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Who's in love right now?

guilty and empty inside because i cannot be with mine...

loneliness is the most tragic of emotions...

i danced on glass tables...
 
I love my HUBBY!

I got a man that I think I'm gonna love forever...........And forever we'll be togther .....No matter where he goes I'll be thinking of him.....Gonna love him I'm gonna love him...................................................
 
Clasped in the arms of her love
In vain, alas ! for life I strove:
My fluttering spirits wrapped in fire
By Love's mysterious art,
Borne on the wings of fierce desire,
Flew from my flaming heart.

Thus lying in a trance for dead,
Her swelling breasts bore up my head;
When waking from a pleasant dream,
I saw her killing eyes,
Which did in fiery glances seem
To say, now, she dies.

Fainting, she pressed me in her arms,
And trembling lay, dissolved in charms;
When with a shivering voice she cried,
Must I alone then die ?
No, no, I languishing replied,
I'll bear thee company.

Melting our souls thus into one,
Swift joys our wishes did out-run;
Then launched in rolling seas of bliss,
We bid the world adieu;
Swearing by every charming kiss,
To be forever true.

BM - You have a noble spirit; I wish the best for you. You deserve peace, intimacy, compassion, and happiness in your life.
 
bikinimom said:
Thank you Crab - that was very moving.....

I wish that I could write poetry like that, alas, I have only my prose.

Kinimom - I expect to see an avatar from you...soon!!:D
 
I am in love with a guy who is SO nice to me... I never used to like nice guys. I'm glad I came to my senses. Bliss!!! :loveyou:
 
KRS said:


Then you have never been in love, or have a sick idea of what love is. I am IN LOVE and it's the best feeling in the world. Love motivates you to be a better person, love helps everyone be selfless. It's healthy. I can't imagine my life without my honey. I know I sound mushy, but love does that to you. And there's nothing wrong with that. :friends:



too many things can go wrong. you get a job in a different city, one of you meets someone else, you lose interest, your personalties (and what you find tolerable/intolerable/desirable) change, you discover that you hate each other, etc. there are too many things that can go wrong for me to let an emotion that strong run free inside my mind.

i endorse love, but it is too strong & irrational for me to want to feel it anymore. i've been let down because i didn't quiz the other person out beforehand. i jumped in w/o planning for what could go wrong.

i've been in love. i'll admit that true, unadulterated love transcends all the shit i said. however, people usually don't find that type of love. they find co-dependent, 'im a man, you're a woman so i guess we should feel something' love that burns out. i've had one real love, and 4 so-so loves. i would take everything i said back if it was a description of the real love, but it still applies to the 4 so-so loves. i don't think i even felt pain from the true love. just lack. wow. love so pure there was no pain. but that is gone now. and it was a while back anyway.











i have to come back & write this. i don't buy into the 'love solves everything' crap anymore.

http://boards.elitefitness.com/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=64307&highlight=women

http://boards.elitefitness.com/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=62223&highlight=women

the way i see it there are different types of love. love between family, romantic love, religious love, humitarian love, etc. of them, i would put romantic love near the bottom in regards to usefulness & trustworthiness. i can't stand it now that i think about it. i hope i never love a woman more than i love my family, unless she can actually do what my family does for me. sit by me while im in the ER, drive 100 miles at 3am to get me, not attack me when i fail. romantic 'love' is usually a mixture of co-dependence, exploitation (men 2 women:show up your boobs as proof that you are easy to impregnate; women 2 men:show us that you are strong individuals & useful to society so we can give birth to a race of politically correct supermen) at the expense of true love (which is only based on what helps the individual IMO), and addiction.

if i find a woman who i think is a good person, then i am not above loving her. but a vagina alone doesn't do it for me.



i know. by saying this i am inviting every cognitive dissonancer in the land to uphold their stereotypes at my expense. feel free, but i outdodged those arguments long ago.
 
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Man, some of you people have issues. Of course, being hurt can bring out a lot of issues and harden your heart.

I'm not gonna get too gushy here...

I'm spot on with Badkins. And nordstrom, I DID have to take a job in a different city from my g/f, but we make it work because we care that much about each other & our relationship. Yeah, I could call it off, not deal with the long distance relationship and find some new women here, but that's not what I'm looking for anymore. Having various women to choose from with no "strings" is fun, but you're missing out on a whole other side that you can only get in a relationship and loving someone. I've been fucked over before, I've been hurt, but I take some time off and get back in the game...eventually, I found someone who was right for me.

Bikinimom -- your attitude is beyond great. I'm glad to hear you're happy with your life & your own self...and no offense here, but if this guy doesn't love you back, he's nuts! :D
 
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