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When you get angry does you personality REALLY change?

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I have gotten nicer as I get older, I used to be really mean if I felt some one was a bad person

I kinda learned gradually that "turning the other cheek" really is the way for so many reasons ( mostly to not let bad control you)

But when i used to get angry I felt very bad


do you change much when you get mad? and how to you deal with it?
 
WhistleBritches said:
???

I have gotten nicer as I get older, I used to be really mean if I felt some one was a bad person

I kinda learned gradually that "turning the other cheek" really is the way for so many reasons ( mostly to not let bad control you)

But when i used to get angry I felt very bad


do you change much when you get mad? and how to you deal with it?
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When I get mad, I get very aggressive. All you can do is practice self-control. It didnt work for me. I'm still aggressive when I get mad.
 
WhistleBritches said:
do you change much when you get mad? and how to you deal with it?
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Not really. I just tend to analyze why I am mad and what can be done about the situation at hand. Blowing up or emotional excess are usually unwarrented and do nothing to help.



:cow:
 
samoth said:
Not really. I just tend to analyze why I am mad and what can be done about the situation at hand. Blowing up or emotional excess are usually unwarrented and do nothing to help.



:cow:
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Samoth iz da philosopher :)
 
samoth said:
Not really. I just tend to analyze why I am mad and what can be done about the situation at hand. Blowing up or emotional excess are usually unwarrented and do nothing to help.



:cow:
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good point

I have notices that many smart people do what you do, they see that their is a bad interaction but then defer to being rational versus irrational.
 
the_alcatraz said:
No. I'm a teddy bear.

Only if they come after my family or wife. I would mass massacre their entire social circle.
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yeah I used to be very much like that

I guess i asked the question because I try to think that anger is for a reason and maybe in some exceptional case you can use it.......

but when is the key
 
WhistleBritches said:
???

I have gotten nicer as I get older, I used to be really mean if I felt some one was a bad person

I kinda learned gradually that "turning the other cheek" really is the way for so many reasons ( mostly to not let bad control you)

But when i used to get angry I felt very bad


do you change much when you get mad? and how to you deal with it?
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when i was younger i had very little control and i was very emotionally

immature. my anger could turn to rage and sometimes violence would

ensue. i always felt poorly after these bouts. sometimes guilt, remorse
and confusion would consume me. i felt trapped in my anger.

after many years of self awareness, spirituality and therapy, i am no

longer like this. i am able to respond to stressful situations with civility

and empathy for the offending party.

i can still be a bit short fused......i am after all, a highly strung guy.

this alpha male shit can work for and against you. i just don't have

to always be "right" or the "winner" anymore and i have given up

the illusion of control. i live life now, i don't control it lol


great question WB
:)
 
layinback said:
when i was younger i had very little control and i was very emotionally

immature. my anger could turn to rage and sometimes violence would

ensue. i always felt poorly after these bouts. sometimes guilt, remorse
and confusion would consume me. i felt trapped in my anger.

after many years of self awareness, spirituality and therapy, i am no

longer like this. i am able to respond to stressful situations with civility

and empathy for the offending party.

i can still be a bit short fused......i am after all, a highly strung guy.

this alpha male shit can work for and against you. i just don't have

to always be "right" or the "winner" anymore and i have given up

the illusion of control. i live life now, i don't control it lol


great question WB
:)
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Good answer.
 
WOW LayinBack Awomse response K to yu!

there is a Pamphlet called "we can work it out" which has some pretty obvious yet cool ideas particularly about empathy and forcing your self to really hear the other side no matter how irrational THEY may be
 
layinback said:
great question WB :)
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really is a good question!

made me think, because I can't remember the last time I was mad.

I get angry at situations and disappointed, but don't recall being mad at anyone for many years now.
 
WhistleBritches said:
I guess i asked the question because I try to think that anger is for a reason and maybe in some exceptional case you can use it.......

but when is the key
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Anger can be very useful and motivating and stuff. It's all in controlling it and not letting it overwhelm one -- and using it to push oneself, to get one step closer to a goal, or what have you.



:cow:
 
I noticed Picks presence has added many lols to peoples lives

and that just cant be bad

"its a good thing" as Marth Stewrat says
 
i think we are still operating on some evolutionary stuff

that is no longer useful to our species e.g. " the fight

or flight response"

some folk have poor central nervous system development

and terrible inborn temperaments. these are the people

with violent inclinations. it's also a learned behavior.

either way, it's up to the individual to do a check up

from the neck up and not harm other folks, verbally

or physically.
 
I must be stupid and unevolved.

I react with anger and violence when someone touches me aggressively. I can mouth off with the best of them but when there is contact, game over. I have a very long fuse usually and have learned to control my temper but physical contact with me or my friends and family elicits a very angry response.
 
I do a good job of controlling my anger and not breaking things, but today I snapped... Every goddamn lawn mower that I use breaks on me after a few uses... The fuckers will start and then die in a few seconds.. I got so pissed today that I flipped the son of a bitch in the air and broke 2 wheels off it when it landed.
 
YES!!!! absofuckinlutely....I wear my emotions on my sleeve..so when I'm agrivated everyone around me seems to notice...but then again..I've been told time and time again I always look angry and unapproachable even when I'm not angry....I've been told or even heard that I look or seem intimadating...I really can't figure it out myself..maybe its my anxiety..I don't trust anybody....only family and close friends....maybe I need help???
 
conundrum said:
YES!!!! absofuckinlutely....I wear my emotions on my sleeve..so when I'm agrivated everyone around me seems to notice...but then again..I've been told time and time again I always look angry and unapproachable even when I'm not angry....I've been told or even heard that I look or seem intimadating...I really can't figure it out myself..maybe its my anxiety..I don't trust anybody....only family and close friends....maybe I need help???
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join the club lol

I got hit by a car a bit ago which shook me in many ways
in particular i was amazed about who actually cared about me, and to that point I wrote almost 99% of people off

in other words bro, my own negativity ( which was rightfully present but used Indiscriminately) was in danger blinding me from good people.

I got burnt too but thats not the fault of NEW people
or old ones that care for you who maybe have not been perfect but not out to harm you.
 
I hold a postion of management to some extent..but in most cases that doesn't really matter...I guess its the way I talk or speak to people when I'm angry or aggrivated...even when I speak to family members...I come across condisending, even when I don't mean too...this is something I've been working on for some time, but it seems to get the better of me mostly when I don't want it to....
 
conundrum said:
I hold a postion of management to some extent..but in most cases that doesn't really matter...I guess its the way I talk or speak to people when I'm angry or aggrivated...even when I speak to family members...I come across condisending, even when I don't mean too...this is something I've been working on for some time, but it seems to get the better of me mostly when I don't want it to....
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well, you still have THE best ava on ef, bro.



who is that and where are more pics available of her?
 
If you love them tell your self its ok to SHOW them Love in fact its your DUTY to do so.....

the only one stopping you is you

you can even say" I am a jerk but I LOVE you"

:)
 
layinback said:
well, you still have THE best ava on ef, bro.



who is that and where are more pics available of her?
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It my girl...lol....more to cum..more to cummmmmm.......lol

I luv the bum...I luv the bum.....and the camel.....oh ya...oh ya...
 
My friend was over last week and commented on how nice I have been lately. It’s not like me, usually I’m a fuckin prick (not to friends) to peeps I don’t really know. I honestly think this cycle has a reverse effect, making me nice. Some old lady was crossing the street and had a hard time getting her cart up over the curb, I jumped out of my car, ran across 4 lanes and lifted her cart. Never before would I have done that. I also donated a car I had to a friend’s girl friend that is moving here from Kansas, she sold her car and needed one. I just gave it to him and didn’t ask for money (he offered to pay me). I’m getting soft in my old age.
 
the_alcatraz said:
Bloody fighting for no reason aggressive.
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And you juice? Not a good combo bro
 
samoth said:
Not really. I just tend to analyze why I am mad and what can be done about the situation at hand. Blowing up or emotional excess are usually unwarrented and do nothing to help.



:cow:
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+1

However, I do often let my emotions 'go', so if I am really annoyed, angry, grumpy I do things like

-train harder

-clean flat (my kitchen floor has taken some serious spankings)

-if it is REALLY bad, I take my glass recycling to the bins and THROW it in, for some reason that sound of smashing glass really releases any anger

-I go RoooooooOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAARRRR!
 
You know when I get mad because I get quiet. I will give people the silent treatment. I try to avoid drama so I just keep my mouth shut and keep my distance.
 
layinback said:
when i was younger i had very little control and i was very emotionally

immature. my anger could turn to rage and sometimes violence would

ensue. i always felt poorly after these bouts. sometimes guilt, remorse
and confusion would consume me. i felt trapped in my anger.

after many years of self awareness, spirituality and therapy, i am no

longer like this. i am able to respond to stressful situations with civility

and empathy for the offending party.

i can still be a bit short fused......i am after all, a highly strung guy.

this alpha male shit can work for and against you. i just don't have

to always be "right" or the "winner" anymore and i have given up

the illusion of control. i live life now, i don't control it lol


great question WB
:)
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Some basic biology that is a bit of 'brain candy' :)

I am not sure what age it happens at, but while we are adolescents, our brains are still developing, in particular, the frontal cortex, which is all about 'impulse control'.

That is one reason why so many teens are a bit socially inept and throw such stroppy wobblers, they don't really have the ability to control their behaviour, so if in a push comes to shove high emotional situation, push does come to shove.

It is fantastic you learned and had a lot of personal growth from being an 'high strung' teen, but some of it was in your basic biology, so don't beat yourself up about it (if you are that is) :)
 
conundrum said:
YES!!!! absofuckinlutely....I wear my emotions on my sleeve..so when I'm agrivated everyone around me seems to notice...but then again..I've been told time and time again I always look angry and unapproachable even when I'm not angry....I've been told or even heard that I look or seem intimadating...I really can't figure it out myself..maybe its my anxiety..I don't trust anybody....only family and close friends....maybe I need help???
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+1
 
conundrum said:
It my girl...lol....more to cum..more to cummmmmm.......lol

I luv the bum...I luv the bum.....and the camel.....oh ya...oh ya...
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OMG!!! it that really your lady?


WOW!!! she has the PERFECT ASS and the camel toe is

waaaay appropriate and HOTT!!! if it really is your gal,

i mean that with the upmost respect and you should not

be posting here, you should be munching \ plunging that

thing every 2 - 3 hours. god fucking damn.
 
layinback said:
OMG!!! it that really your lady?


WOW!!! she has the PERFECT ASS and the camel toe is

waaaay appropriate and HOTT!!! if it really is your gal,

i mean that with the upmost respect and you should not

be posting here, you should be munching \ plunging that

thing every 2 - 3 hours. god fucking damn.
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Well at my age once a day is good for me....plus I think I still have some affects of a low libido from the propecia I was on 8 months ago..but I plan on getting some tests done to make sure my levels are good....but things are good...sometimes I get anxiety to constantly perform because she is so young.
 
conundrum said:
Well at my age once a day is good for me....plus I think I still have some affects of a low libido from the propecia I was on 8 months ago..but I plan on getting some tests done to make sure my levels are good....but things are good...sometimes I get anxiety to constantly perform because she is so young.
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what a problem lol.

you should post some pics of this lovely lady.

i hope everything is ok with your test levels.

you might wanna consider HRT.
 
WhistleBritches said:
???

I have gotten nicer as I get older, I used to be really mean if I felt some one was a bad person

I kinda learned gradually that "turning the other cheek" really is the way for so many reasons ( mostly to not let bad control you)

But when i used to get angry I felt very bad


do you change much when you get mad? and how to you deal with it?
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im exactly the same, but i feel like as iv "turned the cheek" more and more, im letting people get away with shit i really should just hit them for or yell in their face about.

im not too concerned with being a "good person" anymore, because no matter how good you think you are, to someone else you could still be a huge prick.

lately im trying to choose the option ill regret the least. if that means telling someone off, then ill (try) and do it
 
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