To call a girl...

[danielson]

bbwahahahaha

LMAO at HS, SG and frackal

yup


this wouldnt even be an issue with me unless some women werent so like they are. generally i dont give two hoots, but if you can tell shes the type of girl who likes to mindfuck you, then 2-3 days. screw a week.

generally ill just call. i suppose the same applies to women who meet a guy whos like that.

 

[kunta]

manny i subscribe to that site and my hands are thanking me

 

[Sassy69]

I'd just like to point out that if women were not generally stupid this wouldn't be an issue.

Frackel -

I want to respect your opinion as a male of the species and also as someone who I have seen go through some emotional situations these last few months, but I really take exception to your statement. I think its a cop-out and the sign of someone who is both immature and doesn't want to take the time to consider why people do the things that they do.

The reality is that you are fairly young, as and such I will be lenient in my judging of you by your statements. But seriously, I think the issue is that both men & women have been "conditioned" by society to act or react certain ways to this game we call dating. Additionally there is a level of maturity to be considered as well as each person's ability to honestly ask themselves if they are coming across clearly and not with mixed signals and also that their own emotions are not allowing them to consider the feelings or situations of the other person.

I think its been pretty well established that younger girls are not necessarily clear on what they want or expect from a dating situation, because they are getting confusing signals from society as to how they should act or they are rebelling against these signals. This is where both being in male-dominated society as well as being immature can make it really hard to be sure of what exactly is the correct way to respond. Also consider the nature of women in general - they are not stupid - but they will have a tendency to want to look for someone who has those characteristics of being a strong person who could take care of them.

For men, I think it is equally obvious that men do tend to be more concerned with the sex aspect ("tap dat ass") but also to maybe put a lot of emphasis on immediate emotions and not the long run. E.g. "I love her" -- but only been dating for a couple months. But she's not ready to commit because she has to balance the above mentioned uncertainties of what society dictates, as well as also having to probably get established in a career, etc.

I guess we spend forever discussing the generaly tendencies of both men & women due to age, social expectations, etc etc etc. But the point I'm trying to get to is that making generalizations like "girls are stupid" doesn't accomplish anything when you get down to dealing with individuals. Each person should be treated with the respect you would give to anyone you know (until they have demonstrated otherwise), and be straight up -- if you ask for a phone number and do get it, then make some sort of commitment such as "Can I call you at x time / day" or "When is a good time to call?" if you intend to call. Then do it. If you choose to leave it at "I"ll call you sometime", then its just been left open and then it does become an uncertain thing.

OK I'm off my soap box.

Obviously I just really hate when people make generalizations like that.

 

[kunta]

or if her number is 911-9302

 

[CN1]

well I dont know about where you guys live but in LA you dont even have to ask for the number if you are sexy and got game, you can just ask to fuck on the spot, and she will give you the number........but hell when you meet all you have to do is say when do you want to hook up, and they will say call me on such and such day.......guys you dont know how much coochie your missin out on in los angeles, its all over!

 

[MoneyBags]

well I dont know about where you guys live but in LA you dont even have to ask for the number if you are sexy and got game, you can just ask to fuck on the spot, and she will give you the number........but hell when you meet all you have to do is say when do you want to hook up, and they will say call me on such and such day.......guys you dont know how much coochie your missin out on in los angeles, its all over!

the kinds of girls you can fuck on the spot are not the type that you want to call later. you just fuck those chicks and forget about them. i also doubt that anyone wants any of that nasty compton pussy that your getting.

 

[CN1]

hey shitbags......your stupid..........I am in a relationship, and plus what would you know about any pussy in LA...........compton, wherever, the women are fine........and choclate as hell!!!!!

 

[MoneyBags]

hey shitbags......your stupid..........I am in a relationship, and plus what would you know about any pussy in LA...........compton, wherever, the women are fine........and choclate as hell!!!!!

you really would fuck anything with a pussy.

 

[Warik]

You must not date much....

You are correct.

In the past 3 years, I've tried dating probably 3 or 4 girls total. Few? Yes... but why is this relevant? It's relevant because they were all catastrophes. Coincidentally, I lived on other people's advice in that time.

However, now, with my girlfriend, I have received and acted upon roughly 0% of any advice I've received. Result? With her and very happy.

Point: Do whatever the fuck you want cuz if you're going to have to sit and ponder about what time to call her then you're doomed before even beginning.

-Warik

 

[Frackal]

Sassy:


I know..honestly, alot of my anti-women posts are done in partial jest. I'm old/wise/mature/immature/crazy/smart enough to know that gross generalizations are never accurate.

I guess lately I've seen alot of males getting their hearts broken by women who seem to be ruled by their flaky ever-changing estrogen levels...

I'm not saying that men aren't just as bad maybe in their own ways.


I will just have to rephrase my comment. My orginal comment was, 'women are generally stupid.' The better way to put that would be, many woman are generally stupid.

What can be said for someone who:

-Like men who treat them like shit, bitch about men who treat them like shit, yet leave the 'good men' for these same assholes.

-Must be 'balanced' in the dating game, you have to constantly play games to keep them interested, while you cannot show your full interest or they will become 'bored' with you.

-When you have an easier time of getting a woman by wearing a wedding ring, simply for the reason that you belong to another, and it becomes a self-justification for the woman by attempting to steal the married man away.

-Ever seen the Tao Of Steve? Very good dating-advice movie. Basically says, you have to show no interest in the woman, and because of that, she'll more or less want to sleep with you. And it's true.

-Is so flaky due to their emotions and whatever other issues that not even THEY know what they want. This is also an extremely common and undeniable fact.

- Many men are after sex yes, but it is the woman who controls when the man has sex. Women use this to gain money, power, status, favors, etc... Which sex is more deviant?

-SOME women expect equal rights as men, including sexual, political, buisness, etc...but if that's the case, then why are there woman-only gyms? Why are men in general still paying for dates?

I could continue.

I'm fully aware that just like everything in life, there are always exceptions to the norm.

I am also aware that men have their own categories of faults, but we are discussing women at the moment.

I honestly feel that in general, men are more likely to KNOW what they want, and be driven normally by less devious intents then women. Reason is, once a man has had sex with a woman, once she has become his girlfriend, if he wishes to continue that relationship with her, it is usually for basically pure reasons.

Women on the other hand, as stated above, are commonly found to date men for their wallets, their status, favors, to make an 'ex' jealous, for comfort, etc...

I DON'T hate all women, and this post has nothing to do with kartchick either, these are traits I've observed from MANY, MANY women...

I also honestly feel that women in general are at LEAST as likely to cheat on their mates as men are, especially now days.

Anyway, to restate:

Women are wonderful creatures, they can be beautiful, kind, caring, and honest.

They can also be devious, cruel, manipulative, and downright EVIL.

The women on this board recieve plenty of postive attention from the men, in fact, they get TONS of it.

I'm letting out a bit of pent up irritation at the fallacies of SOME women.

Everything I said here above is true for a great many of the female gender, I suppose I should not generalize so much, but it's kind of hard to when it's what you see 85+% of the time.

My apologies if I offended you Sassy, but I am neither immature nor inconsiderate. Ask kartchick how well I treat women I care about.