Dood you implied that she was a *hypocrite* for not living the values that she CLAIMED she supported. You were the one that put the words into her mouth and then lambasted her for it. She was NOT claiming moral superiority over anyone but you felt the need to take a cheap shot at her for being in a situation that she stated time and time again was not HER FIRST CHOICE for a family.
Sometimes I swear that you young guys have no feelings at all.
Seriously, why are some of you so consistently incapable of understanding how your words to another might inflict pain? Why would that be your aim?
I know that men and women are socialized differently. I watched young guys IRL say the most hurtfull shit towards one another (they were close friends, go figure
) and then act as if they weren't hurt by it when ANYONE with half a brain can see that it DID hurt, but they both continued to do it anyway?
Just take a deep breath and think for a moment before you hit that send button. Think about how YOUR WORDS *might* affect another.