This fuckin blows. Lost a great training partner

[Wulfgar]

I finally got a training partner who was intense, punctual, serious and motivation. Also her schedule coincided with mine.

Lasted 2 fuckin weeks. Her husband though she and I were having an affair cause he is insecure as fuck and gave her an ultimatum. Stop training with me or get a divorce. She took the former.

Fuck me. Back to training alone.

 

[miplank]

you should've hit it

 

[Wulfgar]

^^^ true dat brutha

least then hubbys concerns would of been justified

 

[miplank]

maybe it's not to late!

 

[rnch]

you should've hit it

spoken like a true karma whore!

 

[Dial_tone]

If you were half the training partner you thought she was she'd have taken the latter.

 

[miplank]

If you were half the training partner you thought she was she'd have taken the latter.

lololol

 

[BNG]

Shoulda hit him!

 

[Bikini Mod]

My ex is remarried?

 

[miplank]

lol

 

[Smurfy]

show of hands - how many guys here would be "ok" with their gf/wife training with any dude, let alone one who looks like Wulfgar

 

[Wulfgar]

If you were half the training partner you thought she was she'd have taken the latter.

fo sho...i suck the fat one apparantly

 

[Bikini Mod]

show of hands - how many guys here would be "ok" with their gf/wife training with any dude, let alone one who looks like Wulfgar

I would think that 98% of the otherwise non-crazy controlling dudes here would have a problem with it.

Having said that, I am trying to get where she got the idea that it would be ok to take on such an intimate relationship with a man without first at least discussing it with her husband.

 

[Dial_tone]

show of hands - how many guys here would be "ok" with their gf/wife training with any dude, let alone one who looks like Wulfgar

Richard Simmons, yes. Wulfgar, no.

 

[Wulfgar]

hey i dont see a problwm with a serious fitness girl training with me. She wants to compete in figure and has what it takes to do it.

If i were her husband id want her to at least train with someone who obviously has been down the competitive road and wont steer her wrong.

better me than some fat POS right?

 

[rnch]

Richard Simmons, yes. Wulfgar, no.

good one, dt!

 

[Bikini Mod]

hey i dont see a problwm with a serious fitness girl training with me. She wants to compete in figure and has what it takes to do it.

If i were her husband id want her to at least train with someone who obviously has been down the competitive road and wont steer her wrong.

better me than some fat POS right?

It is a VERY intimate relationship. To be honest, the more I think about it, were the circumstances reversed the less I'd be inclined to consent myself and I have not one jealous, controlling bone in my body.

You are a handsome man with an amazing body. I am certain that you are likeable in real life as you are online. I dunno if I could handle my wife (were I a man LOL) sharing so much with a man that was NOT ME.

Is her husband also competitive or at the very least somewhat athletic/into working out?

 

[Wulfgar]

It is a VERY intimate relationship. To be honest, the more I think about it, were the circumstances reversed the less I'd be inclined to consent myself and I have not one jealous, controlling bone in my body.

You are a handsome man with an amazing body. I am certain that you are likeable in real life as you are online. I dunno if I could handle my wife (were I a man LOL) sharing so much with a man that was NOT ME.

Is her husband also competitive or at the very least somewhat athletic/into working out?

he is trying somewhat to get into shape. real skinny guy. kinda nerdy. computer tech guy. We actually invited him to workout with us and he declined. Even though he would be at the gym at the same time.


I view my workouts as business. my training partners as serious people. I dont think of it as a sexually intimate thing.

maybe thats just me

 

[bigtravis]

So I take it she didn't explain to her husband about you being geigh?

 

[Wulfgar]

So I take it she didn't explain to her husband about you being geigh?

no, Im not that smart. would of been a great cover though

 

[Bikini Mod]

he is trying somewhat to get into shape. real skinny guy. kinda nerdy. computer tech guy. We actually invited him to workout with us and he declined. Even though he would be at the gym at the same time.


I view my workouts as business. my training partners as serious people. I dont think of it as a sexually intimate thing.

maybe thats just me

I didn't say anything about sex.

It is a VERY intimate relationship. In order for there to be a good symbiotic training relationship the people have to be totally in tune with one another, both emotionally and physically. You touch each other. You anticipate your partner's strength and failure. You know what to do/what to say to get them to perform at peak. You have to trust that your partner won't let you get hurt but won't do the work for you either.

^^^ VERY intimate.

The more I think about it, there is NO WAY I would allow my wife to work out with another man unless I was incapable of training with her.

You know yourself how rare it is to find a partnership where ya'll click on all levels. Too much contact (of this type) IMHO is asking for trouble if there is ever (and there always ups and downs) a "down" in the primary sexual relationship. Your training partner usually ends up being one of your closest friends.

IMHO when you are in a committed relationship NO ONE should occupy that position, but your sexual partner.

 

[Bikini Mod]

no, Im not that smart. would of been a great cover though

Totally deceptive and unfair to the spouse. If I caught my spouse in such a lie I would question why they felt the need to do it.

 

[Wulfgar]

BM i see your points. but i beg to differ in a few ways.

I ve personally had 3 female training partners over the years who i never got "intimate" with. They had commited relationships and there was really never a problem.

I think it is possible to be focused and on the same page with someone without letting things get weird or out of control

 

[Bikini Mod]

BM i see your points. but i beg to differ in a few ways.

I ve personally had 3 female training partners over the years who i never got "intimate" with. They had commited relationships and there was really never a problem.

I think it is possible to be focused and on the same page with someone without letting things get weird or out of control

I wasn't talking about physical intimacy. If my husband shared his feelings with another woman even though he NEVER touched her he would have breached our marital covenant. Even if he shared these things with another man IMHO that is a breach of our marital covenant. Perhaps because you've never been married it is difficult for you to realize what I am saying, maybe not. I dunno.

I prefer myself to train with a man. I think the sexes were designed to train together much better than same sex, men have brute strength whereas women have endurance; perfectly complimentary IMHO.

I never said that you would "get wierd". What I was saying is that when a man and woman are so consistently in tune w/one another working towards a common goal in such a physically challenging and emtionally draining pursuit for such a long time EVENTUALLY life will bring conditions that are ripe for "wierd" to happen on BOTH SIDES.

IMHO better to avoid the situation altogether.

 

[Wulfgar]

^^^
the whole strength vs. endurance thing is exactly what i liked about training with her. I would push her to train heavier and harder and she would keep the pace high since i have a tendancy to lag and rest too long.

anyways. I can see the issue here. it sucks. but not much i can do about it unless she gets a divorce.

 

[Bikini Mod]

^^^
the whole strength vs. endurance thing is exactly what i liked about training with her. I would push her to train heavier and harder and she would keep the pace high since i have a tendancy to lag and rest too long.

anyways. I can see the issue here. it sucks. but not much i can do about it unless she gets a divorce.

It takes a very peculiar type of female to really REALLY want to compete with men. I feel your loss. There were only two women that I really REALLY learned/grew a lot from when training with them and one of them had her bf (last I heard they eventually married and had a baby though we lost touch forever ago) present most of the time when WE trained.

I haven't had a training partner in 6/7 years. My husband is physically incapable of lifting weights and I'm no longer interested in competing so we work out together (when he gets his ass to the gym LOL) in the pool. He loves to dink around and I am all about business. I don't mind going to the pool by myself but I much prefer to work out with him.

Good luck finding a new partner. I wouldn't verbally beat up too much on her husband to her, it shows poor form on your part though I know it sucks. Sorry orbly....

 

[Wulfgar]

It takes a very peculiar type of female to really REALLY want to compete with men. I feel your loss. There were only two women that I really REALLY learned/grew a lot from when training with them and one of them had her bf (last I heard they eventually married and had a baby though we lost touch forever ago) present most of the time when WE trained.

I haven't had a training partner in 6/7 years. My husband is physically incapable of lifting weights and I'm no longer interested in competing so we work out together (when he gets his ass to the gym LOL) in the pool. He loves to dink around and I am all about business. I don't mind going to the pool by myself but I much prefer to work out with him.

Good luck finding a new partner. I wouldn't verbally beat up too much on her husband to her, it shows poor form on your part though I know it sucks. Sorry orbly....

nah i dont even mention the guy. He seems nice but really i dont know him too well. He has been gone 47 of the last 52 weeks in Iraq( computer networking company that contracts to the military). He got back right when we started working out together. Seems like they hardly know each other too. Which would definately explain the insecurity

 

[Bikini Mod]

Makes total sense then.

 

[nimbus]

sorry guy. i would have taken the divorce to train with you!

 

[Wulfgar]

dude that is the sweetest thing anyone has ever said to me....no homo...well maybe a little...

 

[HAYEZ]

well if my chic was workin out with ya id smack her up also....now you train me and make me look better then ya and then you can have her..ill go get another hahaha

 

[bigtravis]

no, Im not that smart. would of been a great cover though

Oh so why would you think of lying if nothing was going on? hmm? hmm? lol.

 

[UA_Iron]

When I move back to SD I'll train with you buddy.

 

[ponyfitness]

That's a little paranoid but I could understand if she was a banging hottie (or had potential) and her husband was a skinny nerd.

Therefore it is essential that you post pics. I find it hard to believe I'm the first one to request them.

 

[SpyWizard]

i hate people that won't commit..

 

[ceo]

nah i dont even mention the guy. He seems nice but really i dont know him too well. He has been gone 47 of the last 52 weeks in Iraq( computer networking company that contracts to the military). He got back right when we started working out together. Seems like they hardly know each other too. Which would definately explain the insecurity

Dude, is this who I think it is? If so, I thought they were already getting a divorce, no?

 

[Wulfgar]

Dude, is this who I think it is? If so, I thought they were already getting a divorce, no?

naw bro...ill send you who it is in a phone text

 

[Wulfgar]

When I move back to SD I'll train with you buddy.

deal bro

 

[puddlemonkey]

fuck this shit

[/jon]

 

[puddlemonkey]

radar is now available

 

[lartinos]

that could have led to trouble, don't blame him

 

[the_alcatraz]

you should move to Canada and train with me. You're a fuckin beast bro....damn!