Tell us the FIRST time you were Cheated on and WHY? and how it made you feel

[WhistleBritches]

~Me I have never been cheated ON
HOWEVER..............I came darn close which to me was as good as her following through ( at least in the same arena)

She could not control me fully, hated me and loved me at the same time. Once she lied to me about petty stuff over a 1 month period my care for her gave out because I KNEW she could not be trusted EVER again.
Because she liked me and resented me so much, I knew she was going to buy here time to either try to control me or Find another guy to dull the impending break up.
I pulled out just when she was in the sweet spot of maybe finding a new guy, but she wound up with Zilch. The thing that hurt me is that SHE WANTED to hurt me........

 

[puddlemonkey]

Never to my knowledge, I rarely keep them around long enough to do any damage.

 

[WhistleBritches]

Never to my knowledge, I rarely keep them around long enough to do any damage.

your like the Anti Dali Lama
yet so right in many ways

 

[chefbone]

Never...to my knowledge. Even if they did...they would get fucked up..... I do not tolerate that kinda shit.

 

[silverstar1025]

Getting cheated on sucks ass. I have been cheated on 3 times.

 

[Smurfy]

in HS my BF was caught making out with a friend of mine. I was so fucking pissed i wanted to kill the both of them. I think they were both scared.

 

[WhistleBritches]

Getting cheated on sucks ass. I have been cheated on 3 times.

HOW is that even POSSIBLE!!?!?

You certainly did not deserve any of that
I am SORRY

they LOST out big time

 

[chris302001]

HOW is that even POSSIBLE!!?!?

You certainly did not deserve any of that
I am SORRY

they LOST out big time

+1


I have a feeling this thread might make me sad...

 

[WhistleBritches]

in HS my BF was caught making out with a friend of mine. I was so fucking pissed i wanted to kill the both of them. I think they were both scared.

Thats the healthy response

shit just aint right
when people do that

its the Ultimate LIE and selfish act that HURTs another heart and can detroy or at least derail a Life for some time

 

[needtogetarmy]

I was cheated on twice. It made me feel bad. It takes time but I learned to forgive and move on.

One thing I learned is if you are nice to them and forgive them you win. They feel guilty and you will always have the upper hand.