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he must be either 16 and has his farming drivers license, or he's 17. He came by on thursday after school to hang out with one of my boys. He asked if he could stay over. no. it's a school night. at 10pm i told him he had to go home.
So he came back over friday after school and is still here. he slept on the floor of my son's room. i just reminded my son that his grandfather is coming to pick him up at 1, so the kid asked if my other son was going to be home.

I said he was, but he has some stuff to do and he said, "well i'll just stay and help him. if that's ok with you."

no, it's not actually. I have to go out and then i want to clean my house and he has a project he's working on. alone.

the kid says, "i won't get in the way, i promise".

wtf. go HOME. he lives nearby in a house that my son says is GROSS, but the kids grandmother lives in one of the larger, nicer houses in town- must be worth around 2 mil. and my son said it's beautiful inside.
I know maybe the kid doesn't want to stay home alone or he likes it at my house, but having ANOTHER teenager around is not going to happen.
 
bw1 said:
What's a "farming drivers license"?
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if your familly owns and operates a farm, you can get your drivers license at 16.

i obviously live in a farming county.


and i have no idea what his home life is like. He's still here though, and was just sitting in my bed watching tv with me.

this is not ok with me.
 
MichaelScott said:
sitting in bed with you watching tv?
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i was cleaning and stopped in the guest room. sat on the bed and watched tv. my son came in with his laptop to show me something, so the kid just sat in bed and watched tv while i looked at my son's laptop. then, he stayed for the next 10 minutes.

GO AWAY.
 
stilleto said:
i was cleaning and stopped in the guest room. sat on the bed and watched tv. my son came in with his laptop to show me something, so the kid just sat in bed and watched tv while i looked at my son's laptop. then, he stayed for the next 10 minutes.

GO AWAY.
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hes got you right where he wants you....
 
I thought everyone gets their license at 16


anyway that's a weird situation

probably something going on at home, or he's gay for your sons


you have a lot of weird issues to deal with all the time in regards to people intruding on your personal space and property
 
in his 16 year old mind hes already banging you on that bed. ask him for ID and just go with it. he will forever remember it...lol
 
jh1 said:
He likes looking at ur titties and vajajay.
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word.
stilleto seems to have this reoccuring dilema of peeps overstaying their welcome.
to be expected, when you have such fablous mammeries
 
Smurfy said:
i never let anyone stay overnight without a verbal confirmation from their parents that it's ok. did you talk to his parents?
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oral confirmation sounds better.
 
stop flashing boob to all the neighborhood boys and this won't happen, Mrs. Robinson.
 
stilleto said:
he must be either 16 and has his farming drivers license, or he's 17. He came by on thursday after school to hang out with one of my boys. He asked if he could stay over. no. it's a school night. at 10pm i told him he had to go home.
So he came back over friday after school and is still here. he slept on the floor of my son's room. i just reminded my son that his grandfather is coming to pick him up at 1, so the kid asked if my other son was going to be home.

I said he was, but he has some stuff to do and he said, "well i'll just stay and help him. if that's ok with you."

no, it's not actually. I have to go out and then i want to clean my house and he has a project he's working on. alone.

the kid says, "i won't get in the way, i promise".

wtf. go HOME. he lives nearby in a house that my son says is GROSS, but the kids grandmother lives in one of the larger, nicer houses in town- must be worth around 2 mil. and my son said it's beautiful inside.
I know maybe the kid doesn't want to stay home alone or he likes it at my house, but having ANOTHER teenager around is not going to happen.
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use your mod powers
 
stilleto said:
he must be either 16 and has his farming drivers license, or he's 17. He came by on thursday after school to hang out with one of my boys. He asked if he could stay over. no. it's a school night. at 10pm i told him he had to go home.
So he came back over friday after school and is still here. he slept on the floor of my son's room. i just reminded my son that his grandfather is coming to pick him up at 1, so the kid asked if my other son was going to be home.

I said he was, but he has some stuff to do and he said, "well i'll just stay and help him. if that's ok with you."

no, it's not actually. I have to go out and then i want to clean my house and he has a project he's working on. alone.

the kid says, "i won't get in the way, i promise".

wtf. go HOME. he lives nearby in a house that my son says is GROSS, but the kids grandmother lives in one of the larger, nicer houses in town- must be worth around 2 mil. and my son said it's beautiful inside.
I know maybe the kid doesn't want to stay home alone or he likes it at my house, but having ANOTHER teenager around is not going to happen.
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I TOTALLY hear you, but think about this: All four of my girls live someplace other than their aparment with their spermdonor. They would rather be ANYPLACE ELSE but where he is... I just keep praying to God that the "anyplace other than with him" will be better and not worse... :(

That kid's problems are not your problems (if he has problems at all - maybe he is just lonely for your sons' companionship).

I WISH I had a house full of teenagers... Yea, I know. I have rocks in my head. :lmao:
 
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KickNitRight said:
maybe he's in an abusive situation at home.
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That is the first thing that came to my mind.

When I was a kid I was never home. My parents were not abusive but they lived like pigs.

I moved out when I was 16 after I graduated high school, worked, and lived in a dump for a few months before I left for Paris Island, and then left and never looked back.

I feel sorry for the kid actually. He may be a nuisance but he may have no place else to go.
 
Smurfy said:
i never let anyone stay overnight without a verbal confirmation from their parents that it's ok. did you talk to his parents?
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i didn't, but this kid drives and of course has a cell phone. he drove himself home to get his things.
when my kids were younger, i always spoke to their parents, but at this age... not so much, unless its MY kid going there.
 
justinjones1963 said:
That is the first thing that came to my mind.

When I was a kid I was never home. My parents were not abusive but they lived like pigs.

I moved out when I was 16 after I graduated high school, worked, and lived in a dump for a few months before I left for Paris Island, and then left and never looked back.

I feel sorry for the kid actually. He may be a nuisance but he may have no place else to go.
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how the fuck do you graduate highschool at 16? you can't even legally sign a lease until your 18
 
chewyxrage said:
how the fuck do you graduate highschool at 16? you can't even legally sign a lease until your 18
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There's a chick working for a top law firm that's 18 or something. She graduated college at 16 got accepted into law school right after.

They make special circumstances for people sometimes. I don't know how healthy that is for ones social development, though.



:cow:
 
ok, after he left i turned to my boys and said "tim is nice but..." and they said, "but he never leaves?"
lol
they told me that his mom was 'with' (married? i don't know) one man and had a son. then left him for another man and had tim. then left tim's dad and went back with the first man, and had two more kids, and now she's back with tim's dad.

they fight a lot, about the kids, her ex, and money.

the oldest boy got kicked out of high school and now goes to some snow boarding high school somewhere. Tim's younger two siblings are under house arrest and tim is the only good, hard working, non smoking person in his family, so he lives with his grandmother who started a business that she sold a few years ago for $21 million, which is why tim drives an audi while his family lives in some trash heap with a falling down porch, and probably why he likes my house where nobody fights and its fun.
 
stilleto said:
ok, after he left i turned to my boys and said "tim is nice but..." and they said, "but he never leaves?"
lol
they told me that his mom was 'with' (married? i don't know) one man and had a son. then left him for another man and had tim. then left tim's dad and went back with the first man, and had two more kids, and now she's back with tim's dad.

they fight a lot, about the kids, her ex, and money.

the oldest boy got kicked out of high school and now goes to some snow boarding high school somewhere. Tim's younger two siblings are under house arrest and tim is the only good, hard working, non smoking person in his family, so he lives with his grandmother who started a business that she sold a few years ago for $21 million, which is why tim drives an audi while his family lives in some trash heap with a falling down porch, and probably why he likes my house where nobody fights and its fun.
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Just goes to show that no matter what the circumstances of your environment you can move beyond what life throws at you. Fortune has little to do with life.
 
MichaelScott said:
thats a tough one, you always have these major issues going on
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story of my life.
i have two popular teenage boys. that alone means a lot of friends are here, but it's rural around here to their friends are spread out and often spend the night.
 
samoth said:
There's a chick working for a top law firm that's 18 or something. She graduated college at 16 got accepted into law school right after.

They make special circumstances for people sometimes. I don't know how healthy that is for ones social development, though.



:cow:
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stilleto said:
i graduated high school at 16 and college at 20.
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I understand you can graduate school early if you are smart....

but ya still can't sign a legal contract if you aren't 18.....
 
chewyxrage said:
I understand you can graduate school early if you are smart....

but ya still can't sign a legal contract if you aren't 18.....
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I think if you are emancipated you can. :whatever:
 
jh1 said:
I think if you are emancipated you can. :whatever:
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...pretty sure you can't

if you are under the age of 18 any contract signed isn't enforceable....i got out of all kinds of bills when I was younger because I wasn't 18 when I signed up for shit...
 
chewyxrage said:
...pretty sure you can't

if you are under the age of 18 any contract signed isn't enforceable....i got out of all kinds of bills when I was younger because I wasn't 18 when I signed up for shit...
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You weren't legally emancipated...


13.64.060 Power and capacity of emancipated minor.
(1) An emancipated minor shall be considered to have the power and capacity of an adult, except as provided in subsection (2) of this section. A minor shall be considered emancipated for the purposes of, but not limited to: (a) The termination of parental obligations of financial support, care, supervision, and any other obligation the parent may have by virtue of the parent-child relationship, including obligations imposed because of marital dissolution; (b) The right to sue or be sued in his or her own name; (c) The right to retain his or her own earnings; (d) The right to establish a separate residence or domicile; (e) The right to enter into nonvoidable contracts;
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blueta2 said:
sounds like he's just looking for some comfort and safety
Sit him down and have a serious talk with him
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that's not my place.
he's not my kid.

and i have nothing to talk to him about.
what would I say? "you're here a lot. i know you want comfort and safety and I'd like to tell you that you're welcome here any time you want, but that's not really true. now go home."
 
stilleto said:
that's not my place.
he's not my kid.

and i have nothing to talk to him about.
what would I say? "you're here a lot. i know you want comfort and safety and I'd like to tell you that you're welcome here any time you want, but that's not really true. now go home."
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what's the expression? "It takes a village to raise a child"
It's not your place, but if you want to see if he needs help and if not, then ask him to leave.
Why would you allow a kid to make you this uncomfortable?!
 
blueta2 said:
what's the expression? "It takes a village to raise a child"
It's not your place, but if you want to see if he needs help and if not, then ask him to leave.
Why would you allow a kid to make you this uncomfortable?!
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canttakethebishoutoftheblutat
 
jon79 said:
canttakethebishoutoftheblutat
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that's not bitchy. It's direct. I'm at a point in my life where I have no time to beat around the bush. If some kid or anyone were making me uncomfortable, I would just come out and say it. Like when I tell you I think you're gross and smell like poo
 
blueta2 said:
that's not bitchy. It's direct. I'm at a point in my life where I have no time to beat around the bush. If some kid or anyone were making me uncomfortable, I would just come out and say it. Like when I tell you I think you're gross and smell like poo
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:bawling:
 
he is either lonley, abused, or weird---ask him if he has ever had liver w/fava beans and a nice chanti
 
My bff spent almost all of her time in my house during high school.
She hated her father.
On weekdays she would come home from school with me and stay till 10pm, and then come back at 6am to get ready for school with me.
She never went home during weekends.
My parents hated it at first.
But she liked cleaning.
And she was a really good piano player.
So she pretty much became a part of the family.
 
eddymerckx said:
i feel deprived--i cannot think of one of my friends' moms that even slightly stirred wood---no fair
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moms are soo much fucking hotter nowadays. when i was growing up, all the moms on my block were pretty nasty. ripped sweatpants, chic jeans, saggy titties.
 
blueta2 said:
that's not bitchy. It's direct. I'm at a point in my life where I have no time to flick around the bean. If some kid or anyone were making me uncomfortable, I would just come out and say it. Like when I tell you I think you're gross and smell like poo
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Poor you :chomp:
 
samoth said:
There's a chick working for a top law firm that's 18 or something. She graduated college at 16 got accepted into law school right after.
:cow:
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Are you sure it's not a topless law firm? If so, I'd like to meet that chick.

And I'm thinking Tim just needs to get laid.
 
string_bean00 said:
i think stilleto implied that tobacco users are not decent people
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imply it? i'll friggin' say it right here!
:)

btw, kid is still here.
I told my boys all day that he has to leave by 6, because we're having dinner and the package of rolls I got came in 5's. one of each of us (we had pork sandwhiches). so at 6, the kid was still here. I said its dinner time, and he left.
after dinner, i go to the garage to say something to the boys, and there he is.

he stayed in the garage while we ate.
this afternoon, he sat next to me in front of the fire.

it was a little awkward.
 
stilleto said:
imply it? i'll friggin' say it right here!
:)

btw, kid is still here.
I told my boys all day that he has to leave by 6, because we're having dinner and the package of rolls I got came in 5's. one of each of us (we had pork sandwhiches). so at 6, the kid was still here. I said its dinner time, and he left.
after dinner, i go to the garage to say something to the boys, and there he is.

he stayed in the garage while we ate.
this afternoon, he sat next to me in front of the fire.

it was a little awkward.
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Poor kid... obviously has something he's avoiding at home...

Ugh... I'd hate to know what it is...
 
stilleto said:
imply it? i'll friggin' say it right here!
:)

btw, kid is still here.
I told my boys all day that he has to leave by 6, because we're having dinner and the package of rolls I got came in 5's. one of each of us (we had pork sandwhiches). so at 6, the kid was still here. I said its dinner time, and he left.
after dinner, i go to the garage to say something to the boys, and there he is.

he stayed in the garage while we ate.
this afternoon, he sat next to me in front of the fire.

it was a little awkward.
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Wow........you sure you even like kids?
 
hanselthecaretaker said:
Wow........you sure you even like kids?
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lol
i really don't. i LOVE my own, of course.
he's a nice boy, but remember, i have 3 kids of my own- 2 of which are 6 feet tall and eat more than i can buy. I like my privacy and i'm rather quiet at home- i didn't want to have 4 kids (i never intended on having 3, but i don't tell that to my kids).

he lives with his grandmother, in a beautiful home. he's the only kid there though, so its fun at my house. I was an only child growing up- so i know what that's like. believe me, i'm really nice to him. if i wasn't he probably wouldn't be here so much.
 
stilleto said:
lol
i really don't. i LOVE my own, of course.
he's a nice boy, but remember, i have 3 kids of my own- 2 of which are 6 feet tall and eat more than i can buy. I like my privacy and i'm rather quiet at home- i didn't want to have 4 kids (i never intended on having 3, but i don't tell that to my kids).

he lives with his grandmother, in a beautiful home. he's the only kid there though, so its fun at my house. I was an only child growing up- so i know what that's like. believe me, i'm really nice to him. if i wasn't he probably wouldn't be here so much.
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Join us next week for another episode of..."Stilleto: Seeeecrettttsssss".
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stilleto said:
after dinner, i go to the garage to say something to the boys, and there he is.

he stayed in the garage while we ate.
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That's creepy. He wasn't sniffing the motor oil, was he?

this afternoon, he sat next to me in front of the fire.

it was a little awkward.
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Put your hand on his knee and tell him you want to have his babies. He'll either get up and leave or you'll both have a lot of fun.

The other option is you train your kids to get rid of him for you before you come home so you don't have to see him. And why are you so nice to him if you don't like him? Just beat his ass. Or talk to him and find out why he likes it at your house instead of his own. Maybe you'll learn something from the situation that you can take into the next one.
 
KickNitRight said:
That's creepy. He wasn't sniffing the motor oil, was he?



Put your hand on his knee and tell him you want to have his babies. He'll either get up and leave or you'll both have a lot of fun.

The other option is you train your kids to get rid of him for you before you come home so you don't have to see him. And why are you so nice to him if you don't like him? Just beat his ass. Or talk to him and find out why he likes it at your house instead of his own. Maybe you'll learn something from the situation that you can take into the next one.
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no, they like him a lot, they just knew what i was going to say.
he's a nice kid- i just like my privacy. :)
 
redguru said:
Just goes to show that no matter what the circumstances of your environment you can move beyond what life throws at you. Fortune has little to do with life.
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Amen
 
stilleto said:
if your familly owns and operates a farm, you can get your drivers license at 16.

i obviously live in a farming county.


and i have no idea what his home life is like. He's still here though, and was just sitting in my bed watching tv with me.

this is not ok with me.
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Haha. The boy has the hots for you.
 
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