Who cheats more, men or women?

[1911]

Married chics in their 30's are easy to bag. They play me like a cheap banjo (they think). Not something I'm proud of but that's been my experience of late.

Later,

 

[Testoterone Tom]

I'm 100% true to my g/f, but, at the bar I work at, married women are throwing themselves at me, at least, once a week. All the hotties on a "girls night out" away from there b/f's also throw themselves at me. I think it's gross. A relationship means devotion to each other, not every one else. Unless of course, those are the terms of the relationship, you know "we see other people" kind of stuff. The swingers at my bar are the most laid back people, they're weird, but laid back. Anyway, at my bar, it's the women, alot of them too. It's wrong to cheat. Especially when married. What's so F$@!ing great about you, over me, that you get to have extra partners? Nothing, because if those arn't the agreed terms of the relationship, it's wrong. Someone is being taken advatage of and hurt. Don't do that to someone you "love".
Sorry, it struck a nerve, I'll get off my box now.

 

[GenetiKing]

When women cheat it usually stems from emotional issues (i.e. hubby paying no attention, commitment issues, low self-esteem, etc). Rarely will a woman cheat just for sexual gratification. They simply aren't geared that way.

A man, on the other hand, will cheat on his gf/wife simply for the sake of sex itself and the ego ramifications that follow (read my signature).

The issue of "Who cheats more often?" is really irrelevant. The twisted part is, as VictusDeus said, women are typically better deceivers. A man with a high propensity to cheat is much easier to identify than a woman with the same capability to be unfaithful.

And this isn't me bullshitting either. I've been cheated on and I've done the cheating too (although not both in the same relationship) so I speak from, at least some, experience.

 

[Citruscide]

Who knows why people cheat, I am many things, but I am not a cheater. Maybe it is an emotional thing... people sometimes don't get enough emotional attention, so they look for it elsewhere... perhaps sex with someone else is this outlet... they feel horrible afterward because they didn't get that emotional satisfaction and they feel guilty about cheating on their partners.

C

 

[Taps]

Taps: are you ready?

Yes...and willing & able.

Will you respect me in the morning?

 

[Freak Show]

your mama

 

[big4life]

I think that the people who cheat need to just grow up. If you're not happy in a relationship just admit it to your partner and either work on what's wrong or go your seperate ways. Too many people want the comfort of a relationship, and the excitement they might find elsewhere. Well guess what! You can't have both without causing a lot of pain to the people that you are supposed to love.

I've been cheated on, and it's no fun. You spend all your time trying to figure out what you did to cause their cheating. Then one day you realize that it wasn't you, it was your girlfriend that betrayed your trust and didn't respect you enough to be honest.

 

[GenetiKing]

I think that the people who cheat need to just grow up.

It doesn't have anything to do with maturity.

Cheating feeds the ego in men.

Cheating is the response of the emotionally-constrained female.

It's about that simple.

 

[starfish]

Cheating is for the weak

If you want to have sex with several people- stay single. Don't hurt someone else because you lack the spine to be honest.

 

[GenetiKing]

Cheating is for the weak

Mother nature disagrees with you.

Evolution has designed us so that the stronger, more fit, more adaptable of us are capable of contributing more to the gene pool than the weaker of us.

From that standpoint, the promiscuous male or female will have more lasting implications on the genetic profile of a given species. Streamlining if you will.

Doesn't say much for monogamy does it?