what do you do to get over a breakup?

[thelocal]

i went threw a breakup recently,the only girl i acutly liekd and had love for.just sucks being heart broken..i dont wanan do the whole find a new chick to get over the old chick,just not me

 

[ceo]

Find a bunch of new chicks. Don't settle for just one. Go out and bang a bunch of broads and just have fun. Have a good time. Hang out with your buddies. Just be a charming, funny, witty, good looking, confident guy with a great body and chicks will throw themselves at you.

 

[Whiskey]

i went threw a breakup recently,

through.

Completely agree with ceo, meet, bang, talk to as many other women as possible. Even if you already know them!

Whiskey

 

[cindylou]

Too bad there isn't an OTC heartache pain reliever. Sorry to hear about the breakup. :x

 

[miplank]

I get drunk and post on EF

 

[nangiggles]

Too bad there isn't an OTC heartache pain reliever. Sorry to hear about the breakup. :x

it's called rum....

 

[calveless wonder]

depends how you're built. some people (like CEO) will feel better by going out and banging a bunch of chicks. but to be honest, people like him usually aren't all that heart broken to begin with. The whole hooking up with other chicks thing can make it worse especially if you have a tendency to compare other girls to the girl you just broke up with. The only way that work is if the new chick is an upgrade.

IMHO usually when you feel like that you don't really want to deal with any new female at all. so just focus on your life and improving it. Whether it's work,in the gym, a new hobby etc. You'll improve your life and eventually when you stop feeling so shitty, you'll open up a lot more avenues to meet new(and higher quality) females because you're in a better position than you were originally.

Also try to avoid being alone too much. Be around good friends and go out and do shit. the less more time you have alone, the more time you'll get sucked into thinking about your past relationship. new experiences also help replace old memories that you become attached to

 

[cindylou]

it's called rum....

lol... okay a pain reliever with no side effects

 

[perico13]

If you had real feelings for her is gonna be hard but. This might not sound too nice but really bro the best thing is a bad ass fuck. Find a girl hate fuck the shit out of her and you'll feel better be single for a while bro and love will find you once it does hang on to it. Best of luck

 

[thelocal]

depends how you're built. some people (like CEO) will feel better by going out and banging a bunch of chicks. but to be honest, people like him usually aren't all that heart broken to begin with. The whole hooking up with other chicks thing can make it worse especially if you have a tendency to compare other girls to the girl you just broke up with. The only way that work is if the new chick is an upgrade.

IMHO usually when you feel like that you don't really want to deal with any new female at all. so just focus on your life and improving it. Whether it's work,in the gym, a new hobby etc. You'll improve your life and eventually when you stop feeling so shitty, you'll open up a lot more avenues to meet new(and higher quality) females because you're in a better position than you were originally.

Also try to avoid being alone too much. Be around good friends and go out and do shit. the less more time you have alone, the more time you'll get sucked into thinking about your past relationship. new experiences also help replace old memories that you become attached to

i would have to go wiht this advice mate..thank you for everyone posting but i just dont have it in me to go bang some random pussy..thats not what i really want...ha rum?naw ima pass on that im an ex acholic i dont drink anymore..