What are some "nice" ways of telling a woman she is fat??

[heatherrae]

OMG i think so too. Its soooo annoying. So are men obsessed about it too. Thats why I'm attracted to the average joe. I dont want some nasty overeating glutton but dont want the food police either.

Yeah, some men are like that too. I don't like men like that. I tend to date average to a little better than average men. I love a good personality, and it is nearly impossible to find a really great looking guy who has a great personality.

 

[cindylou]

See - here is where this gets messed up. We are talking about "fat" women - not women with curves. Two different things. Curvy women are hot as hell. Curvy is how a woman should be. The ones that look like 12 year old boys are just gross. But when men and women start to call curvy women fat - that's when you cause eating disorders. Fat is when you can't tie your shoes without coming up for air.

or you do the "side tie!!"

Have you ever seen anyone do that? lolololololo!!!

They lift their leg up just enought to tie the tie on the side of the shoe. hahaha

 

[heatherrae]

Oh bullshit. It's skin type that has something to do with that too.

yeah, I know. My mom had 4 children. I was 10 pounds at birth. She didn't have one single stretch mark on her belly. She had her last two in her late thirties, too. Hopefully, I inherited her skin elasticity...lol.

 

[reno240]

or you do the "side tie!!"

Have you ever seen anyone do that? lolololololo!!!

They lift their leg up just enought to tie the tie on the side of the shoe. hahaha

I haven't seen that one... LOL!!

I like it when women will just be standing there and they pick their leg up and drape around their neck and tie their shoes. Ever see that one?

 

[blueta2]

Your son is onto something!

Women who are absolutely obsessed with weight are annoying as hell. I have one girl who asks me every after every Dr's appointment how much weight I've gained. Not only does she obsess with her own weight, she obsesses over mine and everyone else's. It comes off as petty and silly. I mentioned that i was happy that I haven't gotten any stretch marks on my belly yet from pregnancy. Her response was, "Oh, well you will. You have gained too much not to get any."

I'm like this and I annoy myself. My b/f wants to slap me in the chops when I talk about my weight all the time.
I only became this way when I lost a lot of weight and worked out like a mad-dog. I was terrfied to gain it back so I obsessed.
I'm working on not caring so much.........so I just ate cookies for breakfast ;-)

 

[heatherrae]

I haven't seen that one... LOL!!

I like it when women will just be standing there and they pick their leg up and drape around their neck and tie their shoes. Ever see that one?

I went to a legal seminar the other day and another female attorney pointed at my shoe and said, "your shoe is untied." I said "it is?" LOL. (Can't see my feet.) She tied my shoe for me. GOD BLESS HER.

 

[cindylou]

I'm like this and I annoy myself. My b/f wants to slap me in the chops when I talk about my weight all the time.
I only became this way when I lost a lot of weight and worked out like a mad-dog. I was terrfied to gain it back so I obsessed.
I'm working on not caring so much.........so I just ate cookies for breakfast ;-)

me too. I'm finding that there is a balance. When I diet or obsess too much about controlling my food intake and weight I will make up for it in other areas of my life........ A good balance overall has been good to me.

 

[heatherrae]

I'm like this and I annoy myself. My b/f wants to slap me in the chops when I talk about my weight all the time.
I only became this way when I lost a lot of weight and worked out like a mad-dog. I was terrfied to gain it back so I obsessed.
I'm working on not caring so much.........so I just ate cookies for breakfast ;-)

Cookies for breakfast? lol. A girl after my own heart.

 

[cindylou]

I haven't seen that one... LOL!!

I like it when women will just be standing there and they pick their leg up and drape around their neck and tie their shoes. Ever see that one?

hehhehehe

nope. sorry. cant say that i have lol

 

[reno240]

I went to a legal seminar the other day and another female attorney pointed at my shoe and said, "your shoe is untied." I said "it is?" LOL. (Can't see my feet.) She tied my shoe for me. GOD BLESS HER.

The wife is starting to get to that point - it's funny because I haven't gotten used to the fact that she can't really pick things up anymore. Used to be she dropped it - she picks it up. Now I have to, but most of the time I am not paying attention and I just keep on walking. oops. I'll get into the groove right about towards the end.