Soft headed? Soft hearted? Soft bodies?
I can accept any of them as long as the person who owns them doesn't go around making excuses. If you're stupid, just be like Forrest Gump and own it. If you're too easy on other people, fine, admit it and let someone else be the whip. If you're fat, work on changing it or revel in it and hook up with someone who appreciates it.
Takes all kinds to make a world. Variety is what keeps things spinning.