Those of you who ARE the/HAVE the piece-o-sheet ex....

[Cutiebaby]

I would do it all over again, but only because it gave me two beautiful children. The end result would still be the same but I would walk that walk just to have my babies in my life.

Very good answer hun

 

[Spartacus]

what's the end result frisky seeks now?

 

[caligirl]

women get fat

not me

 

[CrazyRussian]

looking back it, i would not walk away simply because i was not the one to walk away. the breakup was 0% my decision, 100% hers.

 

[PBR]

Looking in retrospect....knowing everything you know to date about your ex; be it the father/mother of your child, the crazy ho that played you for a fool and made out with your cash, or the dood that beat the crap out of you and slept with half of the city.....whatever made them an ex.

If you could go back to the moment of decision.....would you choose to walk away?

HONESTY.

oh yeah....explain your response. i'm nosey.

NO....the experience changed my life for the better...there was plethra of knowledge and wisdom that came from it...tho quite painful and the darkness was deep..."but never are you nearer the light, then when the dark is deepest"....

 

[velvett]

Am I the only one who doesn't feel hatred towards any of my ex's?

I don't regret being with them, I tend to enjoy thinking of the good times.

Granted I don't have kids nor have had a nasty divorce, but still focusing on hate will only make you miserable.

I don't either - I mean there were moments of all sorts of emotions but like Smurf said I made my own decisions no one made me meet date or stay with these people.

I do have to shake my own head at some of my choices once and while but it's all good they were more great moments then bad ones and without the bad ones I would not have what I do now.

 

[Gymgurl]

NO....the experience changed my life for the better...there was plethra of knowledge and wisdom that came from it...tho quite painful and the darkness was deep..."but never are you nearer the light, then when the dark is deepest"....

Very well put!

 

[alien amp pharm]

I don't either - I mean there were moments of all sorts of emotions but like Smurf said I made my own decisions no one made me meet date or stay with these people.

I do have to shake my own head at some of my choices once and while but it's all good they were more great moments then bad ones and without the bad ones I would not have what I do now.

Yay me and Velvett have something in common

besides just being incredibly good looking

 

[Frisky]

Yay me and Velvett have something in common

besides just being incredibly good looking

remove the last line and then I'll agree with you. she is adorable and standing next to you... well, you are like a troll

did I mention how much i love you?

 

[Frisky]

Am I the only one who doesn't feel hatred towards any of my ex's?

I don't regret being with HIM, I tend to enjoy thinking of the good times.

Granted I don't have kids nor have had a nasty divorce, but still focusing on hate will only make you miserable.

WTF?