UPDATE Sexless and Happy is Possible

[binö]

meh, dude is bullshitting you imo.
a lot to do with morals, but he let's a girl repeatedly suck him off? i'm sure jesus is very thrilled when this guy blows loads in wommenins' mouths.
honestly ditch this loser that is from the heart no hating you can do better than this

lol fug, sorry racheal the dude isn't a loser, i don't know him and shouldn't make that judgement...just seems that there is some sort of a issue w/sex with the dude.
i don't buy his morality line either...but it could be something as innocent as nerves, being a premature blower, maybe he has a std, etc.
or maybe it could be something more serious...either way, something is going to give here

 

[binö]

Why is it when a dude takes sex as a meaningful event other dudes crap on it?

i thought you said you didn't judge people, it wasn't your
right.
looks like judgement right here...

 

[cindylou]

Why is it when a dude takes sex as a meaningful event other dudes crap on it?

I agree. They've only been seeing each other for a month?! She has no reason not to trust what he says as true. Let him give her a reason not to trust him. Don't plant ideas in her mind.

 

[nydj66]

I agree. They've only been seeing each other for a month?! She has no reason not to trust what he says as true. Let him give her a reason not to trust him. Don't plant ideas in her mind.

Where's the fun in that?

 

[just...v]

i thought you said you didn't judge people, it wasn't your
right.
looks like judgement right here...

That was an observation not judgement. I said nothing about your charactor I just asked why you crapped on the guy. You are the one that called him a loser.


And I didn't say I never judge (or at least that's not what I meant) I just said it is not my right to do so.

 

[binö]

That was an observation not judgement. I said nothing about your charactor I just asked why you crapped on the guy. You are the one that called him a loser.


And I didn't say I never judge (or at least that's not what I meant) I just said it is not my right to do so.

looking back loser is extreme and it was early in the AM.
but something isn't right, that's why she made this thread cause she can sense it.
if i'm into a girl, i have no problem waiting, even multiple months, for sex.
so i'm not disrespecting that...but something is off with this bro and his reasoning.
could be innocent, could be more creepy.

 

[iggy]

honestly rach, there's nothing wrong with just asking him what's up....

If I were you i'd talk to him seriously about his religion.
Is that really the fact why he's avoiding sex?

just be honest with him.
if he's a good bro, he'll tell you the truth

 

[Strongbow]

Why is it when a dude takes sex as a meaningful event other dudes crap on it?

 

[binö]

That was an observation not judgement. I said nothing about your charactor I just asked why you crapped on the guy. You are the one that called him a loser.


And I didn't say I never judge (or at least that's not what I meant) I just said it is not my right to do so.

so, by your logic:
-if it is not your right to judge, and you do so anyway, one can ascertain that your judgements are false and unjust, since
you never had the right to make them.
and
-observations lead to judgments, you can't have one without the other

 

[Strongbow]

so, by your logic:
-if it is not your right to judge, and you do so anyway, one can ascertain that your judgements are false and unjust, since
you never had the right to make them.
and
-observations lead to judgments, you can't have one without the other

Here's an idea STFU