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The comfort of knowing my son will never fall prey to a bully.

Big Rick Rock

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I was watching "Bully Beatdown" on MTV with my son a few nights ago... It got me thinking...

There nothing worst for a kid than being bullied, it makes what should be a wonderful time of their life into just pure hell. There are many hateful little fuckers who take their own problems out on their classmates and feel better when they beat on others.

In N.Y. I went to a very tough school district myself, luckily I became OBSESSED with weight training at 13yrl and fell in love with wrestling at 15yrl. I had a full six pack in the 7th grad :). My school years are filled with great memories of fun times.

When my son was born, I wanted to him to have the same for himself. I didn't want him to ever be bullied or lack any confidence. I wanted him to be able to handle himself in any situation without doubting himself... As he went from being a baby to growing into a little boy, I wondered... Would he have the same passion for combat sports as me? Would he be into weights and training? or just be one of these kids who plays video games everyday after school?

He always liked to play fight with me, but never wanted to learn any moves or skills. He just seemed to be into the PlayStation a lot more than learning martial arts. This all changed one day a few months ago when I could not find a sitter and had to take him with me to the dojo for training. He sat near the mat and did his homework while I trained. Every time I went to check up on his work he would ask me questions about what moves I was doing.

To make a long story short... I thought he was too young to start the Jiu jitsu program at my school, but I was wrong. Seeing me train sparked a hidden interest in the arts... Today my sweet little boy is, at 6yrl now competing in grappling tournaments and winning medals. He is not only training three days per week, but also doing push ups and sit ups at the house ON HIS OWN!
I'll walk by his room and he is in there with the T.V. on and doing push ups and crunches during commercial breaks...
When he gets into the mat and goes live with other kids, he just transforms in to a little Pitbull and goes after them and doesn't stop till they tap... He is the sweetest kid in the world, has tons of friend and his teachers praise him as "a little gentleman", but he is a ravenous animal when the referee sounds the whistle... Perfect harmony.

Needless to say I am very proud of him and very happy that his future is already looking bright. Bullies and lack of self confidence is not of any concern anymore. The other concerns I will deal with in time.

:) Life is good :)
 
I was watching "Bully Beatdown" on MTV with my son a few nights ago... It got me thinking...

There nothing worst for a kid than being bullied, it makes what should be a wonderful time of their life into just pure hell. There are many hateful little fuckers who take their own problems out on their classmates and feel better when they beat on others.

In N.Y. I went to a very tough school district myself, luckily I became OBSESSED with weight training at 13yrl and fell in love with wrestling at 15yrl. I had a full six pack in the 7th grad :). My school years are filled with great memories of fun times.

When my son was born, I wanted to him to have the same for himself. I didn't want him to ever be bullied or lack any confidence. I wanted him to be able to handle himself in any situation without doubting himself... As he went from being a baby to growing into a little boy, I wondered... Would he have the same passion for combat sports as me? Would he be into weights and training? or just be one of these kids who plays video games everyday after school?

He always liked to play fight with me, but never wanted to learn any moves or skills. He just seemed to be into the PlayStation a lot more than learning martial arts. This all changed one day a few months ago when I could not find a sitter and had to take him with me to the dojo for training. He sat near the mat and did his homework while I trained. Every time I went to check up on his work he would ask me questions about what moves I was doing.

To make a long story short... I thought he was too young to start the Jiu jitsu program at my school, but I was wrong. Seeing me train sparked a hidden interest in the arts... Today my sweet little boy is, at 6yrl now competing in grappling tournaments and winning medals. He is not only training three days per week, but also doing push ups and sit ups at the house ON HIS OWN!
I'll walk by his room and he is in there with the T.V. on and doing push ups and crunches during commercial breaks...
When he gets into the mat and goes live with other kids, he just transforms in to a little Pitbull and goes after them and doesn't stop till they tap... He is the sweetest kid in the world, has tons of friend and his teachers praise him as "a little gentleman", but he is a ravenous animal when the referee sounds the whistle... Perfect harmony.

Needless to say I am very proud of him and very happy that his future is already looking bright. Bullies and lack of self confidence is not of any concern anymore. The other concerns I will deal with in time.

:) Life is good :)

BRR, Reminds me of 300 watching the kids grow up learning battle.
Ain't necessarily a bad thing, if they get the principle, and value of it all.
I mean teaches them balance is the meaning of life, principle, that it is overcoming yourself not just throwing some other dude around... you must make sure he understands this...
I would be more proud, I don't have kids, just not my path, anyway I would be more proud of him... if he were able to take those skillz and make a life out of it in, say the corporate world than being some young punk on the Ultimate Fighter... or Dana White's Poster Boy.
Just me...
Hey dude give me a call...
Gotta Pm you a quick question bout nonrelated shit.
Lata Brah.
 
yep, getting bullied sucks. I switched schools alot when i was a kid, so I got it pretty bad. That and I was raised in a pussy ass catholic home. My parents wouldnt let me take up anything they thought was "violent". But they forced me to take pianon lessons. It wasn't until high school really that I took matters into my own hands. I ran into one of the old boys in college......when I was 250 and he looked almost exactly like what he looked like in the 8th grade. It was nice, cathartic too. He didn't have his old crew, just him and me. :evil:
 
By the way rick, that's AWESOME what you're letting your son do. You're getting out of his way and letting him find his own stroke.......exactly what a parent should do, but hardly none of em do.
 
that's cool rick.
I was more worried about my kids being the bully, rather than being bullied, but they both know/knew not to go there.

a few times, I caught my son (who is popular) protecting a kid from other popular kids who were ridiculing them. That made me proud.
 
being bullied was one of the best things that ever happened to me. gave me the chance to find out what I was made of at a young age. will never forget those moments.

good for both of you. hopefully he learns those lessons.
 
I was the bully - then I got bullied later on. Makes you see things in a different light. Good for you for getting him involved early in martial arts, I am planning on doing the same with my kids whether they are boys or girls. I think it's awesome for self esteem, discipline and focus.
 
a child always sees what his dad does... not what his dad says..

Hope you can keep your status as alpha male as the years go by, love him and be there for him, a friendship with your child when they are older is something that I most cherish..

Congrats..
 
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