Who here has had a gf have an abortion?

[Lestat]

I really think that kind of thinking is such BS.

agreed man, its so sad and so frustrating. religious dogma really gets me down

 

[cindylou]

I have the same questions in my head. It's funny, there's a kenny chesney song that talks aobut getting his high school girlfriend pregnant and her name in the song is cindylou.

ha! ol' cindylou. lol. I cant say I can recall that song I might have to google it or something.

I know many conservative Christians who do not belive life starts at conception. I used to be one of those who believe human life started at birth, but I just dont know....

 

[jnevin]

how is that bad logic?

Christians will blow up abortion clinics, and brain wash children into thinking that abortion is murder, all the while 50% of conceptions end with the fetus dying. Why not spend all of their enegergies trying to advance science to the point where miscarriages are a thing of the past? Then we can worry about voluntary abortions which in most cases are children that are UNWANTED while miscarriages are often times planned pregnancies.

Fuck man, I was up late last night thinking about how there are missionaries in Africa now TEACHING PEOPLE NOT TO USE CONDOMS despite a devastating AIDS epidemic there.

Conservative Christians are against the HPV and future HIV vaccines on the grounds that they are a deterrant to pre marital sex!! Sometimes I really wonder about the nation we live in at times.

Blaming god, or peoples' idea of god for aborting fetuses just to bash what someone believes is poor logic and is hateful and bigoted. You're the same as a klansman with this shit.

 

[ksharp01]

Did she not give you a saying in the matter?

 

[hotzie]

in my case we really had no choice , back then i was into a lot of drugs , alot and so was she. we were doin morphine patches , oxys , vics, xanies , and she loved to smoke meth and bud. we didnt know seh was preg while we were during all this , and there was no way to bring a fucked up baby into this world.

 

[juiceddreadlocks]

ha! ol' cindylou. lol. I cant say I can recall that song I might have to google it or something.

I know many conservative Christians who do not belive life starts at conception. I used to be one of those who believe human life started at birth, but I just dont know....

"Never Gonna Feel That Way Again"

Friday night butterflies
Like clockwork they'd arrive
A little chill and the October sky
Nervous till the kickoff game
4 quarters win or lose
Spent Saturdays black and blue
But it was what I love to do
And it was more than just a game

It was my life and it was fun
Another season of my life is done
Another race I'm glad I got to run
Another chapter of my life its over
No I'm never gonna feel like that again
Times rushin by me like the wind
Never be as young as I was then
No I'm never gonna feel like that again

Practice dancin in my garage
Two left feet and a white corsage
Daddy let me borrow the dodge
Said don't bring her home on empty
Swung by and picked up Cindy Lou
Took her to the prom for a dance or two
Then we drove down to the water blue and that's where she kissed me

It was my life and it was fun
Another season of my life is done
Another race i'm glad I got to run
Another chapter of my life its over
No i'm never gonna feel like that again
Times rushin by me like the wind
Never be as young as I was then
no i'm never gonna feel like that again

I got a call one July day
Cindy Lou was in that way
Had a big decision to make
and I couldn't take it lightly
At first I thought of leavin town
but I couldn't let our families down
now I'm out here throwin this ball around
with a boy that looks just likes me

Its my life and its sure fun
Another season of my lifes begun
Another race I'm glad I get to run
another chapter of my life I'm writin
No I'm never gonna feel like this again
Times rushin by me like the wind
Got to grab each moment that I can
Cuz I'm never gonna feel like this again
no I'm never gonna feel like this again
Nooooooooo I'm never gonna feel like this again​

 

[ksharp01]

in my case we really had no choice , back then i was into a lot of drugs , alot and so was she. we were doin morphine patches , oxys , vics, xanies , and she loved to smoke meth and bud. we didnt know seh was preg while we were during all this , and there was no way to bring a fucked up baby into this world.

Then it probally was. I am so sorry to hear that. Don't give up though, having a child is the best thing that can happen to anyone. I may sound sappy as usual but I am one that believes everything happens for a reason no matter how hard it may seem at the time.

 

[hotzie]

Then it probally was. I am so sorry to hear that. Don't give up though, having a child is the best thing that can happen to anyone. I may sound sappy as usual but I am one that believes everything happens for a reason no matter how hard it may seem at the time.

we did what we thought was best, whether it was or not who knows?
but i love kids and i cant wait to have some.
that day will forever be something that i have to live with,i find it easier to just repress it than to deal with it.

 

[rykertest]

I'm sorry to hear that bro

As far as the religious convictions go, did you know that 50% of all pregnancies spontaneously abort? Most people never even know that they had a miscarriage.

"god" is responsible for more abortions than man will ever be.

That last sentance is one of the dumbest things I have ever read.

 

[rykertest]

Mine did almost 3 years ago and I hate it. I've hated it ever since. How could I be so weak? I should fucking have a son or daughter right now.

Hey man, sorry to hear about your struggle with this. I cannot relate to your pain, but I can only imagine how painful it must be and how it could creep into your mind and knaw at your very soul. I am anti abortion. Having seen one done on a video and also seen a partial birth abortion, even the strongest man or woman cannot leave that situation without a hole, a horrible feeling in your gut that stays with you forever. I don't think that memory will ever go away, but it's time like this when trusting in your family and friends and God will get you thru.

SOmething this instense and serious, it might be goot o talk to a therapist about it??? I bet it would help to at least get it all off your chest with a live person rather than just internet friends. Whatever path you choose, take care bro and God bless you and yours.