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WHy is true love so hard to find?
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jacked clown
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Because men play at love to get sex...and women play at sex to get love
hamstershaver
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women love the cawk too much
jacked clown
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Any lover would understand what i wrote!!
foreigngirl
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jacked clown said:
I like this thought
Raptorex
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foreigngirl
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mightymouse69 said:
OMG!!! Those money grabbing sluts?
Raptorex
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foreigngirl said:
I'll take one ID732 and one ID733, to go please.
http://www.brideinrussia.com/ladies/lady732.html
foreigngirl
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mightymouse69 said:
geez, man. It cant be so hard to get a woman here
biteme said:
Disclaimer: Please don't take this the wrong way.
We attract what we feel. Having that attitude will only attract women that are just as desperate. I don't forsee happiness in a relationship based on desperation.
There is someone for you out there. That person is not going to come into your life right away. Also there is no guarantee that when she does, she will be in your life forever. Sometimes there are circumstances not under our control that causes us to seperate with the one we love.
foreigngirl
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spongebob said:
lol, it dont even have to be 5. 3 is enough
True love makes pawn brokers rich.
KillahBee
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biteme said:
I didn't mean you in particular. But it always seems to find you when you are not looking and sometimes at the worst possible times. But my first response is the real answer - because it is worth it. It is worth all the trouble, and pain, and hurt, and conflict, and drama and waiting.
foreigngirl
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mightymouse69 said:
ahhmmmm, no
There is no true love - we create this concept in our head of what we think true love is and it becomes something that is no longer real.
Love is tolerance ultimately and the package that that tolerance comes in is what varies and we need to find the package that we can live with and functions properly with our baggage.
So, don't over think it.
Love is like cooking.
"true love" is like baking.
If you've done a lot of both - you'll get that.
Love is tolerance ultimately and the package that that tolerance comes in is what varies and we need to find the package that we can live with and functions properly with our baggage.
So, don't over think it.
Love is like cooking.
"true love" is like baking.
If you've done a lot of both - you'll get that.
foreigngirl
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biteme said:
no, honey - THEY trade YOU
foreigngirl
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spongebob said:
if she marries the guy in Russia, then after 3 years of marriage she has the right to apply for citizenship
foreigngirl
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mightymouse69 said:
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BrothaBill
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Because true love would be the last piece of the unknown equation signifying the end of the universe. A cataclysmic big crunch destroying all and everything as the universe and all of creation reverts back to the singularity from whence the big bang occurred and God becomes whole. To find true love and accept would be selfish as it would end it all for everyone and everything. If you do indeed find it, you must reject for all of mankind and everyone and everything in the universe.
foreigngirl
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biteme said:
your money and life savings are gonna go with them too
velvett said:
Ah, you mean baking sicky sweety things like cakes. feh. i am in aggreement.
For me, true love is baking a crusty, chewey free form loaf of of double sourdough. You are making something sublime out of simple ingredients. No fussy shit here, you are combining the most basic of things to make a gift that is greater than the sum of its parts. That last part is critical. If you fuss over it too much, it becomes pedestrian and rigid (even though in many cases rigid is wonderful...
) You blend them, let them feed off each other, rise and fall, rise and fall, then finally when its found its groove of growth/dormancy/decay/repeat you commit it to the oven and it reaches its final, glorious, soul satisfying state. Is it perfect? Hell no, if it was, you wouldnt want it so badly, it would hold no mystery, no nuance, no unexpected pleasures. You eat of it either sparingly or revenously: each time you tear off a piece its different, unique, you unveil something new and rich.
The recipe never changes, yet the product of your labors is always new.
.. you know what I mean.
If Emeril were a porn director, I would so buy his movies.ChefWide said:Ah, you mean baking sicky sweety things like cakes. feh. i am in aggreement.
For me, true love is baking a crusty, chewey free form loaf of of double sourdough. You are making something sublime out of simple ingredients. No fussy shit here, you are combining the most basic of things to make a gift that is greater than the sum of its parts. That last part is critical. If you fuss over it too much, it becomes pedestrian and rigid (even though in many cases rigid is wonderful...
You blend them, let them feed off each other, rise and fall, rise and fall, then finally when its found its groove of growth/dormancy/decay/repeat you commit it to the oven and it reaches its final, glorious, soul satisfying state. Is it perfect? Hell no, if it was, you wouldnt want it so badly, it would hold no mystery, no nuance, no unexpected pleasures. You eat of it either sparingly or revenously: each time you tear off a piece its different, unique, you unveil something new and rich.
.. you know what I mean.
foreigngirl said:
I'm a bargain shopper. I've got connections. Women cannot own me. THey never have and never will. There are a few good ones out there, but not many. Well I take that back, my first gf did own me. I cried like a child, but now I'm as tough as nails as a result of being through that more than once.
biteme said:
Find the strength to cry and wail like a banshee at a shattered heart, find the mettle to not fear it, find the will to risk the agony of a heart torn assunder: and you will find that love.
Forgo all that stuff? Remain hard and closed and 'in control'? It won't let you find it.
foreigngirl
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biteme said:
you are tough, but you dont understand these girls. Do as you please
toga22
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Velvett is so right...
There is no such thing as true love. True love is when you find someone that fits into your lifestyle and your ideals of "perfection" the best.
If you build your life around your own dreams and desires, and find complete happiness in yourself, you will find your perfect partner. But don't hold off on your life, waiting to find another that is going to make you happy.
Just my 2 cents....
There is no such thing as true love. True love is when you find someone that fits into your lifestyle and your ideals of "perfection" the best.
If you build your life around your own dreams and desires, and find complete happiness in yourself, you will find your perfect partner. But don't hold off on your life, waiting to find another that is going to make you happy.
Just my 2 cents....
ziggyziggy
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A pocket-full of singles will buy me all the love I need at the local titty bar.
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nycgirl said:At Camelot on M Street or at Nexus (I think that's the name) in SouthEast?
Nexus is sooooooooo yesterday.
Actually, I haven't been to Camelot since my best friend's little brother's 21st birthday back in January.
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nycgirl said:
I haven't been since November of last year. Nice place.
They do make a great Reuben sandwich
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ziggyziggy
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nycgirl said:
Oh yes you can. Makes a great place to take male clients when they come to sell us equipment for our job. Negotiations go so much easier.
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ziggyziggy said:
Its a great place to take female clients like me. The first time I went there these sales reps took me and another female paralegal. They supplied the Dollar Bills and paid for our drinks. It was wild. I had so much fun.
Now that I know you can order food, I have to find another reason to go back.
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nycgirl said:
Yeah, i can just barely read the menu. Sometimes, my monosyllbilic vocabulary gets in the way. I have found that just pointing to the menu item and grunting gets the point across well enough
I think it's rare. I think it's easy for two people to meet and hang out and like the idea of being in love and wind up loving each other over time.
I've only FELL in love once. No thinking, wasn't looking for it, no wondering. I just fell and all of the sudden I was completely head over heels. Completely amazing. I had no idea that was possible.
I'm not sure why it's so uncommon. Maybe because it's not just the right two people, but it has to be the right two people at just the right moment when they're both completely raw and honest about who they are and what they want. But once you have it, you'll go through absolute hell to keep it if it's the real deal.
I've only FELL in love once. No thinking, wasn't looking for it, no wondering. I just fell and all of the sudden I was completely head over heels. Completely amazing. I had no idea that was possible.
I'm not sure why it's so uncommon. Maybe because it's not just the right two people, but it has to be the right two people at just the right moment when they're both completely raw and honest about who they are and what they want. But once you have it, you'll go through absolute hell to keep it if it's the real deal.
foreigngirl
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mightymouse69 said:
sweetie's day too. Those are pittifull excuses for buying presents
foreigngirl
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mightymouse69 said:
its fabricated holiday and I'm not sure when was it - prob btw may-june
I dont like any of them. I like to get or buy presents when its not expected
foreigngirl
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mightymouse69 said:
have fun bro....get yourself the 06 R1
Delinquent
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I guess this is one area in my life that came rather easily. I'm not sure if I fall in love to easy or I have just been really lucky.
From my relationship experience and watching others failure, all 3 of my girlfriends (including my wife) have been friends of mine first. I knew me first girlfriend for a year or so before we got together. It was my first relationship so I think puppy love kicked in. We were together for 3.5 years or pretty much all of high school.
The next girl who I admit may have been a rebound, started a couple months after I dumped my first girlfriend. I had known this girl though since 2nd grade so we already knew a lot about each other. Everything was going great with her for the 6 months we were together. We did everything together. I loved her but wasn't necessarily in love with her.
Then came my wife. She had a BF and I had a GF at the time we met. She came looking for a job at the restaurant I worked at. Still to this day, I'm not sure why I convinced my boss to hire her. I had no intention of getting with her since I was badly burned by my first girlfriend when it came to cheating. Over the course of 6 months we hung out more and more. She got me into going to the gym so we were with each other every morning and pretty much all day at work. The eventual happened and we both broke up with our SO's and got together. Something about us seemed so perfect. We were on such an exact level that it was mind boggling. 6 years later, we're still the same way.
I guess the moral of this drawn out story is the best way to truly know someone is to be friends with them first. Only then, will you see their true side.
From my relationship experience and watching others failure, all 3 of my girlfriends (including my wife) have been friends of mine first. I knew me first girlfriend for a year or so before we got together. It was my first relationship so I think puppy love kicked in. We were together for 3.5 years or pretty much all of high school.
The next girl who I admit may have been a rebound, started a couple months after I dumped my first girlfriend. I had known this girl though since 2nd grade so we already knew a lot about each other. Everything was going great with her for the 6 months we were together. We did everything together. I loved her but wasn't necessarily in love with her.
Then came my wife. She had a BF and I had a GF at the time we met. She came looking for a job at the restaurant I worked at. Still to this day, I'm not sure why I convinced my boss to hire her. I had no intention of getting with her since I was badly burned by my first girlfriend when it came to cheating. Over the course of 6 months we hung out more and more. She got me into going to the gym so we were with each other every morning and pretty much all day at work. The eventual happened and we both broke up with our SO's and got together. Something about us seemed so perfect. We were on such an exact level that it was mind boggling. 6 years later, we're still the same way.
I guess the moral of this drawn out story is the best way to truly know someone is to be friends with them first. Only then, will you see their true side.
foreigngirl
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mightymouse69 said:VRSCA V-Rod (my next purchase)
looks so much comfterable then crotch rockets
velvett said:
Yeah. I started out as friends with my ex-wife. We knew each other for nearly 2 years before we went out. She was with another guy and as soon as they split, we were together and never looked back. Until it all fell apart 10 years later. And I'll never understand women, because she claims to hate me, yet she is jealous of other women that I go out with.
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biteme said:
because it doesn't exist and is mainly a creation of love companies such as Hallmark.
biteme said:
Well, you have your answer right there.
Either way I still think it's best to be friends because when you're old, flabby and there's no sex to be had (well easily at any rate) you need to have something to keep you together other than the expense of divorce.
Because it's worth it.
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biteme said:
It just annoys me how marketable love has become, a la eharmony. almost has turned into a commidity...for me, love has always been a temp feeling, aside from family
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biteme said:
true, my grandparents are still married into their late '80's
Sweet_Bitch
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jacked clown said:
This is one of the truest statements ever.
Oh, and it doesn't exsist.
Gambino said:
This is the kind of shit that kills true love. Exploitation. People don't know what's real anymore because it's all shoved down their throats.
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nycgirl said:
this is so true. i never even meant to meat anyone when i met my wife. i went to the club on base and was dressed in blue jeans, t-shirt, and ballcap on backwards. i was tired of looking and decided to cool it for a while. i didnt even want to go to the club that night but a friend talked me into it. then i met the most amazing woman i have ever met. she is so sexy, beautifull, open minded, sweet, did i say sexy? oh she is so sexy... and still is. we are going on 10 years next april and we have a 7 year old beautifull boy. i swear they cloned me into him... our baby pics look just like him.
so it does happen when you leased expect it. good things do come to those who wait....
KillahBee said:
Damn you fucker you beat me to it.
biteme said:
IMO ....
We are new to being sentient beings ... we are still animals.
Our primary drive is survival and procreation.
"True love" is an ideal formed in our minds that we pursue in an imperfect world. Our animal nature clashes with this. Thus ... the dilema.
The best you can get is prolonged lust. And with some humor thrown in ... is pretty dam good!
