Spoiled Fucking Brats

[Strongbow]

Kid just texted me and wants me to buy him a fucking 2010 Escalade, says its a steal at 38k with only 40k miles on it. Which I agree. tells me sell the Mustang or one of the trucks, he really wants this bish bad. Mitch whats the scoop on what this thing is worth? Suppose to be decked the fuck out with factory 22's wood grain, nav system, full visual package and all. Why am i even thinking about buying this thing?

 

[miplank]

is it awd?

 

[cindylou]

it's your own fault

 

[Strongbow]

is it awd?

I'm not sure, its his buddies grand mothers car, she just bought a 2013 Escalade, they own a dealership here locally.

 

[Strongbow]

it's your own fault

I'd buy it for you, you wanna be spoiled?

 

[cindylou]

too late

 

[Strongbow]

too late

WHo beat me to the punch?

 

[WoodyO]

Knot a fan of the escalade. It's a soccer mom looking SUV.

 

[noodles1010]

They're selling 2011with 30k miles for 38-40 here. Doesn't sound like much of a steal unless its truly loaded. Upgraded sound, captains chairs in rear with split bench, automatic running boards ect. And they don't hold their value very well. I was looking at one and decided on a x5 instead. Solely for the resale value. If you do buy it figure on keeping it 2-3 years and selling it if you want equity in it. Keep in mind it's 38,000 for a used 3 year old car.

 

[mistaballoonhands]

The upcoming redesign will likely push that resale value even lower.

 

[billfred]

Knot a fan of the escalade. It's a soccer mom looking SUV.

Escalade is Wigger. Perfect.

 

[miplank]

They're selling 2011with 30k miles for 38-40 here. Doesn't sound like much of a steal unless its truly loaded. Upgraded sound, captains chairs in rear with split bench, automatic running boards ect. And they don't hold their value very well. I was looking at one and decided on a x5 instead. Solely for the resale value. If you do buy it figure on keeping it 2-3 years and selling it if you want equity in it. Keep in mind it's 38,000 for a used 3 year old car.

dude, x5 resale is shit too.

 

[AFeedz]

WHo beat me to the punch?

Me.

 

[Strongbow]

Pretty sure he just wants a big SUV cause I got about 20k worth of Memphis Stero Equipment in my closet that is killing him to fucking death to put into something. Mitch he says it has a 6.0 in it is that an option on these cars? Guess I'm going to look at the damn thing here in a lil bit.

 

[Strongbow]

Me.

I love lesbian love, can I watch?

 

[miplank]

Pretty sure he just wants a big SUV cause I got about 20k worth of Memphis Stero Equipment in my closet that is killing him to fucking death to put into something. Mitch he says it has a 6.0 in it is that an option on these cars? Guess I'm going to look at the damn thing here in a lil bit.

if it has a 6.0L in it it's not an 07+ Escalade. That would make it an 06 or older.


in '07 They started putting a 6.2L in it. That's what my denali has in it.

 

[Strongbow]

if it has a 6.0L in it it's not an 07+ Escalade. That would make it an 06 or older.


in '07 They started putting a 6.2L in it. That's what my denali has in it.

MAybe a 6.2 I just didnt realize they put them big ass motors in SUV's. This one is supposed to be a 2010

 

[noodles1010]

Man get him a 79 gremlin with a flat tire and banana yellow paint and post a pic of his face when you give it to him lmao or better yet just get him a Prius lmaooo

 

[miplank]

MAybe a 6.2 I just didnt realize they put them big ass motors in SUV's. This one is supposed to be a 2010

lol, yeah they have the 6.2L and get at best like 14mpg no matter wtf you do.

 

[billfred]

Man get him a 79 gremlin with a flat tire and banana yellow paint and post a pic of his face when you give it to him lmao or better yet just get him a Prius lmaooo

1974 Vega was the first car I drove
1974 Chevrolet Vega GT

not a bigger piece of shit ever made

 

[SpyWizard]

if it has a 6.0L in it it's not an 07+ Escalade. That would make it an 06 or older.


in '07 They started putting a 6.2L in it. That's what my denali has in it.

i can vouch for that motor that's what my yukon denali had in it..

it was the shit..

 

[Strongbow]

Went and looked at the car yesterday, Grandma has an 05, 08, 10, and 2013 Escalades. The 08 has like 12k miles on it. I'm gonna try to talk the ole girl down a lil, see if we can work out something in trade or what not. I hear she is really into the younger dick, if she will let me hit it I may walk away with the car and some cash in my pocket.

 

[shirlene29]

i can vouch for that motor that's what my yukon denali had in it..

it was the shit..

holy fuck who can afford the gas

I unloaded my 5.9 because of its gas pig-ness

 

[Strongbow]

holy fuck who can afford the gas

I unloaded my 5.9 because of its gas pig-ness

I have a bulk gas tank where I work, I fill that bish with 93 octane every other week and fill up all my shit as needed. One of the perks of my job.

 

[smurf2]

You ain't ballin like Mitch and Needto so gtfoutta here with this shit ass thread. No one cares that your son is a wigger

 

[cindylou]

lol

 

[bigbassturd]

Lolololol

 

[zwhit]

lmao

 

[pdaddyII]

Omglolololololololololol

 

[miplank]

Lololololol

 

[noodles1010]

lmao malibu's most wanted

 

[Strongbow]

You ain't ballin like Mitch and Needto so gtfoutta here with this shit ass thread. No one cares that your son is a wigger

LOL you wanna poke shit at my son, put that lil ginger fuck of yours in the ring bitch or stfu. Might not be ballin like mitch or n2 but I'm damn sure balling mo than yo funky ass bish. So you wanna put lil red in the cage with beezy F Jr, I bet lil beezy kicks your sons ass and then your husbands ass too. I got money that says he beats them both down, now put up or shut the fuck up bioootch.

 

[Strongbow]

Lololololol

You of all people should not support stank fat bishes

 

[C0LUMB0]

A kid wants a $38000 car ? give him a smack in the mouf and tell him to STFU.

 

[Strongbow]

A kid wants a $38000 car ? give him a smack in the mouf and tell him to STFU.

I think I'm gonna buy it for him now just cause he ain't ballin according to EF's HaterAde Crew. Maybe then we can get some baller status up in this bish.. Just Joking if he wants to get rid of his Mustang for this car I have no problem with it at all, the Mustang was his toy, if he wants to replace it with another thats fine, we ain't trading no trucks for it thou. He wanted to trade my black Z71 for it. That shit ain't happening.

 

[miplank]

Fuck em' bro....lil beezy wants an escy get that lil ngr one. My son will be drivin fly shit...balee dat!

 

[miplank]

WHo beat me to the punch?

 

[cindylou]

I still luv you SB

 

[Strongbow]

Fuck em' bro....lil beezy wants an escy get that lil ngr one. My son will be drivin fly shit...balee dat!

If he wants it I'm prolly gonna get it. Beezy is a damn good kid, very humble when he has every reason not to be, takes up time with youngr kids, takes up time with kids who aren't labeled cool and don't let anyone fuck with them. Hell he'd prolly even take Smurf's kid under his wing and be cool with him, it's just how he is. So if a fucking car makes him happy and its not a bad investment for me it's his. He works his ass off round the house, in the weight room, and has started to really excel in the class room. Haters always gonna be sipping that haterade bro beans, but there ain't one fucker on here who wouldn't want there kid to grow up and be like Beezy F Baby Jr, the F is for Four three eight forty ngrs. He's smart, athletic, handsome, buffed up and humble. Ngr is what all dad's want their kids to be and I'm very proud of the boy, even if he is a lil spoiled.

 

[noodles1010]

fuck it then bow, get it for him. sounds like hes a good kid handling his shit and non the less if he fucks up u have something to take away.

 

[Strongbow]

fuck it then bow, get it for him. sounds like hes a good kid handling his shit and non the less if he fucks up u have something to take away.

He handles himself very well for a 15 year old kid with all the preassure he has on him. Comes with the territory thou, while most 15 year old boys, Smurf's included are trying to figure out which booger he's gonna pick next or where would be a good place to jerk one off at, my kid is already trying to figure out what college is gonna be a fit for him as a football player and a student. if he wants to play college baseball and football, is he also gonna run track or pick between two or concentrate on one sport. His girl friend got accepted to UGA last week, so she will be at Athens this summer and I know he has had that on his mind a lil. He's just a damn good kid with a very bright future, if he wants to bling his shit out some it's ok by me. Hell all my shit is blinged out with wheels and big subwoofers fuck it. And fuck a big cheese headed muth afucker trying to dis on him or me too. eat a fat dick bishes.

 

[miplank]

lol

 

[Strongbow]

Indeed

 

[smurf2]

LOL you wanna poke shit at my son, put that lil ginger fuck of yours in the ring bitch or stfu. Might not be ballin like mitch or n2 but I'm damn sure balling mo than yo funky ass bish. So you wanna put lil red in the cage with beezy F Jr, I bet lil beezy kicks your sons ass and then your husbands ass too. I got money that says he beats them both down, now put up or shut the fuck up bioootch.

lolololololol are you from the stone ages? you put your son in a cage? like a cock fight? Impressive.


jk You know I love you SB.

 

[Strongbow]

lolololololol are you from the stone ages? you put your son in a cage? like a cock fight? Impressive.


jk You know I love you SB.

You bish you know I love you too, and you know damn well i'm from the stone ages.

 

[mistaballoonhands]

If he wants it I'm prolly gonna get it. Beezy is a damn good kid, very humble when he has every reason not to be, takes up time with youngr kids, takes up time with kids who aren't labeled cool and don't let anyone fuck with them. Hell he'd prolly even take Smurf's kid under his wing and be cool with him, it's just how he is. So if a fucking car makes him happy and its not a bad investment for me it's his. He works his ass off round the house, in the weight room, and has started to really excel in the class room. Haters always gonna be sipping that haterade bro beans, but there ain't one fucker on here who wouldn't want there kid to grow up and be like Beezy F Baby Jr, the F is for Four three eight forty ngrs. He's smart, athletic, handsome, buffed up and humble. Ngr is what all dad's want their kids to be and I'm very proud of the boy, even if he is a lil spoiled.

Lol your so bent out of shape,.., Mission accomplished

 

[Strongbow]

Lol your so bent out of shape,.., Mission accomplished

LMAO man stop playing, you fag. You been doing any prostate exams lately?

 

[smurf2]

You bish you know I love you too, and you know damn well i'm from the stone ages.

lolomg i'm cracking up that you redded me haha. U serios? You musta been real mad lmao

 

[mistaballoonhands]

LMAO man stop playing, you fag. You been doing any prostate exams lately?

If your lookin for someone to fist fuck you, look elsewhere

Lolol don't give me red k! Anything but that!

 

[bigpokey]

lololololollol

 

[Strongbow]

lololololollol

Ima tell the buffguy on you he dont like your faggot as as it is.

 

[iamthatiam]

Kid just texted me and wants me to buy him a fucking 2010 Escalade, says its a steal at 38k with only 40k miles on it. Which I agree. tells me sell the Mustang or one of the trucks, he really wants this bish bad. Mitch whats the scoop on what this thing is worth? Suppose to be decked the fuck out with factory 22's wood grain, nav system, full visual package and all. Why am i even thinking about buying this thing?

Because you're a sucker?

 

[Strongbow]

Because you're a sucker?

I am a suxer as far as my kids go for sure

 

[noodles1010]

I am a suxer as far as my kids go for sure

you and me both... we are shmucks lol. i coulda had a ferrari by now and then some... maybe next lifetime

 

[Strongbow]

you and me both... we are shmucks lol. i coulda had a ferrari by now and then some... maybe next lifetime

I've laways been hard on my kids, as far as working and being tough, no whinning, no quitting, no matter what. I demand 110% effort in whatever they do, and I demand if they want to do something they work to be the damn best at it. So far they have all been accomplished in whatever they have done. My oldest played college football and is now going to medical school. My 15 year old is the best damn athlete I have ever seen and I played a lil pro baseball after school, so i have seen some good ones. My oldest son says my youngest would have easily been the best running back on his college team by far. The lil girl is a damn phenome dancer does all the aireal shit flips and all kinds of crazy shit. She danced in a Disney production last year at Disney World and plays short stop on a pretty damn good girls travel softball team. They stay busy and handle their bidness, don't get into any trouble and are very respectful and humble towards others. i'm a very blessed man to have the kids I have. They have good momma's I guess.

 

[wootoom]

If he wants it I'm prolly gonna get it. Beezy is a damn good kid, very humble when he has every reason not to be, takes up time with youngr kids, takes up time with kids who aren't labeled cool and don't let anyone fuck with them. Hell he'd prolly even take Smurf's kid under his wing and be cool with him, it's just how he is. So if a fucking car makes him happy and its not a bad investment for me it's his. He works his ass off round the house, in the weight room, and has started to really excel in the class room. Haters always gonna be sipping that haterade bro beans, but there ain't one fucker on here who wouldn't want there kid to grow up and be like Beezy F Baby Jr, the F is for Four three eight forty ngrs. He's smart, athletic, handsome, buffed up and humble. Ngr is what all dad's want their kids to be and I'm very proud of the boy, even if he is a lil spoiled.

He's humble but yet he wants an Escalade paid for him by his daddy...come on

 

[wootoom]

Because you're a sucker?

Fuck off you ugly mongoloid.get a fucking tan and a no no

 

[wootoom]

If your lookin for someone to fist fuck you, look elsewhere

Lolol don't give me red k! Anything but that!

*you're*

 

[noodles1010]

I've laways been hard on my kids, as far as working and being tough, no whinning, no quitting, no matter what. I demand 110% effort in whatever they do, and I demand if they want to do something they work to be the damn best at it. So far they have all been accomplished in whatever they have done. My oldest played college football and is now going to medical school. My 15 year old is the best damn athlete I have ever seen and I played a lil pro baseball after school, so i have seen some good ones. My oldest son says my youngest would have easily been the best running back on his college team by far. The lil girl is a damn phenome dancer does all the aireal shit flips and all kinds of crazy shit. She danced in a Disney production last year at Disney World and plays short stop on a pretty damn good girls travel softball team. They stay busy and handle their bidness, don't get into any trouble and are very respectful and humble towards others. i'm a very blessed man to have the kids I have. They have good momma's I guess.

i was the same way... i wasnt in sports, but fought semi pro for my age at the time, but my parents demanded the best and 110%. i was trained solo by a master in tae kwon do for 10 years then towards the end another 2 years with a russian boxing champ. 14 hours a week. took me very far in life. i try to instill the same thing in my son now (minus the 14 hours, i want him to still be a kid). hes only 5 but hes the top 3 on his basketball team, baseball, and he kicks ass in soccer. he wants to learn to fight like daddy but i wont teach him yet. he needs to learn to fight with his brain, then his fists... do you agree? i think at 5 he cant see right and wrong enough to know how to break a arm or worse. he is crazy competitive and get frustrated with himself so easy. its hard to keep him calm when that happens... did your kids have the same problem being in sports? all the kids in his school love him and he knows how to handle it. at 5 how much can you expect from him when there is still so much ahead... i guess i just want the best foundation for him. hes sooo smart. seriously, i dont wanna come of like one of those "my kid is the best" people, but the kid really is so fuckin smart and so chill.

 

[goin on 4T]

I've laways been hard on my kids, as far as working and being tough, no whinning, no quitting, no matter what. I demand 110% effort in whatever they do, and I demand if they want to do something they work to be the damn best at it. So far they have all been accomplished in whatever they have done. My oldest played college football and is now going to medical school. My 15 year old is the best damn athlete I have ever seen and I played a lil pro baseball after school, so i have seen some good ones. My oldest son says my youngest would have easily been the best running back on his college team by far. The lil girl is a damn phenome dancer does all the aireal shit flips and all kinds of crazy shit. She danced in a Disney production last year at Disney World and plays short stop on a pretty damn good girls travel softball team. They stay busy and handle their bidness, don't get into any trouble and are very respectful and humble towards others. i'm a very blessed man to have the kids I have. They have good momma's I guess.

Wow that is pretty damn bad ass. Nice work.


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[mistaballoonhands]

*you're*

Thanks bro

 

[miplank]

good lookin' out!

 

[mistaballoonhands]

^hell yea

 

[Strongbow]

He's humble but yet he wants an Escalade paid for him by his daddy...come on

You got a Viper but you're a good humble dude. You can be humble and still be a baller.

 

[Strongbow]

i was the same way... i wasnt in sports, but fought semi pro for my age at the time, but my parents demanded the best and 110%. i was trained solo by a master in tae kwon do for 10 years then towards the end another 2 years with a russian boxing champ. 14 hours a week. took me very far in life. i try to instill the same thing in my son now (minus the 14 hours, i want him to still be a kid). hes only 5 but hes the top 3 on his basketball team, baseball, and he kicks ass in soccer. he wants to learn to fight like daddy but i wont teach him yet. he needs to learn to fight with his brain, then his fists... do you agree? i think at 5 he cant see right and wrong enough to know how to break a arm or worse. he is crazy competitive and get frustrated with himself so easy. its hard to keep him calm when that happens... did your kids have the same problem being in sports? all the kids in his school love him and he knows how to handle it. at 5 how much can you expect from him when there is still so much ahead... i guess i just want the best foundation for him. hes sooo smart. seriously, i dont wanna come of like one of those "my kid is the best" people, but the kid really is so fuckin smart and so chill.

Honestly I don't think they are ever too young to instill values and work ethic in them. My kids are all very geneticly gifted, so sports have always come very easy to them. My oldest and my youngest are gifted in the fact that school work comes easy to them, the middle child has to bust his ass to make decent grades, but is the most physically gifted of the three. I have always approched them the same, if you do it, you work your ass off to do it the best you can, if you do it the best that you can, it will be better than anyone else. My outlook on life is some what backwards from what most people think. I say work your ass off to make your life easy while you are young and able and generally that means starting very young. As you get older you slow down and let the fruits of your labor be enjoyed. Most people would have you think be young have fun while youre a kid, those are the people who at 50 are still busting there ass to make ends meet. You cant demand that your child be better than others, but you can demand he be the best he can be. Teach him to work at wahtever he does. Demand he spend a lil time each day working at whatever it is he is playing. If its soccer then make him spend 30 to 45 mins working on some aspect of his game. Thats a small amount of time out of a childs day. You will create good work habits and they will soon become part of his every day routine. They will carry over to every aspect of his life as he grows older. My kid still swings a baseball bat 50 times a day in a mirror to this day. He learned that as a 6 year old and has carried it with him for the last 9 years. If he goes off for the weekend he carries a wood bat handle so that he can do it every nite before bed. has he ever missed a day? I'm sure he has, but I watched him pack his bags this morning, he's going to Athens for 4 days, the baseball bat handle was the first thing he stuck in the bag. I've basically taken all the mistakes I have ever made and done my best to train my kids around them. And my kids love me, they love to be with me, so you can teach them how to prepare themselves for life and still be a loving parent. Stay after his lil ass, when he falls flat on his face, pick him up dust his ass off and shove him back in the fire. you'll be glad you did.

 

[noodles1010]

Honestly I don't think they are ever too young to instill values and work ethic in them. My kids are all very geneticly gifted, so sports have always come very easy to them. My oldest and my youngest are gifted in the fact that school work comes easy to them, the middle child has to bust his ass to make decent grades, but is the most physically gifted of the three. I have always approched them the same, if you do it, you work your ass off to do it the best you can, if you do it the best that you can, it will be better than anyone else. My outlook on life is some what backwards from what most people think. I say work your ass off to make your life easy while you are young and able and generally that means starting very young. As you get older you slow down and let the fruits of your labor be enjoyed. Most people would have you think be young have fun while youre a kid, those are the people who at 50 are still busting there ass to make ends meet. You cant demand that your child be better than others, but you can demand he be the best he can be. Teach him to work at wahtever he does. Demand he spend a lil time each day working at whatever it is he is playing. If its soccer then make him spend 30 to 45 mins working on some aspect of his game. Thats a small amount of time out of a childs day. You will create good work habits and they will soon become part of his every day routine. They will carry over to every aspect of his life as he grows older. My kid still swings a baseball bat 50 times a day in a mirror to this day. He learned that as a 6 year old and has carried it with him for the last 9 years. If he goes off for the weekend he carries a wood bat handle so that he can do it every nite before bed. has he ever missed a day? I'm sure he has, but I watched him pack his bags this morning, he's going to Athens for 4 days, the baseball bat handle was the first thing he stuck in the bag. I've basically taken all the mistakes I have ever made and done my best to train my kids around them. And my kids love me, they love to be with me, so you can teach them how to prepare themselves for life and still be a loving parent. Stay after his lil ass, when he falls flat on his face, pick him up dust his ass off and shove him back in the fire. you'll be glad you did.

you sound like a great dad. refreshing to read stuff like this with all the neg shit that flies around. ill take your advice and see how it works out. you make a lot of sense in what your saying and ive said and believe a lot of what youre saying now. i guess im just a little reluctant because i was trained so hard at a young age, but i guess youre right, it shaped me into who and what i am today. i will start on him with the soccer, he seems to really like that and is awesome at it.
for baseball, when i was living in arizona, scottsdale, they were HUGE on baseball. i had him in a league coached by semi pros. was a bit expensive but i loved how they worked with him year round. unfortunately here in ny the only coaching he gets with a bat is the proper way to hit someone with it. gotta find a good league here. the schools are phenomenal but i just find that the leagues spend more one on one with them.

 

[miplank]

beezy...you my boy but gutdamn you gotta start using paragraphs ngr

 

[noodles1010]

beezy...you my boy but gutdamn you gotta start using paragraphs ngr

Another country heard from... Keep quiet when grown men are talking slime ball.

 

[AFeedz]

You got a Viper but you're a good humble dude. You can be humble and still be a baller.

But he worked for his own Viper.

 

[miplank]

Another country heard from... Keep quiet when grown men are talking slime ball.

don't ever fuckin quote me again

 

[Strongbow]

beezy...you my boy but gutdamn you gotta start using paragraphs ngr

Man fuck them paragraphs, that shit is for trained ngrs. the man wants you to use paragraphs, I says fuck da man and I ain't using his paragraphs.

 

[IncredibleHoss]

What's a good car valuation site?
Plank wanna help me estimate what my Rover is worth?
There will be some karma in it for you
Or butt play

 

[miplank]

pm me the info..i can help

 

[Strongbow]

But he worked for his own Viper.

Wanting something used at all is a sign of humility where he goes to school. Fucking 16 year olds driving Beemers, Benzs, and 60k 4wd pick ups everywhere. The cheapest thing in the parking lot last year was a 2011 Dodge Challenger that's prolly a 35k collar car. Besides as long as he runs that fucking pig skin and makes them grades, he will save me a helluva lot more than 38k, so he's earning it.

 

[caligirl85]

I think, as a parent, it's also important to be aware of the child and ensure it's their goals and dreams vs our own. I totally agree with just about everything SB is saying and am of a similar mindset. More parents need to instill hard working values in their children. The thing is, they're not all genetically gifted and they do need to learn a balance. I work in child psychiatry and sometimes we get kids in who have attempted suicide because the pressure to perform at home/ school is soooo high and they can't manage it. They would rather be "sick" than tell their parents it's too much or not what they really want to do.

Don't get me wrong. I push my son hard and he's looking at college athletic scholarships and we're in negotiations currently but there was a point, where it got to be a lot and he wasn't sure if he wanted to continue on. I had to take a step back and realize that I was putting even more pressure on him and I had to accept the fact that he'd still be a great kid even if he decided to leave his sport. It would have broken my heart but it's his life.

The main point is....know your kid. Find the balance. And love them no matter what.

 

[Strongbow]

I think, as a parent, it's also important to be aware of the child and ensure it's their goals and dreams vs our own. I totally agree with just about everything SB is saying and am of a similar mindset. More parents need to instill hard working values in their children. The thing is, they're not all genetically gifted and they do need to learn a balance. I work in child psychiatry and sometimes we get kids in who have attempted suicide because the pressure to perform at home/ school is soooo high and they can't manage it. They would rather be "sick" than tell their parents it's too much or not what they really want to do.

Don't get me wrong. I push my son hard and he's looking at college athletic scholarships and we're in negotiations currently but there was a point, where it got to be a lot and he wasn't sure if he wanted to continue on. I had to take a step back and realize that I was putting even more pressure on him and I had to accept the fact that he'd still be a great kid even if he decided to leave his sport. It would have broken my heart but it's his life.

The main point is....know your kid. Find the balance. And love them no matter what.

Well said, and I agree. You cant forse a child to achieve unattainable goals. I have never forced sports on my kds only stated that if you so choose to play you will work your ass off to be as good as you can be. You will not blame others for your failures, in fact you should be so great that when and if your team mate fails you can tote his load as well as your own. Many will not agree with that, but many are pathetic losers who blame everyone but themselves for the bad shit that happens to them and instill the same half ass morals into their children. We like to call them Democrats where I live.
For Mitch another paragraph. Cali the best way I have found to take that step back is to leave shit on the field on the field. We do not talk about things we can not change, we only learn from those things and train in the areas that we are weak to be better. My kids don't get the whole ride home shake down about all the shit they didn't do. We have a great relationship and I respect his work ethic and I know that nobody wants to succeed more than he does for himself and for his team. Our parent kid relationship does not revolve around sports, we just have an understanding of what is work time and what is play time. I have lived my life, I refuse to consume my kids life so that I can have another chance, when you lose sight of that things can get out of hand and you will push your kid away from sports or anything else for that matter.

 

[miplank]

lemme get a space inbetween them paragraphs brongr

 

[Strongbow]

Got damn I didn't space or indent the fucking paragraph FML

 

[cindylou]

I agree Cali. Abby isn't my mirror. Her identity is hers. She is free to become who she wants to be.

I think parents focus too much on grades and sports and don't even consider if their kids grow up to be people with integrity. Balance is important. We push them to the edge, silently teaching them that their worth to us is based on how they perform so they can succeed and be a consumer in the future, then we turn around and call them spoiled when they ask for expensive clothes, shoes and vehicles when all they've done is accept the truth we've taught them: their value is based on what they have and not who they are.

 

[bigbassturd]

I aint readin shit in this bish till we start spacing fucking shit out

 

[caligirl85]

Well said, and I agree. You cant forse a child to achieve unattainable goals. I have never forced sports on my kds only stated that if you so choose to play you will work your ass off to be as good as you can be. You will not blame others for your failures, in fact you should be so great that when and if your team mate fails you can tote his load as well as your own. Many will not agree with that, but many are pathetic losers who blame everyone but themselves for the bad shit that happens to them and instill the same half ass morals into their children. We like to call them Democrats where I live.
For Mitch another paragraph. Cali the best way I have found to take that step back is to leave shit on the field on the field. We do not talk about things we can not change, we only learn from those things and train in the areas that we are weak to be better. My kids don't get the whole ride home shake down about all the shit they didn't do. We have a great relationship and I respect his work ethic and I know that nobody wants to succeed more than he does for himself and for his team. Our parent kid relationship does not revolve around sports, we just have an understanding of what is work time and what is play time. I have lived my life, I refuse to consume my kids life so that I can have another chance, when you lose sight of that things can get out of hand and you will push your kid away from sports or anything else for that matter.

Great point and points! I actually read it all. Mitch. LOL

I had to learn that the hard way. I'm super competitive and just pushed and pushed and forgot the balance. You feel like crap once you realize!

 

[miplank]

I agree Cali. Abby isn't my mirror. Her identity is hers. She is free to become who she wants to be.

I think parents focus too much on grades and sports and don't even consider if their kids grow up to be people with integrity. Balance is important. We push them to the edge, silently teaching them that their worth to us is based on how they perform so they can succeed and be a consumer in the future, then we turn around and call them spoiled when they ask for expensive clothes, shoes and vehicles when all they've done is accept the truth we've taught them: their value is based on what they have and not who they are.

I just bought abby a Jeep Grand cherokee Srt8

 

[miplank]

Great point and points! I actually read it all. Mitch. LOL

I had to learn that the hard way. I'm super competitive and just pushed and pushed and forgot the balance. You feel like crap once you realize!

And you know what...if I had the means...and my kid worked hard, I'd buy him something cool to drive too.

lol..why do they have to do good in sports to get a sick whip?


fuck that, I don't give a fuck if my son plays sports or not. As long as he grows up to be a gentlemen and a man of his word I could give a fug less.

 

[caligirl85]

lol..why do they have to do good in sports to get a sick whip?


fuck that, I don't give a fuck if my son plays sports or not. As long as he grows up to be a gentlemen and a man of his word I could give a fug less.

Ya...really, I agree. As long as he's a good person, works hard at whatever he does and has integrity, I'm happy! Those things are far more valuable. He'll be lucky to be driving a neon. lol

 

[miplank]

lol...my son will be driving some bad shit but only cuz I can't be having him drive some hoopty...


but if he's anything like me (he's EXACTLY like me) he'll take good care of his whips cuz we luv that shit.

 

[caligirl85]

And you have stacks! You can get cool whips!!

 

[miplank]

balee dat...baby plank gets what that lil ngr wants.

 

[AFeedz]

balee dat...baby plank gets what that lil ngr wants.

Baby plank!

 

[Mr. dB]

Do you live in a castle like Plunkey's?

 

[bigbassturd]

Plank lives on a farm

 

[miplank]

LOL, no I don't!

 

[miplank]

Do you live in a castle like Plunkey's?

I live in a 400sq. ft studio apt.

 

[zwhit]

java, that you bro?

 

[bigbassturd]

LOL, no I don't!

you sold the farm rob?

 

[miplank]

lolololol

 

[SinisterUproar]

You ain't ballin like Mitch and Needto so gtfoutta here with this shit ass thread. No one cares that your son is a wigger

hahahahahahahahahahahahHahHahahaha

 

[Mr. dB]

I live in a 400sq. ft studio apt.

I was asking Strongbow.

 

[pdaddyII]

Java lives in the same apts I used to live in when I first moved out of my parents house at 18. That place is ghetto as fuck and right next door to a fertilizer company so it literally always smells like shit...real talk

 

[miplank]

Java lives in the same apts I used to live in when I first moved out of my parents house at 18. That place is ghetto as fuck and right next door to a fertilizer company so it literally always smells like shit...real talk

lol

 

[Strongbow]

I was asking Strongbow.

I have two houses bro beans, neither one a castle by any means, but both pretty nice houses. I've posted pics before. I got lucky on a couple things daddy had a lot of irons in the fire.