Speaking of relationships...

[Carmen]

in this age where the internet brings people from different coasts or different countries as close as a phone call away- connections are being made easier than ever before. Its become the new "singles scene".
do you think its possible to fall in love with someone you never actually met?

 

[SoreArms]

maybe spark curiosity and at the most fall "in lust"

I dont think you can, atleast you shouldn't, fall in love until you have met a few times and spent some time together.

 

[Dial_tone]

It's infatuation until you've met physically.

 

[Deleted member 33117]

It's infatuation until you've met physically.

Yep. I've dated and slept with ALOT of girls I've met online, but I agree, it's infatuation until you have gotten to know them offline.

 

[Dial_tone]

BBF, you of all people got no bidness on a relationship thread. LOL

 

[nvrbuffenuff_girl]

You may think you are in love with that person but you really will never know if you never meet them. So in reality, its not love that you are in. It's lust.

 

[Deleted member 33117]

BBF, you of all people got no bidness on a relationship thread. LOL

Maybe, maybe not, but I am pretty sure I get the hookup online more than 95% of the peeps on this board (Lestat me have me beat), so I have alot of experience on the topic of this thread.

 

[Dial_tone]

The topic is love, not who boinked the most chicks. I don't think you've loved any of them.

 

[jerseyart]

Depends

Different perspective.

Some say love is nothing morew than a chemical reaction intended by evolution to keep people together for the proper raising of children. Human children take a long time to grow and become self sufficient, so it is necessary to have two parents ideally to facilitate that process. "Love" then would be nothing more than our biology telling us to do something we are programmed to feel. If thats the case, and all the chemicals are working properly, then it is no less "real" than anyone elses love. Might be less practical, but no less genuine.

If that isn't the case, and love is something beyond the physical, then how do you put limits on something that can't be comprehended.

The problem I think is that most people confuse "feeling good" with love. They are "in love" so long as it makes them feel good, and no longer "in love" when it doesn't. The understanding is poor.

 

[Deleted member 33117]

The topic is love, not who boinked the most chicks. I don't think you've loved any of them.

Actaully I did really love one of them. However, I would rather not talk about that.