wife in to prove she agreed to it. I don't know if thats normal procedure or what, but if so, I'm sure you could somehow convince them you were divorced. (If you say single they will tell you not to get one because you will someday find a new mate etc etc)

Anyway, if you did get one you could probbly hide it from her. It would be like a week of soreness and no sex, and shaved balls (if you don't shave them already she might notice that). The scar shouldn't be very noticable unless she's really looking for it.

Another option is maybe get her a puppy. I'm not kidding. She might be so in love with the puppy, plus be so busy taking care of it, she won't be thinking about babies.

What won't work is logic: the cost of kids, taking away opportunities for the other 2, etc. Don't even bother.


Also precisely why there hasn't been a female pres. yet.

Hormones. Gotta love 'em. And that's cynically true for both sexes.
 
What's troubling is that if the feminists have their way it will be illegal to do this foot-putting-down stuff. It'll be considered some sort of verbal/emotional abuse.
Lol it's already called verbal abuse several times a year in my house depending who I'm dating. Ex wife was a major feminist who thought I was taking her life away when I got pissed she was having a drink with her male manager until 3am while her husband was texting with no reply. That was last call. How dare I expect my wife to act appropriately.
 
Lol it's already called verbal abuse several times a year in my house depending who I'm dating. Ex wife was a major feminist who thought I was taking her life away when I got pissed she was having a drink with her male manager until 3am while her husband was texting with no reply. That was last call. How dare I expect my wife to act appropriately.

sorry that happen to you bro. that is really messed up :worried:
 
Lol it's already called verbal abuse several times a year in my house depending who I'm dating. Ex wife was a major feminist who thought I was taking her life away when I got pissed she was having a drink with her male manager until 3am while her husband was texting with no reply. That was last call. How dare I expect my wife to act appropriately.

she was cheating on you bro.
 
she was cheating on you bro.


maybe she just wanted to get out!!!!!! fuck!!!!

is it the same if it was a cowrker...it was accidental and you said you werent coming home before two but went home at 130 but still didnt answer the text???

its not the same right?? fuck

Im pacing

I didnt call it verbal abuse tho..but now going through my phone is a free for all :(
 
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