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I wish that I could get into specifics Spongebob but I am in the dark as YOU are.....
He is NOT and OK guy - HE IS AN AMAZING GUY..... and love with him was THE FURTHEST thing from my mind when he reached out to me in friendship when he figured out that I was going through a painful divorce.
If I had a dime for every time I called him hyper-ventilating with fear, barely able to speak from the tears over all of the BS that was going down in the divorce hell that has been my life for the past year or so - I could pay the ex off to leave the planet for good! heheheee He always calmed me down and reassured me that everything would be ok. COUNTLESS HOURS on the phone talking about everything from child-rearing, divorce, bodybuilding, cooking, hell how to get the dustbunnies from eating you alive!...everything with the exception of ONE TOPIC: SEX between him and me. Not even a hint or the faintest sexual innuendo. There are only three other men who have treated me this way:
The first was my first serious boyfriend; dated him for 2 years.
The second was a decent, kind and thoughtful man that I dated the same time that I dated my ex.
The third was the ex - him, I married and faithfully loved for nearly thirteen years. I still think about guy #2 from time to time, always have, but in the sense that I hope he has had a wonderful life and has had the opportunity to fulfill his dreams. Ya know?
I am not saying that I mind attention from men. Hell, if I minded then I would cover my tits and my ass, hehehehee. But this man saw my pics, new who I was on the boards and STILL NEVER EVER MADE A MENTION OF IT.
Since him, I have compared all others to him.... there is no comparison.
Now I sound like a freaking looney tune.
I'll just say that I don't know how stuff between us got screwed up and I miss him terribly.... I will always have only the most tender thoughts of him - always.
He is NOT and OK guy - HE IS AN AMAZING GUY..... and love with him was THE FURTHEST thing from my mind when he reached out to me in friendship when he figured out that I was going through a painful divorce.
If I had a dime for every time I called him hyper-ventilating with fear, barely able to speak from the tears over all of the BS that was going down in the divorce hell that has been my life for the past year or so - I could pay the ex off to leave the planet for good! heheheee He always calmed me down and reassured me that everything would be ok. COUNTLESS HOURS on the phone talking about everything from child-rearing, divorce, bodybuilding, cooking, hell how to get the dustbunnies from eating you alive!...everything with the exception of ONE TOPIC: SEX between him and me. Not even a hint or the faintest sexual innuendo. There are only three other men who have treated me this way:
The first was my first serious boyfriend; dated him for 2 years.
The second was a decent, kind and thoughtful man that I dated the same time that I dated my ex.
The third was the ex - him, I married and faithfully loved for nearly thirteen years. I still think about guy #2 from time to time, always have, but in the sense that I hope he has had a wonderful life and has had the opportunity to fulfill his dreams. Ya know?
I am not saying that I mind attention from men. Hell, if I minded then I would cover my tits and my ass, hehehehee. But this man saw my pics, new who I was on the boards and STILL NEVER EVER MADE A MENTION OF IT.
Since him, I have compared all others to him.... there is no comparison.
Now I sound like a freaking looney tune.
I'll just say that I don't know how stuff between us got screwed up and I miss him terribly.... I will always have only the most tender thoughts of him - always.
FRACKAL
Hey Frack....yeah...actually I got it a few days ago....my mail was being a pain so I couldnt access it right away.....Im sorry I didnt get back to you but the past week has been tough on me....I really appreciate your advice....I have been following it and I do notice some improvement....Im just dreading the holidays..because that means she will want to get her stuff and I dont even want to see her....Ill make sure Im not here....Christmas and New Years is going to kill too because I was with her last year at the time....oh well....Im off topic....thanks again Frackal and Ill be in touch
Hey Frack....yeah...actually I got it a few days ago....my mail was being a pain so I couldnt access it right away.....Im sorry I didnt get back to you but the past week has been tough on me....I really appreciate your advice....I have been following it and I do notice some improvement....Im just dreading the holidays..because that means she will want to get her stuff and I dont even want to see her....Ill make sure Im not here....Christmas and New Years is going to kill too because I was with her last year at the time....oh well....Im off topic....thanks again Frackal and Ill be in touch
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what is true love anyway....very hard to find
fuck love
fuck love
what is true love anyway....very hard to find
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bikinimom said:
well i hope it works out for ya. no matter the outcome.
you say you have grown over the last few months, has he seen this? like i said sometimes that turns em around.
in the end i always believe in destiny, if it wasn't meant to be, so be it. what you described was what i had with my high school sweetheart, i can only tell you it will happen again.
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