Ugh... got a copy of a subpeona in the mail today regarding my divorce...

[SpyWizard]

Some have court ordered mediation and others don't. I don't know of any that have arbitration.

yep.. sorry.. mediation is the correct word..

doh..

 

[alien amp pharm]

Why can't all ex wives be like me? I just wanted a divorce. I could have gotten child support in the amount of $600 a month for my kids but I waived my right to it. My attorney and all of my family thought I was crazy. I feel that when I have my kids, I can support them and when he has them he can do the same. If either of us needs something for the kids we help each other. We get along so good now. Before the divorce, it was HELL!!

There's nothing wrong with accepting child support, as long as it is fair. Unfortunatley I'd venture to say that a lot of people going thru a divorce ask for an outrageous amount as a weapon against the other person.

(and greed, everybody wants more money no matter how much it may hurt someone else)

 

[all the whey]

I got a better strategy:

Marry and divorce like 10 women, there won't be enough for any of them to be happy to chase you around for money.

Sure

Or, you could not get married at all. And, have hot young sluty girls over all the time like teh Kitteh man does.

 

[feisty11975]

There's nothing wrong with accepting child support, as long as it is fair. Unfortunatley I'd venture to say that a lot of people going thru a divorce ask for an outrageous amount as a weapon against the other person.

(and greed, everybody wants more money no matter how much it may hurt someone else)

I agree. The point that I was making was that, for 11 years, he always said that I could never make it without him. He thought for sure that I needed him. He tried to make me dependent upon him. Well, I guess I showed him wrong. HA Seriously though, if I am unable to get something that my kids need while they are with me, he helps and vice versa. We split school costs and anything else that is necessary. I pay daycare for my youngest. He doesn't cause his mom and new mother in law babysits for him. He covers the kids insurance and all medications. We work together. The kids suffer the most in divorces and I am trying to make it the easiest for them.

 

[jh1]

lol she gets a do-over for failing a drug test lol.





!!!

I admited to our past lifestyle upfront. She denied it.

I want her to get clean and be a mother, so I won't push for full custody unless she refuses to get clean or cannot stay clean.

It's not so much a do over as a chance to get / stay clean.

 

[coldblue1955]

maybe you two could work things out, a little love goes a long way buddy.

 

[InquisitivePsyche]

Everytime I get some correspondence on this bullshit I get all anxious and pissed off.

I swear my wif went to her attorney and yapped her bitch mouth about how it didn't matter how much it cost that her daddy would pay for it and now her attorney is riding the money train all over her.

Everything they attempt is just rediculous and unecessary - simply her attorney using the situation to line his pockets.

But I can't tell her that because she won't beleive me, and on top of it she'll take it as me being fearfull of their actions and jsut keep on keeping on.

Stupid.

Bitch.


(Shut it Ksharp... just shut it right now)

Yeah - the lawyer bullshit isn't any fun. I remember when my parents first got divorced they both had attorney's and then they realized how silly it was and got rid of them.

Adds more stress and takes away more $. I'd try to get custody of your kid. From what you tell us, your wife already scares me. LOL.

 

[jh1]

maybe you two could work things out, a little love goes a long way buddy.

No.

Too Late.

I am in love with Ilk's little sister now.

 

[Lestat]

maybe you two could work things out, a little love goes a long way buddy.

lmao! yeah listen up jh1, these are pearls of wisdom here!! hahahah

 

[gotmilk]

I am in love with Ilk's little sister now.

Whooaaa...link?