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So let’s keep the “HI aren’t you Gay” or what ever other little jokes and flames that are fun to jab each other with on this board, to any other one of my threads. As most of you know I have gotten back into a relationship with a very sweet girl. But I am worried that perhaps the fact that I work out and she does not or more that I am so god damn obsessed with looking good “ill admit it” that it is some how making her insecure.
This stems mostly from are latest physical encounter. She came over to my place at around 11 am on sat. At first she said why don’t I take you out to lunch? I am thinking, I worked at the bar till 3 am and got up early to take a shower, all I really want to do is lay in bed with you all day. And I think she got the hint cause she crawled into bed with me. Ten minutes into the encounter I went to remove her shirt, and she responded with.
“ it’s a little early in the morning for this.”
And
‘Plus I am not tan like you, …..
Now this girl is in no way pale, not dark but not pale. She has also made comments like a personal trainer said I was thick once so I never went back to the gym. I laughed cause she is 5’9 maybe 135 pounds at most, in no way thick.
But back to the bedroom, so after an hour or two I finally asked her if she wanted me to make her ears ring. It’s an inside joke because she was drinking tequila once and said that it made her ears ring. So I take care of her, she says you did make my ears ring and maybe you can make my toes curl. So she responds by suto jerking me off for like a min,. and stops,. Which was odd to me because two nights before she asked me “what would you like me to do to you?.
Then fifteen mins later she says I got to go….I am like jeez was it this all about. I just don’t get it her is a girl who asked me out and has admitted to being very attracted to me. Plus I have treated her like a treat all women, with respect and kindness always being respectful. When I told her I may be cancer free but that is something that has worried me for a month or so, she responded with “so is that why you have been so nice to me?
Is this something I should be worried about? My friend said she’s probley very worried you’ll find her inadequate. What is the best course of action, to lay off of the physical aspects for a while? How do I make her more comfortable?
This stems mostly from are latest physical encounter. She came over to my place at around 11 am on sat. At first she said why don’t I take you out to lunch? I am thinking, I worked at the bar till 3 am and got up early to take a shower, all I really want to do is lay in bed with you all day. And I think she got the hint cause she crawled into bed with me. Ten minutes into the encounter I went to remove her shirt, and she responded with.
“ it’s a little early in the morning for this.”
And
‘Plus I am not tan like you, …..
Now this girl is in no way pale, not dark but not pale. She has also made comments like a personal trainer said I was thick once so I never went back to the gym. I laughed cause she is 5’9 maybe 135 pounds at most, in no way thick.
But back to the bedroom, so after an hour or two I finally asked her if she wanted me to make her ears ring. It’s an inside joke because she was drinking tequila once and said that it made her ears ring. So I take care of her, she says you did make my ears ring and maybe you can make my toes curl. So she responds by suto jerking me off for like a min,. and stops,. Which was odd to me because two nights before she asked me “what would you like me to do to you?.
Then fifteen mins later she says I got to go….I am like jeez was it this all about. I just don’t get it her is a girl who asked me out and has admitted to being very attracted to me. Plus I have treated her like a treat all women, with respect and kindness always being respectful. When I told her I may be cancer free but that is something that has worried me for a month or so, she responded with “so is that why you have been so nice to me?
Is this something I should be worried about? My friend said she’s probley very worried you’ll find her inadequate. What is the best course of action, to lay off of the physical aspects for a while? How do I make her more comfortable?
