First, funny how this thread seemed to go off on a tangent.
1. My lawyer was also my brothers and my mothers. My brother is getting sole custody and my mother was proven innocent of child neglect brought on by my brothers ex. So, when she tells me I have a strong case I believe her.
2. She is putting them in a morally corrupt environment, teaching them it is okay to lie and cheat on your spouse when you don't like the situation, she beats the children on occasion, I don't mean a spanking, I mean like today she hit my 10 year old in the head for no good reason other than she lost her cool. She is trying to remove them from their only known and memorable environment for the last 7 years, remove them from their school, their friends etc. The courts in AZ do not take kindly to that.
Also, she has never once been involved in with them for school, the doctor etc. have an entire school system (yes, I do mean the entire school) and part of the high school staff and teachers that will speak on my behalf to have the kids remain here. She is trying to split the children up, again AZ courts do not take kindly to that.
And most importantly, both children have stated and will state if needed that they want to remain here with me. The courts give considerable weight to this.
3. She is not moving out of state, but rather 90 miles away to a shit hole of a town
4. She will not pay any of the medical expenses and of the two times our youngest ended up in the emergency room she refused to come out either time or pay for her portion. The last time just last week, when she refused and I heard her on the phone tell him she wasn't going to come out and see him, upset him so badly they had to give him Adavar to calm him down.
She even told my older son that not only was it not her idea to have him or his brother, but she never wanted kids and it was my idea alone to make her have them.
This a bitch in every sense. She is morally corrupt, ethically corrupt, mentally unstable, and couldn't keep her legs crossed if they were glued and stitched together. She has even admitted that she cannot afford to live on her own.
Do I think I can win? Do I think I will? Yes, I do and she get exactly what she has wanted, no kids and a stinky fat bastard for a live in pimp.