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[HighIntensity]

yea its hard cause I really like this girl and have loads of fun with her.

But even on the phone tonight, she asked me will I see you this week? (I am on vacation) I said sure I will be back tomm, ill swing by your place...

her response, "well I better make sure I am pretty"

I was like trust me your always pretty,

all I want is something simple and sweet, no worries, just two people having fun.., I find her very attractive in al aspects, just hope she knows it.

 

[Tiervexx]

She sounds extremely insecure, which will cause problems. It's not your issue it's her issue.

 

[vinylgroover]

HI,

I have just started dating a girl who almost fits the description of your's perfectly.

How old is this girl?

She is nothing like other girls i have dated......she could care less about her looks (although she is naturally very attractive). Doesn't wear make-up, doesn't get dressed up......very down to earth and very respectful.

I'm a pretty sexual person, and it can be hard at times to convince her that i'm not just into her for sex, but if i'm attracted to someone, i find it hard to keep my hands off them.

I think people can get a gauge for who you are by the things you say and vibe you give off rather than the things you do.....like going to lunch.

I feel like she's slightly intimidated by my sexual open-mindedness and bumping into my ex-girlfriend who was very attractive didn't help, but i always go out of my way to make make her feel the centre of my attention when i'm with her, which i can tell she appreciates.

 

[MsBeverlyHills]

--you work out- she does not... yeah shes def insecure about that... your in great shape-- shes not.

--her PT told her she was "thick"-- find that asshole & kill him.

--she got off, but you didnt get off & then she leaves...thats pretty selfish on her part.

--"well I better make sure I am pretty"... more of the insecurity thing.

this girl has major issues, even if shes so fun & reads books (hey-- most of us do read ya know)... I wouldnt put alot of energy into this relationship-- shes just so needy-- that kind of person really drags you down in the long-run.

 

[Imakarum_Mirabilis]

"Cosmopolitan" is not a book by most standards.

 

[biteme]

Originally posted by .

--her PT told her she was "thick"-- find that asshole & kill him.

What for? For telling her the truth. I always have found that women can dish out the criticism but can't take it. Generally speaking.

 

[HighIntensity]

"Cosmopolitan" is not a book by most standards.

no she reads real books,.

 

[MsBeverlyHills]

biteme-- personal trainers are for working you out-- not critisizing your body-- that was jsut stupid & insensitive of him (or her).... & yeah-- I would get the PT fired for making asshole comments like that to his clients.

 

[NY Muscle]

biteme-- personal trainers are for working you out-- not critisizing your body-- that was jsut stupid & insensitive of him (or her).... & yeah-- I would get the PT fired for making asshole comments like that to his clients.

Um no PT's are there to help u and be honest with you, any female who I trained and asked if she was fat id tell them if they were or not (but in a nice way of course).... besides they are coming to the PT for a reason, maybe they are fat or think they are fat.. and if they are fat and a PT says "nah your are not fat" then he is a waste and its time to get a new trainer. The PT needs to let the person know that yes she does have some extra weight she has to get rid of, otherwise wheres the motivation or what reasoning would the client have to continue if someone like a PT whos advice she will listen to tells her she isnt fat or thick or has to lose weight.. of course in the most polite way.

But in my experience any female who I trained who was fat or "thick" knew it and had no problem telling me that they are fat and need to lose some weight. If a girl asks me if shes fat, she i sonly doing it to hear me say "no you are not fat", she is just insecure... who in their right mind would need to ask if they are fat, they should know that if they own a fucking mirror.



Hey HI.. you mentioned cancer.. what you talking about??

 

[Outtlaw]

If you're doing everything right, and she's not comfortable or happy or whatever you said was her problem. Then I say why not try to do the exact opposite and do everything wrong. Give her the exact opposite of respect and kindness and see where things go.