Well, my ex is is under the impression she can...

[Bikini Mod]

...take my kids and move and there is nothing I can do about it. Well, since we have joint legal custody she can't. In fact, I talked with my lawyer today and she informed me that we have a strong case to get full custody of the kids and she will have to pay me child support.

I sure hope that is the case. I don't even care about support, I just want my kids away from her. She can move anywhere she wants, just not with my kids and she needs to learn she is not the all powerful, hear me roar I am woman. She actually said that to me once, hear me roar, I'm woman. I about passed out from laughing so hard.

Of course, your lawyer told you that, otherwise you would not give him/her gobs of cash.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Ugh.

Don't get me started.

Stomp her ass.

That whole system is so fucked up, someone needs to pull the rug out from under all these peeps that abuse the family courts.

Funny, I have been saying this exact same thing and the vast majority here at elite seem to have other opinions about the topic.

 

[Smurfy]

I had to go to court to get approval for moving with my son out of state, and I have sole custody.

 

[Bikini Mod]

I had to go to court to get approval for moving with my son out of state, and I have sole custody.

That is because you are a decent human being. What would have happened if you moved? Seriously.... would you have lost custody?

I dont think so.

There would have just been a hassle, that is IF he wanted to pursue the issue legally. And even then, what could a court have done?

Realistically - not much.

 

[Forge]

No, that would be bikinimom's exhusband because he actually DID this. And guess what? Even though we went to court to stop him from moving, the judge said, "If he wants to move, then let him. If the kids don't want to live with him then why should the court stop him from buying a bigger home." (that was over an hour away from me and my family).

Only the judge didn't count on the fact that the kids all refused to go to school...

So my ex was forced to give the kids back to me because apparantly it is a major NO NO for you kids not to go to school.

That was in Sep of 05.

My ex moved back to the original township in Jan 06 so the judge SU SPONTE gave the kids back to my ex half the time even though we overwhelmed the court with documented evidence that the children were prospering in my care. Even though I offered him midweek visitations, he declined opting instead to see the kids three weekends out of the month from Sep through Jan.

To this day the judge (yes, it is in the transcripts) blames me for *bankrupting my poor ex* by forcing him to move.

You got money to burn Chesty? Go for it.... But you know and I know that you are just spinning your wheels. ANYTIME a lawyer promises you "you have a strong case to get full custody of your kids" they are full of shit as you never know if the judge has their head up their ass or not...

How old are you children now and more importantly, do they WANT to live with you fulltime?

My younger three are nearly 11, 12 and nearly 14 they all want to live with me DESPERATELY. Guess what? I can't even talk to them.

Unless the woman is out an out putting them through a brick wall or starving them or having sex with them, there is no way you will get full custody from only having visitations with them (which is what I believe your arrangement was the last time you were posting).... and even then, it may not make a DAMNED bit of difference.

just sayin is all.

On the other hand Chesty, if full custody of the kids is really something you want and you think your ex isn't fit to have the kids, then I say go for it. Even if you don't win, it's better to try and find out than to not try and wonder if you could have for the rest of your (and your kids) life. Every situation is different, judges don't all rule the same.

It's kind of like getting a new PR, you will never get that record weight up if you don't even try it.

 

[Bikini Mod]

On the other hand Chesty, if full custody of the kids is really something you want and you think your ex isn't fit to have the kids, then I say go for it. Even if you don't win, it's better to try and find out than to not try and wonder if you could have for the rest of your (and your kids) life. Every situation is different, judges don't all rule the same.

It's kind of like getting a new PR, you will never get that record weight up if you don't even try it.

With all due respect, children are not "things" to be battled over. The harm and stress of such TO THE CHILDREN does not justify "just seeing". Anyone who has watched A CHILD go through this will echo my sentiments, not to mention the financial burden to BOTH parents. The emotional strain on BOTH PARENTS is also not quantifiable. All the way around - THE CHILD GETS FUCKED because their parents are so busy fucking each other (or one fucking the other while the second is forced to defend said fucking) that EVERYONE neglects that person thay they are supposed to be protecting.

I am sure that MOST MEN who challenge custody do it because they truly believe it to be in their child's best interest. Even my ex in his sick mind thinks this. You can read the link in my sig to gain better understanding of the lengths this man has gone to.

Ironically, I have found that the men who SHOULD HAVE sole custody often exhaust every avenue to keep the child in the mother's life as much as possible. (Men like JH1)

To challenge custody merely because an ex wants to move out of state doesn't mean that parent is unfit and should have custody challenged.

Chesty, since your brought it up:

Why is your ex unfit? And what have been your custodial arrangements thus far?

 

[Smurfy]

With all due respect, children are not "things" to be battled over. The harm and stress of such TO THE CHILDREN does not justify "just seeing". Anyone who has watched A CHILD go through this will echo my sentiments, not to mention the financial burden to BOTH parents. The emotional strain on BOTH PARENTS is also not quantifiable. All the way around - THE CHILD GETS FUCKED because their parents are so busy fucking each other (or one fucking the other while the second is forced to defend said fucking) that EVERYONE neglects that person thay they are supposed to be protecting.

I am sure that MOST MEN who challenge custody do it because they truly believe it to be in their child's best interest. Even my ex in his sick mind thinks this. You can read the link in my sig to gain better understanding of the lengths this man has gone to.

Ironically, I have found that the men who SHOULD HAVE sole custody often exhaust every avenue to keep the child in the mother's life as much as possible. (Men like JH1)

To challenge custody merely because an ex wants to move out of state doesn't mean that parent is unfit and should have custody challenged.

Chesty, since your brought it up:

Why is your ex unfit? And what have been your custodial arrangements thus far?

I agree 100%

 

[alien amp pharm]

If women didn't have a vagina there'd be no use for them

 

[Bikini Mod]

If women didn't have a vagina there'd be no use for them

Too bad your mother "was only a woman" too.

 

[alien amp pharm]

Too bad your mother "was only a woman" too.

My mother never lost her kids due to being a fuck up.

Sucks to be you.