I forgot who said it...maybe Socrates or Plato...can't remember right now:
"It's better to believe in God and be wrong than to not believe in God and be wrong."
I don't judge anyone for their beliefs. Nor do I look down or criticize others for their faiths or theological principles. People matter to me more than the sum of their beliefs. Maybe that makes me a bad believer.
Concerning these things in particular:
death of loved ones, pain and suffering of innocent people, hunger and poverty, crime, people who cause others harm and go unpunished, people never exposed to the Bible's teachings, tragedies, other religions etc...to me, these are things that only God knows the answer to. I've asked "why" to most of these things before and perhaps it's not my place to know how things work.
There are plenty of reasons to not believe in God. We can say believers are weak sheep, we can say non-believers are angry inside...that solves nothing. We see and interpret each of our realites differently and that determines our overall outlook. It does no good to say God does not exist, nor does it do any good to say that God exists for everyone. Maybe people are like antennae...some can tune in stations that others cannot. That does not make people good or bad. I also think God understands this better than we think he does. So, I, for one, do not actually believe that non-believers necessarily go to hell. I think we get judged individually. If I'm wrong then I'd never know the difference anyhow...it will be like going to sleep at night...can't remember it save for any dreams.
We're all in this together. Best to just bide our time and try to be kind to each other.