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I was at BlueShirt's house on Saturday watching the fights. It was about 4 of his friends, I was the only girl. Which is usually my scene except one of his friends gets on my nerves. And BlueShirt and I had been kinda arguing all day.

So my girl calls and says she and the chicks are at a bar watching the fights and why don't I come on down. When I get there I see that some old guy friends are there. One is this super sweet type...lets call him Mr. Big T.

Now Big T had this ridiculously jealous girlfriend the entire time I've known him. I thought this was sad cause he is a very kind and respectful guy. Anyway, he and I fall easy into conversation and I find out that he and Ms. Jelly have broken up more than six months ago. And toward the end of the night he admits to me that he is real sorry I met BlueShirt, cause he has had a crush on me for close to five years.

I'm thinking holy shit, cause I've had a crush on him too. He is the perfect combo of super hot minus the arrogance and very responsible and sweet. He has no kids but has dated women who have. And I know unlike Mr BlueShirt he tends to be a little more open about his feelings.

So what do I do?

I'm sitting there thinking about how yummi this guy is and I've wanted to be with him for a really long time. I know that Big T would want something long term. He and I have a great time together and we are super compatible. I've only been dating BlueShirt for a year. He barely knows my boys...

I don't share my thoughts with Big T. I tell him how flattered I am, I get up and go home to BlueShirt.

I still got Big T on my mind, but why complicate an already complicated situation?
 
You have been looking for a reason to get rid of blue shirt.
You just don't want to feel guilty because now this other guy is available.
So go ahead and buck up. Tell blue shirt things are moving too fast and you just want a few weeks to think about things.
It will be fine.


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I feel like BlueShirt has been with me thru a lot of crap. I wouldn't call our relationship comfy cause I have a real fear of him getting sick of my drama and leaving. He is sexy on several levels, smart, funny and treats me like a queen.

If I were gonna move on to Big T, how do I know I wouldn't have the same fears and be in the same place in another year?
 
you don't.

unfortunately in situations like this, you won't know unless you go for it
 
toss-a-coin-large-image.jpg
 
and I have a feeling if you did toss that coin, you'd hope for the new guy :-p
 
you said blue shirt was good to your kids....and now you say he doesnt really know them after a year.

sounds like you are making excuses to jump ship.
 
C0LUMB0 said:
you said blue shirt was good to your kids....and now you say he doesnt really know them after a year.

sounds like you are making excuses to jump ship.
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I thought I've pointed out several times that I don't let men near my boys and BlueShirt has only met them a handful of times.

When he has met them my youngest will ask a million questions. I think anyone else would get annoyed but BlueShirt stays patient. My oldest is super quiet and he doesn't really worry about that either. He says he was that age once too.
 
I admit, big T is a good looking guy. I was very surprised and flattered. But I don't believe that the grass is always greener on the other side.

Besides, what kid of bitch would I be if I did go for it? BlueShirt has put up with my drama, helped me out several times. I came to his place this weekend and he had bought me some work out clothes and other stuff I've needed. Then I jump on another guy cause the wind blew up my skirt a d I got a funny feeling?

Fuck that.
 
I recently heard this in a song, the grass is greener where you water it.

Tough situation, but in my worthless opinion, I think your always going to think that someone might be better.

Maybe I'm wrong
 
TryionLannister said:
I recently heard this in a song, the grass is greener where you water it.

Tough situation, but in my worthless opinion, I think your always going to think that someone might be better.

Maybe I'm wrong
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I think it was just flattering. If I thought he was better then I would take a chance with him. But I'm gonna stay where I'm at.
 
The most important part of your post in my opinion is "he barely knows my boys". That would be a deal breaker for me, it actually was at one point. I was engaged and realized that she didn't have the relationship with my son that I needed her to have. Long story short, I moved on and got married about three years later. We have been together for almost twenty years and have two boys of our own.

Why would you want to be with a man that can't treat your sons well too? Your sons should be number one, ANY man should be number three behind them and you...Just my .02 cents.
 
turnbacktime65 said:
The most important part of your post in my opinion is "he barely knows my boys". That would be a deal breaker for me, it actually was at one point. I was engaged and realized that she didn't have the relationship with my son that I needed her to have. Long story short, I moved on and got married about three years later. We have been together for almost twenty years and have two boys of our own.

Why would you want to be with a man that can't treat your sons well too? Your sons should be number one, ANY man should be number three behind them and you...Just my .02 cents.
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I guess if I wanna jump back on topic and be serious then ^^^^^^ this +1000
 
Yeah, but V's said many times that Blueshirt want's to get to know the boys better, but she's the one who's keeping it from happening.
 
When you are single is when you need to find your perfect match. how do you do that if you have to stick with the one person you are already with?
 
just...v said:
I was at BlueShirt's house on Saturday watching the fights. It was about 4 of his friends, I was the only girl. Which is usually my scene except one of his friends gets on my nerves. And BlueShirt and I had been kinda arguing all day.

So my girl calls and says she and the chicks are at a bar watching the fights and why don't I come on down. When I get there I see that some old guy friends are there. One is this super sweet type...lets call him Mr. Big T.

Now Big T had this ridiculously jealous girlfriend the entire time I've known him. I thought this was sad cause he is a very kind and respectful guy. Anyway, he and I fall easy into conversation and I find out that he and Ms. Jelly have broken up more than six months ago. And toward the end of the night he admits to me that he is real sorry I met BlueShirt, cause he has had a crush on me for close to five years.

I'm thinking holy shit, cause I've had a crush on him too. He is the perfect combo of super hot minus the arrogance and very responsible and sweet. He has no kids but has dated women who have. And I know unlike Mr BlueShirt he tends to be a little more open about his feelings.

So what do I do?

I'm sitting there thinking about how yummi this guy is and I've wanted to be with him for a really long time. I know that Big T would want something long term. He and I have a great time together and we are super compatible. I've only been dating BlueShirt for a year. He barely knows my boys...

I don't share my thoughts with Big T. I tell him how flattered I am, I get up and go home to BlueShirt.

I still got Big T on my mind, but why complicate an already complicated situation?
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Cool story
 
just...v said:
I was at BlueShirt's house on Saturday watching the fights. It was about 4 of his friends, I was the only girl. Which is usually my scene except one of his friends gets on my nerves. And BlueShirt and I had been kinda arguing all day.

So my girl calls and says she and the chicks are at a bar watching the fights and why don't I come on down. When I get there I see that some old guy friends are there. One is this super sweet type...lets call him Mr. Big T.

Now Big T had this ridiculously jealous girlfriend the entire time I've known him. I thought this was sad cause he is a very kind and respectful guy. Anyway, he and I fall easy into conversation and I find out that he and Ms. Jelly have broken up more than six months ago. And toward the end of the night he admits to me that he is real sorry I met BlueShirt, cause he has had a crush on me for close to five years.

I'm thinking holy shit, cause I've had a crush on him too. He is the perfect combo of super hot minus the arrogance and very responsible and sweet. He has no kids but has dated women who have. And I know unlike Mr BlueShirt he tends to be a little more open about his feelings.

So what do I do?

I'm sitting there thinking about how yummi this guy is and I've wanted to be with him for a really long time. I know that Big T would want something long term. He and I have a great time together and we are super compatible. I've only been dating BlueShirt for a year. He barely knows my boys...

I don't share my thoughts with Big T. I tell him how flattered I am, I get up and go home to BlueShirt.

I still got Big T on my mind, but why complicate an already complicated situation?
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Nobody cares
 
I bet he's not been single 6 months and is newly single and is looking for a rebound to fill the void! Don't do it!
If BS is a good guy, then don't make a mistake with this guy. Temptations are everywhere, true love is not!
 
So I see a new post, but I see fitguy posted it, and I hate to click on it, thinking, "this is not going to be worth the 5 seconds I'm about to spend to see this post", and without fail, I am right.
Fitguy is more interesting when he's blacked out.
 
Headholio said:
So I see a new post, but I see fitguy posted it, and I hate to click on it, thinking, "this is not going to be worth the 5 seconds I'm about to spend to see this post", and without fail, I am right.
Fitguy is more interesting when he's blacked out.
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Who in the fucking fuck do you think you are?
 
jackangel said:
bold move tossing out the heroin thing right out there.
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while i commend the confused bro for getting off the dope, i wonder if it is a good idea a few months later to be hitting the sauces...i'm guessing he just replaced one addiction with another
 
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binö said:
while i commend the confused bro for getting off the dope, i wonder if it is a good idea a few months later to be hitting the sauces...i'm guessing he just replaced addiction with another
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Some guys always have to be "taking something"
 
-SD- said:
Some guys always have to be "taking something"
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I am sure he is "taking" it up the ass too!



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just...v said:
I feel like BlueShirt has been with me thru a lot of crap. I wouldn't call our relationship comfy cause I have a real fear of him getting sick of my drama and leaving. He is sexy on several levels, smart, funny and treats me like a queen.

If I were gonna move on to Big T, how do I know I wouldn't have the same fears and be in the same place in another year?
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Don't waste your time being with someone because you feel obligated. You're no good to you or your kids if you don't make yourself happy and don't show them what being in a good relationship is.
 
-SD- said:
Some guys always have to be "taking something"
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i feel for the dude in a way, being fuct in dope must suck esp so young...but he is jeporadizing his sobriety fucking with joose so soon after coming off dope.
how many yrs of natty training can he possibly have at 24 yrs old and 17 months clean time?
i'm guessing max 17 months, proly less...imo you should have years worth of training before even considering sauces
 
binö said:
i feel for the dude in a way, being fuct in dope must suck esp so young...but he is jeporadizing his sobriety fucking with joose so soon after coming off dope.
how many yrs of natty training can he possibly have at 24 yrs old and 17 months clean time?
i'm guessing max 17 months, proly less...imo you should have years worth of training before even considering sauces
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Have you looked at his training youtube vids? He looks like a complete noob. No weight and no form, and he's giving people advice on shooting up hormones. Its pathetic.
 
Headholio said:
Have you looked at his training youtube vids? He looks like a complete noob. No weight and no form, and he's giving people advice on shooting up hormones. Its pathetic.
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He is famous in his own mind. I am sure he thinks he will be on the Texas shore soon.


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Headholio said:
Have you looked at his training youtube vids? He looks like a complete noob. No weight and no form, and he's giving people advice on shooting up hormones. Its pathetic.
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yea i know maing, it is terrible and some impressionable 15 yr old will proly start joosing because of watching them...but 17 months clean time is significant and i hate to see anyone making progress fuck up with a new substance that they think is better in whatever way.
imo a recovered dope fiend should not be using any drugs for years to come, but it's not like dude is gonna listen to me
 
binö said:
yea i know maing, it is terrible and some impressionable 15 yr old will proly start joosing because of watching them...but 17 months clean time is significant and i hate to see anyone making progress fuck up with a new substance that they think is better in whatever way.
imo a recovered dope fiend should not be using any drugs for years to come, but it's not like dude is gonna listen to me
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guy is an empty vessel rob. His vids, pof profile all signal a deep sucking at life.
 
and i've grown to like just///v, before i thought she was a sb groupie now she appears to actually have a personality besides the e-dick riding one
 
-SD- said:
guy is an empty vessel rob. His vids, pof profile all signal a deep sucking at life.
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I have to agree but I admire Bino's empathy. He is screwed up and misguided. Its easy to notice his suckiness, but I'm trying to appreciate the fact that at least he is trying to switch his life around from heroin to weights. A lot of losers never even make it that far.
 
Headholio said:
I have to agree but I admire Bino's empathy. He is screwed up and misguided. Its easy to notice his suckiness, but I'm trying to appreciate the fact that at least he is trying to switch his life around from heroin to weights. A lot of losers never even make it that far.
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You missed the vid where he asks what to do since he just knocked up some random bish

Empty vessel
 
turnbacktime65 said:
The most important part of your post in my opinion is "he barely knows my boys". That would be a deal breaker for me, it actually was at one point. I was engaged and realized that she didn't have the relationship with my son that I needed her to have. Long story short, I moved on and got married about three years later. We have been together for almost twenty years and have two boys of our own.

Why would you want to be with a man that can't treat your sons well too? Your sons should be number one, ANY man should be number three behind them and you...Just my .02 cents.
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Let me be very very clear....

My children are my life. Anyone on here that would suggest otherwise either hasn't read any of my posts or is fucking retarded. I'm assuming you haven't read any of my other posts.

I keep men seperate from my boys until I know them and am confident there is some kind of future. I will not parade man after man in an out of my house. My boys deserve better than that. They have been thru way too much with my separation with thier father so I make sure to let them slowly get to know my boyfriend. He wants to move faster but my kids need time.
 
Headholio said:
When you are single is when you need to find your perfect match. how do you do that if you have to stick with the one person you are already with?
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There is no such thing as perfection. Your fuckin fooling yourself if you think there is.
 
jnevin said:
Don't waste your time being with someone because you feel obligated. You're no good to you or your kids if you don't make yourself happy and don't show them what being in a good relationship is.
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This is really good advice. I made that mistake with my ex. I won't make it again.
 
just...v said:
Let me be very very clear....

My children are my life. Anyone on here that would suggest otherwise either hasn't read any of my posts or is fucking retarded. I'm assuming you haven't read any of my other posts.

I keep men seperate from my boys until I know them and am confident there is some kind of future. I will not parade man after man in an out of my house. My boys deserve better than that. They have been thru way too much with my separation with thier father so I make sure to let them slowly get to know my boyfriend. He wants to move faster but my kids need time.
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Beware of any man that pushes to meet your kids; That's a red flag.
 
A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush... It sounds retarded but it's true. Just cause you have a crush on the guy does not mean a relationship would work. Why leave the one your already happy in?
 
SinisterUproar said:
A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush... It sounds retarded but it's true. Just cause you have a crush on the guy does not mean a relationship would work. Why leave the one your already happy in?
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This was my thinking.

BlueShirt is not like anyone I've ever met. He is so much fun. We don't even have to go anywhere, as long as we are together we have a blast. He's my safe place when things get tough.
 
just...v said:
Red flag how? We talking creepy molester flag?


And we've been dating a year. Does that make a difference?
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I would tell him to be ware of any woman that you date for year that doesn't feel comfortable introducing you to her kids. I love that you are questioning your intent with him. If I were one of his friends I would be telling him "dump that crazy broad you are never going to have a serious MUTUAL relationship with her." You better shit or get off the pot this guy may find someone more needy than you that he can rescue. So stop fucking this guy over. Either get serious or let him find someone who will. That's just fucked up.


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javaguru said:
Beware of any man that pushes to meet your kids; That's a red flag.
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You're a fucking idiot. This is one of the least intelligent posts I've ever seen you make, and that's saying a lot.

A man, a real man, who wants a serious relationship with a woman who has children knows how important they are to her. They aren't her pets, they're fucking human beings she carried in the womb and would kill for, or die for if need be. It isn't like she has a cat who doesn't like the guy, if you can't get along with your SO's children, that's a full blown deal breaker. Getting to know someone whom you intend to have a serious relationship with is step one, if they have kids, that's a close second. Avoiding their kids like they're a disease? That's the red flag, you jackass.

God damn, you are retarded, java. if you are going to continue posting, please keep googling your responses to political threads, at least those were written by credible people and worth reading. Everyone here knows what type of small, insecure piece of shit you are in real life, and by no means should ANYONE take relationship advice from you.

Stick to Applebees and one nighters, long term just isn't your cup of tea.

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goin on 4T said:
I would tell him to be ware of any woman that you date for year that doesn't feel comfortable introducing you to her kids. I love that you are questioning your intent with him. If I were one of his friends I would be telling him "dump that crazy broad you are never going to have a serious MUTUAL relationship with her." You better shit or get off the pot this guy may find someone more needy than you that he can rescue. So stop fucking this guy over. Either get serious or let him find someone who will. That's just fucked up.


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A year is a long time. I agree its wierd. If the dude doesn't care then it means he doesn't really want to get serious with you, or he just isn't a kid person. Both bad signs if you are thinking long term. If I was with a girl for a year and didn't know her kids, I would call that relationship just a casual friendship.
 
goin on 4T said:
I would tell him to be ware of any woman that you date for year that doesn't feel comfortable introducing you to her kids. I love that you are questioning your intent with him. If I were one of his friends I would be telling him "dump that crazy broad you are never going to have a serious MUTUAL relationship with her." You better shit or get off the pot this guy may find someone more needy than you that he can rescue. So stop fucking this guy over. Either get serious or let him find someone who will. That's just fucked up.


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Jesus Christ.

Lemme give you a little insight on the situation. My boys watched while their father got physically and verbally abusive with me. They even had a little taste of it themselves. They are dealing with some trauma. I will not push a man on them and I don't give a fuck what anybody says. If a man is so self centered that his needs to be put infront of my kids then he can get the fuck out of my life.

BlueShirt is a big guy, he's tatted with a shaved head. He looks very physically intimidating. When my boys first met him they were tense. My oldest treated him like a dangerous animal.

Some of you men say you want an independent woman. But when you're faced with one you have no idea how to handle it. I've always been honest with him and ive always been loyal. I don't complain about stupid shit and I treat him really well.

If you want to advise your friends to find a needy bitch, have at it. But I have news for you...codependency is not a mature and mutual relationship. It's fuckin sick.
 
And he first met them about 6 months in. He and I together decided they needed more time. He has been where my kids are at and I think that's why he has been so patient.
 
Headholio said:
A year is a long time. I agree its wierd. If the dude doesn't care then it means he doesn't really want to get serious with you, or he just isn't a kid person. Both bad signs if you are thinking long term. If I was with a girl for a year and didn't know her kids, I would call that relationship just a casual friendship.
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This relationship started out super slow. It didn't get serious for several months.
 
I absolutely get why you want to wait to introduce BS to your kids until you clearly understand the future you want with him. It's not fair to your kids to bring guys in and out of their lives.

At the same time, you've had a year to get to know this guy. Maybe seeing Big T was a sign that it's time to decide what you want from all of this.

I'm guessing bs wants to get to know your kids because he wants to take things to the next level and he cares about you and the things (or people) you care about. That's great. But 1year is a good time to start evaluating whether or not he's a good fit for you and more importantly your kids.

I don't think you should immediately bring him in and start calling him dad. But if you are serious about the relationship you need to see how he really is with your kids. See how he is with them for longer periods of time. See how comfortable they are on their own with him without you in the same room. See whether or not he is the right man for them and for you.

Basically, you've had a year to decide if he's right for you. If you think he is, now it's time to start seeing if he's right for your kids.
 
callmejay said:
I absolutely get why you want to wait to introduce BS to your kids until you clearly understand the future you want with him. It's not fair to your kids to bring guys in and out of their lives.

At the same time, you've had a year to get to know this guy. Maybe seeing Big T was a sign that it's time to decide what you want from all of this.

I'm guessing bs wants to get to know your kids because he wants to take things to the next level and he cares about you and the things (or people) you care about. That's great. But 1year is a good time to start evaluating whether or not he's a good fit for you and more importantly your kids.

I don't think you should immediately bring him in and start calling him dad. But if you are serious about the relationship you need to see how he really is with your kids. See how he is with them for longer periods of time. See how comfortable they are on their own with him without you in the same room. See whether or not he is the right man for them and for you.

Basically, you've had a year to decide if he's right for you. If you think he is, now it's time to start seeing if he's right for your kids.
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I agree.

He's not the kind of guy that wears his heart on his sleeve. I wasn't sure of how he felt about me until recently. Since then we have had a weekly movie night with the boys. My youngest likes him. I also think he would be a very good example to my boys. He is gonna go to my family's house for Thanksgiving. But there is still a long way to go.

And you're right. What happened with Big T made me realize I could be faced with an old crush, but I still want my BlueShirt guy.
 
bigbassturd said:
you're a fucking idiot. This is one of the least intelligent posts i've ever seen you make, and that's saying a lot.

A man, a real man, who wants a serious relationship with a woman who has children knows how important they are to her. They aren't her pets, they're fucking human beings she carried in the womb and would kill for, or die for if need be. It isn't like she has a cat who doesn't like the guy, if you can't get along with your so's children, that's a full blown deal breaker. Getting to know someone whom you intend to have a serious relationship with is step one, if they have kids, that's a close second. Avoiding their kids like they're a disease? That's the red flag, you jackass.

God damn, you are retarded, java. If you are going to continue posting, please keep googling your responses to political threads, at least those were written by credible people and worth reading. Everyone here knows what type of small, insecure piece of shit you are in real life, and by no means should anyone take relationship advice from you.

Stick to applebees and one nighters, long term just isn't your cup of tea.

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lololollolololol!!!!!!
 
bigbassturd said:
you're a fucking idiot. This is one of the least intelligent posts i've ever seen you make, and that's saying a lot.

A man, a real man, who wants a serious relationship with a woman who has children knows how important they are to her. They aren't her pets, they're fucking human beings she carried in the womb and would kill for, or die for if need be. It isn't like she has a cat who doesn't like the guy, if you can't get along with your so's children, that's a full blown deal breaker. Getting to know someone whom you intend to have a serious relationship with is step one, if they have kids, that's a close second. Avoiding their kids like they're a disease? That's the red flag, you jackass.

God damn, you are retarded, java. If you are going to continue posting, please keep googling your responses to political threads, at least those were written by credible people and worth reading. Everyone here knows what type of small, insecure piece of shit you are in real life, and by no means should anyone take relationship advice from you.

Stick to applebees and one nighters, long term just isn't your cup of tea.

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+1
 
bigbassturd said:
You're a fucking idiot. This is one of the least intelligent posts I've ever seen you make, and that's saying a lot.

A man, a real man, who wants a serious relationship with a woman who has children knows how important they are to her. They aren't her pets, they're fucking human beings she carried in the womb and would kill for, or die for if need be. It isn't like she has a cat who doesn't like the guy, if you can't get along with your SO's children, that's a full blown deal breaker. Getting to know someone whom you intend to have a serious relationship with is step one, if they have kids, that's a close second. Avoiding their kids like they're a disease? That's the red flag, you jackass.

God damn, you are retarded, java. if you are going to continue posting, please keep googling your responses to political threads, at least those were written by credible people and worth reading. Everyone here knows what type of small, insecure piece of shit you are in real life, and by no means should ANYONE take relationship advice from you.

Stick to Applebees and one nighters, long term just isn't your cup of tea.

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I'll kill a fucking cat in half a second.......just sayin......
 
You love Texas you sumbitch


Have your kid you slacker, mine is already here!

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