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[Bikini Mod]

Just curious - for those of you who think this guy is less than a man because he doesnt want to hurt his relationship with his future wife (regardless of how unreasonable her wishes might seem) what would YOU DO if it was YOU were the bachelor in question?

 

[Dial_tone]

Just curious - for those of you who think this guy is less than a man because he doesnt want to hurt his relationship with his future wife (regardless of how unreasonable her wishes might seem) what would YOU DO if it was YOU were the bachelor in question?

He's less of a man for agreeing to such a demand. It will only be the first of many such demands. She will threaten to withhold the pussy whenever she needs to make a point or get her way.

 

[NJjuice22]

Just curious - for those of you who think this guy is less than a man because he doesnt want to hurt his relationship with his future wife (regardless of how unreasonable her wishes might seem) what would YOU DO if it was YOU were the bachelor in question?

im calling him a puss but if I was madly in love (which I cant see happening because that usually only last the first 6 months or so) I might listen to her. I personally know that would never happen to me, a threat would make me want the party even more.

 

[Bikini Mod]

I didnt say that she threatened you. All I said was that YOU KNEW it would bother her. You mean to tell me that if YOU KNEW it would hurt your wife that you had a *typical bachelor nite* filled with trashy hos and whathaveyou that you would go and have one anyway?

This is YOUR WIFE TO BE now... not some lamo girlfriend.

 

[Bikini Mod]

He's less of a man for agreeing to such a demand. It will only be the first of many such demands. She will threaten to withhold the pussy whenever she needs to make a point or get her way.

Oh come on now, that isn't what I meant and you know it.

I am talking about her FEELINGS being hurt. You mean to tell me that you would go and do it anyway if YOU KNEW it would make her feel badly?

 

[KillahBee]

He's less of a man for agreeing to such a demand. It will only be the first of many such demands. She will threaten to withhold the pussy whenever she needs to make a point or get her way.

DEMANDS should NEVER be made in any sort of adult relationship. If you allow yourself to be held captive to demands, then you are a weak individual.

it's pretty simple.

 

[Bikini Mod]

And here is another thought for all the *he-men* on the board. Did the thought ever occur to anyone that MAYBE the groom in question is the one who doesn't want to engage in this type of behavior and he just doesn't know how to express this to all of his guy friends who are "counting on him to have this opportunity to have this big wild ass outofcontrol party"?

Just throwing that out there for the men to consider.

 

[KillahBee]

And here is another thought for all the *he-men* on the board. Did the thought ever occur to anyone that MAYBE the groom in question is the one who doesn't want to engage in this type of behavior and he just doesn't know how to express this to all of his guy friends who are "counting on him to have this opportunity to have this big wild ass outofcontrol party"?

Just throwing that out there for the men to consider.

You're wrong, he's not that guy. If he was, one would assume that I would have noted this and not presented it in such a way in the original post.

So yeah, no.

 

[Bikini Mod]

DEMANDS should NEVER be made in any sort of adult relationship. If you allow yourself to be held captive to demands, then you are a weak individual.

it's pretty simple.

No one ever said anything about a demand. All of the men automatically assume that this is the case.

Anyone who delivers an ultimatuum in a relationship better be prepared to deliver. A skanky ass bachelor party IMHO is not one of the times when either party needs to be making demands/ultimatums.

It is always sad to see men climbing all over their groom friend for what is STOOPID shit. Don't yall think the guy is stressed out enough without having to hear shit from his friends over something so fucking inconsequential?

Serioulsy, think on that. What kind of friends are you guys being here?

 

[Bikini Mod]

You're wrong, he's not that guy. If he was, one would assume that I would have noted this and not presented it in such a way in the original post.

So yeah, no.

That is why I said MAYBE. I am not there - you are.

So you are telling us that this guy WANTS to have this bigblowupdownanddirtyfilthywhoreladendrunkenass party but he is bowing out because his wife2B said, "If you do that, then the wedding is off?"

Just askin.

I just went back an reread your original post...

Are you certain that is the case and not him saying that hoping you guys will back off? Married people situate themselves this way ALL THE TIME.