what would you do when a relationship isn't enough?

[chris302001]

dear god

 

[nydj66]

As Clint Eastwood said, "Deserves got nothin' to do with it, (BLAM!)"

Put on your big girl panties and set him free. There's nothing wrong with you except the fact you're trying to make something out of nothing.

You sayin' Ebony's put on some weight since she entered into a relationship?

 

[trex74]

You sayin' Ebony's put on some weight since she entered into a relationship?

Ya but "Put on your itty bitty frillys" doesn't exactly have the same buck up and go gittum ring to it.

 

[nangiggles]

You sayin' Ebony's put on some weight since she entered into a relationship?

that's not what she said, that's what you said....

 

[WillKill]

Just end it!

 

[Redrocker13]

I don't claim to know you or your situation, so I won't pretend to. I will say that is sounds like you have some soul searching to do on your own. If's your BF's a great guy, yet somehow you feel you cannot reciprocate his love and affection, then you need to be honest with him.

Back in the day, folks used to "learn to love one another", those days are dead. We live in a time where frustrated folks end up doing desperate things for a variety of reasons. If you love him, and if you value him as a friend, then you owe it to him to be honest.

...with that said. Also, don't use this as a means to keep him on the back burner while you are figuring out what you want. It's not fair to either of you.

No matter what your decision, be strong of heart as you are in mind and body.

Excellent counsel!

 

[nangiggles]

Just end it!

The posting, the thread, the relationship or life?

 

[Sub-Zero]

I don't claim to know you or your situation, so I won't pretend to. I will say that is sounds like you have some soul searching to do on your own. If's your BF's a great guy, yet somehow you feel you cannot reciprocate his love and affection, then you need to be honest with him.

Back in the day, folks used to "learn to love one another", those days are dead. We live in a time where frustrated folks end up doing desperate things for a variety of reasons. If you love him, and if you value him as a friend, then you owe it to him to be honest.

...with that said. Also, don't use this as a means to keep him on the back burner while you are figuring out what you want. It's not fair to either of you.

No matter what your decision, be strong of heart as you are in mind and body.

omg a female giving legit/useful dating advice.

pinch me

 

[princesa]

and when its too much.

question 2:
is it better to have one that is lacking or one thats kinda overwhelming?

I'd end it. If it doesn't feel right (you start second guessing)then it's not the one for you.

If no kids are involved of course.

 

[redshirt27se]

so he's a little bitch and you want a real man.



only you like getting your ass worshipped, so you aren't ready to leave him just yet.