What is your biggest character flaw?

[jack sparrow]

In no particular order:

1) Addictive personality. While I've mostly conquered it, I still have a hard time doing anything I enjoy in moderation.

2) I have a hard time being confrontational when I really need to be. It's so easy for me to stand up for my friends, and so hard for me to stand up for myself and hold people accountable for the wrongs they've done me.

3) I have a fortress, not just a wall, around me. There's no method to getting past it...either you clear my army of self defense mechanisms right off the bat, or you don't.

4) Type a, type a, type a. I expect nothing less than perfection of myself in everything I do, and I know it can be exhausting to be around.

I think ATW scaled that wall 1000 times over via kitten pics.

Sounds easy enough.

 

[jnevin]

In no particular order:

1) Addictive personality. While I've mostly conquered it, I still have a hard time doing anything I enjoy in moderation.

2) I have a hard time being confrontational when I really need to be. It's so easy for me to stand up for my friends, and so hard for me to stand up for myself and hold people accountable for the wrongs they've done me.

3) I have a fortress, not just a wall, around me. There's no method to getting past it...either you clear my army of self defense mechanisms right off the bat, or you don't.

4) Type a, type a, type a. I expect nothing less than perfection of myself in everything I do, and I know it can be exhausting to be around.

Pretty much me to a "T".

I'm also loyal to a fault. It's really come back to bite me in the ass a few times.

 

[jack sparrow]

I tried that whole "wall" crap. Made me lonely.

 

[nefertiti]

I think ATW scaled that wall 1000 times over via kitten pics.

Sounds easy enough.

Ha! Nah, he hasn't. I am certainly fond of him, but no one can scale the wall over the internet....this is still "safe" for me because none of you actually know me in real life.

 

[puddlemonkey]

I tried that whole "wall" crap. Made me lonely.

Hookers

 

[jack sparrow]

Ha! Nah, he hasn't. I am certainly fond of him, but no one can scale the wall over the internet....this is still "safe" for me because none of you actually know me in real life.

I found that the bigger the wall I built, the more of a miserable fuck I became.

I missed a lot.

That's not to say that I'm referring to anything in the traditional sense, but I missed a lot of what I wanted.

 

[nefertiti]

I tried that whole "wall" crap. Made me lonely.

It is at times...but it's so deeply subconscious that I doubt it will ever change.

 

[nefertiti]

Pretty much me to a "T".

I'm also loyal to a fault. It's really come back to bite me in the ass a few times.

I am too...but I don't consider it a flaw in my character, but that in one of those who have not deserved my loyalty. I've said it here before, and I'll say it again...I'm not going to let bad people change who I am.

 

[velvett]

My expectations are too high (for myself as well as others) so failure is almost always a final result.

 

[jack sparrow]

I'm not going to let bad people change who I am.

Then what are you gong to let them do? Live in your mind, so deep seeded that it will probably never change?