Whats more impressive ladies, a super nice car w a nice condo or vice versa?

[karson]

hey

Smalls, then honestly, I think you may have sold yourself short. I saw your photos, and read your posts. You should have not settled for a person who may dream of a great life, but lacks ambition, desire, work ethic and drive to reach their dreams. Seriousley, when your kids go to college, do want them to struggle to make ends meet and comprimise their grades. Your whole life will be a little more uphill because of his choice to settle for mediocrisy and your to settle for him. You deserve the world sista, now go out and get it. Just a thought

 

[smallmovesal]

who said life with a little less money is mediocre? you. who said i won't be able to make ends meet either? you. who says that either of us are always going to be a little bit poorer than most? you. who says he has no work ethic? you.

i think that's small-minded to dismiss people because of their current income.. do you ask for pay stubs when you ask for dates?

just a thought.

 

[karson]

hey

smalls, I do not put down people for their financial status. I am not rich by no means at all. The fact is though, if your boyfriend of 6 years settles in his carrer choice due to lack of ambition, that will in turn affect you in a negative mannor. I would work a thousand hours a week just to avoid the chance my loved ones may one day have to suffer for even a moment. Thats the difference, its not a love of money, its a dying need to be my best for the people that count on me. You need to realize theres a difference of doing all you can and failing and going half ass thru life so your not overstressed. Not starting a war, like the conversation, interesting to see the different views, K

 

[Jimsbbc]

money = The Devil

 

[karson]

yo

steel beast, the M5 is so tight bro. I know the others you mentioned are better for the buck, but i love the BMW to much to go away from it.

 

[smallmovesal]

so you understand, my boyfriend is neither lazy, nor does he lack a work ethic. he has an education degree and he substitute teaches to supplement his income. he is a very talented classical/jazz musician who came upon his instrument of choice at the end of his first degree. he works very had and practices for HOURS daily, so much that i hardly see him. we believe that this will pay off in the end. and since the arts are so underfunded, we suspect that any symphony he manages to get into will not pay as well as it should. should he stop doing something he loves just because he might not ever be able to afford a luxury car? i don't think so. and i don't expect anything different for him, because i support him.

and i don't believe this will affect myself or my family adversely, i feel that his example will be a positive one for any children we may have.

 

[vixenbabe]

I'll NEVER understand why men think "material" things can replace love or buy love...Mystery to me!

 

[karson]

hey

smalls thats respectable. what do you call muscian that just broke up with his girlfriend? HOMELESS...JK good luck sweetheart, I do hope the best for you and him in life.

Vix, you ladies are the ones that put that idea into guys heads. Its cool, if I was a chick Id do the same.

 

[kitKat]

I'll be honest....a condo. It speaks of stablity.

 

[fistfullofsteel]

I have an awesome personality, but i'm 6ft tall 125lbs. I have a pinto, no wait, i don't have a pinto. i have a huffy bike. i work as janitor for minimum wage. i have scars all over my face. I have an awesome personality though, so if any ladies are interested shoot me an email or pm.