TheOak01 said:
bro if someone puts a hand on you fight back,if someone if picking on you and your mad and want to fight,its time to grow up.
fighting is a last resort when someone threatens your safety
Exactly, and unless the guy is seriously after your life, or desperate for your wallet, you can almost always verbally diffuse the fight.
Sometimes all you have to do is feed the agressors ego just a bit, and he won't have a reason to attack anymore. Bullys are only looking to feed that ego to support a mini self-esteem.
You may get into a fight, and after seriously wish that it hadn't happened.
If you hurt him bad you may feel regret.
You may get sued.
You may get hurt. (as mentioned in an earlier thread, splitting your knuckles on a guy CAN exchange blood, and you don't know where he has been)
He may come back for revenge, with friends and weapons. In fact he may have a weapon the first time, you would be suprised at how many people carry knives. Don't fool yourself into thinking this will go away. It's not 1-0 in your favor and you're the champion, this is the real world.
You may be expelled.
etc... (all this has already been mentioned)
Again, what do you gain by winning the fight? Pride? Pride of what? Maybe you impress some losers you won't even know in 2 years? All you are doing is further escalating the situation.
I guess the impression given is that your situation is involving a lot of posturing. Obviously there has been at least verbal agression going back and forth, perhaps challenges or questioning of your virility. But if we have misunderstood and you have a real worry that they may just jump you without warning one day, or you are finding that your general freedom around school is under constant threat, then you might get a much more supportive response from this board.