Well, I (ballet gal) know exactly what I want. (I'm apparently not allowed to post under my own name without paying some sort of fee, and am too cheap for that.) I believe we all want different things. I don't need gifts or money. I have my own money. Not a great deal, but my daughter and I have survived nicely on it for twelve years. I like someone to do the mundane things I hate doing. Empty the dishwasher, hang up the clothes in the dryer I left on my way to work, pick up dinner once in a while on the way home. Biteme is more attentive and loving than anyone I've ever known, and I'm not use to it. I like it, but initially I was suspicious of it. He's a helluv a lot nicer than me.