what to do guys?

[theoak01]

Ok something isn't right here.....You went and "had fun" but you don't think you'll pursue her? So how'd you fuck it up and/or what happened?

didnt fuck it up,we had a blast,still hang out all the time,go for food together after work etc.

i just didnt think i got a sign saying "make a move stupid"

so im gonna take pamelas advice and keep my eyes open for her to make a move.

 

[digimon7068]

im in a weird spot,ive got this friend,ive always been into her,and now shes got a job with the company im with and on the job im currently on,we have been spending tons of time together having a blast and im liking her alot more every day.

im not to sure how to read her though,not sure if she thinks of me as only a friend or what.

now im shy,dont know how to approach this,nor do i wanna make work weird as we sometimes travel for months on end and that would suck.

how would you guys approach this?

i dont want any bullshit remarks by the way,only straight up answers.

Ummm. . .like you just did. . .only to her instead of us. . .honesty will take you a long way in life. Be careful though, office romances are almost always trickier. . .some companies even have rules against it, especially if one person could end up being the other one's boss. I've seen a lot of very successful ones, though. In this busy-ass world of ours, it's hard to meet/spend time with people outside of work.

Proceed with caution. . .but, proceed.

 

[theoak01]

thanks bro,its def hard in my line of work as we are on assignment for months at a time working 7 days a week 12-18hrs a day.

however both of us get along great,ive known her before she came on with the company and neither of us plan this as our career we want to be cops,this is a stepping stone