The Real Big Ultimate Gender Gap Thread

[Robert Jan]

Do you trust your own gender more, both equally, or do you trust the other gender more?

Do you consider this a rational method?
A fear?
a subconscious involuntary thing?

Please be honest. I'm interested in these stats.

 

[Beer vs Roids]

I like beans

 

[Robert Jan]

I don't care.

 

[Robert Jan]

I personally can't seem to ever completely trust a female. I have no real excuse...

 

[wutangsfiancee]

there you go dear I did your poll... Female and tend to trust females moreso than males....

 

[The Red Dragon]

I don't trust something that bleeds for 5 days and doesn't die

It depends for what really and the circumstances

 

[Robert Jan]

Don't call me dear. Are you trying to manipulate me?

 

[calveless wonder]

people in general aren't very trustworthy.........
there are very very few that will not break that trust (especially in circumstances when they're trying to save their own ass)

but if we're gonna single out a sex... women are less trustworthy than men.

Why?
Because women run based on emotion. Emotion will always conflict with intelligence and common sense.

An emotionally charged person is much more likely to deceive you and much more difficult to assess.

 

[Robert Jan]

Psychiatrists have a word for people who are run purely by emotion without reason. They call em "crazy" apparently...

 

[Fragadelic]

I hate everyone

 

[Tiervexx]

I voted that I trust them equally because I don't think that most of both genders are trustworthy.

Or at least not to me. Most people are trust worthy to at least one good friend.

 

[Robert Jan]

Of course all people suck.

I mean to ask which you personally tend to trust more.
Whether you were wrong when you did or not- irrelevant

 

[wutangsfiancee]

ok alright I will un-dear you....... Meant nothing by it... lol..

 

[plornive]

Women absolutely have less honor than men. They are less likely to get revenge when truly wronged, and less likely to give help to those who help them. I'm not a woman hater by any means. Part of what reinforces this situation, I think, is that men treat women with less honor than males.

I have lent money a few times to women who never paid me back, and instead spent their money on frivolous things (given these women were struggling a bit). I have seen girls backstab each other countless times. The only reason I haven't been burned by women overall, I think, is that I don't put myself into vulnerable situations. Men have more to lose by screwing people over. Women are selfish creatures.

More emotional? Perhaps more pathologically emotional, but women certainly have foresight that exceeds that of men on most occasions.

 

[perkele]

Do you trust your own gender more, both equally, or do you trust the other gender more?

Do you consider this a rational method?
A fear?
a subconscious involuntary thing?

Please be honest. I'm interested in these stats.

I trust women more.

 

[MAX 300]

Before or after sex?

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

I can't trust anyone, but if I had too.....then men.
Men talk less and don't remember stuff that well.
And they know, if they betray you, you might fuck them up!

 

[Robert Jan]

For what it's worth I've had a better experience getting money back from girls who borrowed it than guys. Then again it's never been more than a few bucks, maybe this difference comes out with greater sums

 

[Dante Alighieri]

For what it's worth I've had a better experience getting money back from girls who borrowed it than guys. Then again it's never been more than a few bucks, maybe this difference comes out with greater sums

When it comes to finance I find women more trustable than guys. Women insist on paying back the money, which saves you the discomfort of having to ask for it back repeatedly, whereas guys will try to fuck you over and not pay, then you have to ask yourself, "Should I look like a tit in front of everyone by reminding him that he owes me money, or just let it slide and fuck up his car somehow a few weeks from now."

 

[plornive]

Whenever a male hasn't paid me back for something, he has shown gratitude in other ways. Women, it seems, can manage money with a bit more of an even keel than men, thus in most situations I guess loans are a simpler matter to women - at least, in the typical situations where they don't stand to benefit by not paying the person back...

I *have* seen guys give back nothing to those who have helped them... but in these cases, they were looked down upon a great deal and completely ostracized. People don't ostracize women for the same reasons as men. Men feel remorse for these matters.

Of course, if someone has no reputation or honor, he should expect to get stepped on by everyone.

 

[WODIN]

Where is the "I am Male (female) and I trust no one." Option? Huh?

 

[Robert Jan]

If you trust noone you trust them equally. equally little.

 

[WODIN]

If you trust noone you trust them equally. equally little.

Oh bullshit, stop being lazy and edit that damn poll. he he

 

[Robert Jan]

STFU Wodin. Aren't you supposed to be playing cards with the geezers next door in your flat or something

 

[Robert Jan]

bump for sexism.

 

[Robert Jan]

goddamnit go on and hate each other

 

[mohdgame]

Trust only in yourself.

 

[layinback]

Do you trust your own gender more, both equally, or do you trust the other gender more?

Do you consider this a rational method?
A fear?
a subconscious involuntary thing?

Please be honest. I'm interested in these stats.

trust is an emotional response. it is deeply rooted in early life experience
and the interaction , or lack of, with primary care givers. coupled with ones
inborn temperment, early experiences dictate ones capacity for intimacy.
gender isn't relevant if your trust has been severely compromised.

you can have life long plutonic friendships and life long romantic relationships
that pass as "deep" and mature, but in reality they are shallow and selfish.
typically no one is the wiser, including the participants.

this is a complex subject that can't be quantified in the manner you are proposing. it presupposes your subjects are fully qualified to engage in
a psychology assesment that is narrowly defined.

at best you'll get some subjective data that is misleading and depressing.

and why do you ask if they think it is subconscious or a fear ?

and furthermore you asked for peeps to be honest.

you should brush up on your psychology before you post this nonsense.

mistrust is most certainly a fear and it's roots are in the subconcious.
jesus christ, my 12 year old knows more about this subject then you
do lol.

 

[stosstruppe]

Robert Jan was a good bro!

 

[cw801]

I trust men more than women.....I have been screwed over by girlfriends in the past, and now I don't trust a girl as far as I can throw her. I have had mostly guy friends since I was about 16........and I prefer it that way. Guys tell you what they think - they don't gossip - they don't care about stupid sh*t - and they won't pretend to be your friend so they can try to sleep with your man.

 

[penny]

I totally agree with you

 

[nangiggles]

I trust men more than women.....I have been screwed over by girlfriends in the past, and now I don't trust a girl as far as I can throw her. I have had mostly guy friends since I was about 16........and I prefer it that way. Guys tell you what they think - they don't gossip - they don't care about stupid sh*t - and they won't pretend to be your friend so they can try to sleep with your man.

I've always trusted men more, worst case scenario they are trying to sleep with u or get info on ur friend but women.... those bitches concoct all sorts of evils in their heads.... but I have found men like to gossip almost as much as women do however unlike most wimmenz they don't do it viciously to like spread rumors or hurt someone....

 

[stilleto]

Trust only in yourself.

i'm sure you had an awesome reason for bumping a 6 year old thread, but don't do it again please.