UPDATE Sexless and Happy is Possible

[needtogetarmy]

Unprotected, raw sex is the best, hands down. Condoms ruin the pleasure.

You can get STD tests online and at the pharmacy and they cover everything. A man should feel 100% comfortable getting that and doing it with his partner. If he is not willing to do that then you need another man. (I don't see this as an issue with Rach, I am just bringing it up.)

One of my good friends likes to sleep around. She got the herp from a guy in the military. I always warned her to not have unprotected sex unless they are willing to get tested. She is only 27 and is screwed.

For all of you folks out there just buy the damn kit and then have all the darn fun you want. It is that easy.

 

[needtogetarmy]

...oh, and abstinence, while being married, is the safest way to protect yourself! I speak from experience! lol

 

[redshirt27se]

If he's paranoid, why would he want to bareback and trust you take your pill regularly rather than just wear a rubber?


Something isn't adding up. Sounds like he wants to give you herpes and then trap you.

 

[nangiggles]

...oh, and abstinence, while being married, is the safest way to protect yourself! I speak from experience! lol

Cant really get pregnant when you have sex 12 times a year....

 

[just...v]

Cant really get pregnant when you have sex 12 times a year....

Uh...yea, girl you can.







Speaking from experience here.

 

[Rachel...lol]

We have talked about it - he's been with 6 women in his life, and it's something that is special to him and when he's ready he's ready - and it does have a lot to do with his morals; though as we discussed earlier sex can be interpreted as oral sex any way, not just penetration.

I'm going with he just wants to make sure we're going to be seeing each other for a while and this isn't a quick fling.

 

[nydj66]

We have talked about it - he's been with 6 women in his life, and it's something that is special to him and when he's ready he's ready - and it does have a lot to do with his morals; though as we discussed earlier sex can be interpreted as oral sex any way, not just penetration.

I'm going with he just wants to make sure we're going to be seeing each other for a while and this isn't a quick fling.

He means he's penetrated 6 women but gotten BJ's from hundreds.

 

[binö]

We have talked about it - he's been with 6 women in his life, and it's something that is special to him and when he's ready he's ready - and it does have a lot to do with his morals; though as we discussed earlier sex can be interpreted as oral sex any way, not just penetration.

I'm going with he just wants to make sure we're going to be seeing each other for a while and this isn't a quick fling.

meh, dude is bullshitting you imo.
a lot to do with morals, but he let's a girl repeatedly suck him off? i'm sure jesus is very thrilled when this guy blows loads in wommenins' mouths.
honestly ditch this loser that is from the heart no hating you can do better than this

 

[just...v]

Why is it when a dude takes sex as a meaningful event other dudes crap on it?

 

[nydj66]

Why is it when a dude takes sex as a meaningful event other dudes crap on it?

That's just what guys do.

You can't fault the mountain lion for chasing down the wapiti can you?