Think I might want a divorce

[ortiz34]

I'd rather be crazy and look like a woman, personally.

lol

 

[nefertiti]

women sure are a lot prettier to look at than men.

And less hairy.

 

[ceo]

I'd rather be crazy and look like a woman, personally.

women sure are a lot prettier to look at than men.

 

[Frisky]

i'd rather be crazy and look like a woman, personally.

:d

 

[digimon7068]

I'd rather be crazy and look like a woman, personally.

the thing is, she's not "crazy"...she's a chick...and she thinks like a chick...and (me thinks) he wants a chick that thinks like a dude

 

[digimon7068]

:d

hi...where you been??

 

[ortiz34]

hi...where you been??

calm down

 

[digimon7068]

calm down

sorry...i miss frisky

 

[needtogetarmy]

I think approaches to relationships are influenced by how your parents got along, but a lot of it depends on where you are mentally and how you view society and the world. My parents hated each other most of the time growing up. I can remember some happy times before I was 10 years old, but most of it after that, and especially all of it age 14 and up, was terrible. My mom played every mind game with my dad, and my dad knew it but put up with it. I know they stayed together for me, because as soon as I graduated high school, they got divorced.

The way my parents' bad example impacted me was how easily I trusted people. For a long time, I had a very difficult time trusting women. Now, I'm fortunate to be very good friends with a married couple who are extremely happy with their marriage. It's amazing to see how they are with each other, and it really does represent a lot of what I feel a marriage should be. Being able to see that has changed my opinion of society, women, and relationships. I'm also fortunate enough to have a girl in my life that I share a lot of that same connection with. I'm not saying she's the one I'll marry, but it feels good to know that relationships can be a beautiful thing.

My counselor told me about 'Attachment Theory'. He basically stated my wife acts the way she does because of it. The same with me. The same with everyone.

I am still married because my dad stayed with my mom until the end, even though he was totally miserable for the last two decades. That is true unconditional love.

 

[needtogetarmy]

Carth,

I've been in counseling for a while and I believe my wife also has hormonal issues. She will not see a doc though.

My counselor had me read a ton of books and a big doc on the field of female psychology / HRT is Dr. Louann Brizendine. I do not think she is in FL though. You could try and contacting her to see is she knows of one though. She is a pioneer in her field and he might be able to help.

She also wrote a book called the Female Brain. It is an excellent book.

I wish you the best of luck.

LouannBrizendine.com

Also, it doesn't take much test for a female to get back into balance, like .5mg ED. They have estrogen/test creams available and from what I have read it does wonders. And it doesn't have crazy side effects like everyone expects.