she likes you, ad you love yourself.dont suddenly stop talking about the sityou do, but start a steady taper down on it.
you shouldve went to lunch with her.
you can easily make ppl insecure. she souds like she wants to go on with it, but she sees you as a playboy. you ae reminding her how easy it would be for you to hurt her. she is prolly used to being the better looking in the relationship, and now the tables are turned and shes feeling the heat of jealousy. while this ist fair, if you want to continue a relationship with her youll have to comprimise here.
also, start kissing a lil more ass. the cant lose quotient is 70/30 clothes body. they love bing complimented on there clothes. have reasons for back up.
if this doesnt work, saying you really do them, and shes still got issues, then start worrying.