KAYNE said:
IMO.......MOVING TO ANOTHER COUNTRY WITH YOUR CHILDREN WITHOUT THE BLESSING OF THE OTHER PARENT SHOULD BE ILLEGAL.
PS.....BEFORE YOU START GOING OFF B-MOM, I DONT KNOW THE DETAILS OF YOUR SITUTION, I'M SIMPLY STATING MY OPINION ON THAT ISSUE. THAT IS ALL GRASSHOPPER.
KAYNE
Kayne, you are a piece of work. Honestly. Do you have a clue what you are talking about?
Why would you "state an opinion" that has ZERO to do with a given situation?
What kind of a parent would EVER EVEN TRY to take a child from the other parent. Have you read ANY FUCKING THING THAT I HAVE POSTED? I am the one who was constantly dragged into court to try and have custody taken from me! OVER AND OVER AND OVER AGAIN - I NEVER ASKED THE COURT FOR CUSTODY, YET I WAS AWARDED IT EVERY SINGLE TIME AND I STILL SHARED ABOVE AND BEYOND THE "PARENTING TIME" GIVEN ME - NOT THE OTHER WAY AROUND. I never have and I NEVER WILL drag my children through custody bullshit - NEVER. Everything I do, every decision I make is for the benefit of my children and has ZERO to do with self-interest. But seeing as how you admittedly don't know what you are talking about, I will thank you for "expressing your opinion".
I just hope to all that is good in the universe that you will NEVER know what it is like to be me and thousands of others in this country because of the way the divorce system is set up. I know you had a bad divorce and I know that your ex isn't exactly "model" perhaps but I personally know of one woman who had been through the "divorce ringer" for over 7 years, another for 6 and a third for over 4 (hers with no end in sight.) It isn't all "the man's" fault as many women are lied to by their attorney's as well - "We can get more money out of him for you." BULLSHIT - GET A JOB. The men are lied to, "of course you can get custody from her..."
All bullshit lies, the legal fees are skyhigh - BOTH PARENTS are financially ruined and the kids are TOTALLY FUCKED UP FROM A TUG OF WAR.
You people can say what you want. You aren't in my shoes and you don't have a fucking clue. You are not the ones watching your kids getting more and more fucked up because the two people who they love most are constantly fighting. Even though one is adversarial and the other only defending themselves, the end result is the same: THE KIDS GET FUCKED.
PS - In case you missed this I will post it AGAIN:
I AM LEAVING MY CHILDREN WITH THEIR FATHER AND I WILL NEVER EVER ALLOW MY GIRLS TO BE DRAGGED THROUGH COURT AGAIN.
I AM TAKING A BATH FINANCIALLY AND WILL MOST LIKELY LEAVE WITH NO MORE THAN A SUITCASE FULL OF BARE ASS.
I am thrilled that some of you fuckers have had "a little fun" at my expense. Bottom line is you think it can't happen to you? You are DEAD WRONG. But I will gladly go to my grave having been WRONG.