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heavy_duty

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what's the diff or where is the line?
I do hit my kids on the ass (not bare ass) from time to time after warning the ass slap is coming.

I have learned that spanking only teaches them to hit somebody when you're mad at them!

anyway, in your opinon what takes it from a spanking to a beating?
I was never beat as a kid. If I was spanked it was only 1 slap on the ass. But I had friends who told me they got "major lickings"

thanks.
 
heavy_duty said:
what's the diff or where is the line?
I do hit my kids on the ass (not bare ass) from time to time after warning the ass slap is coming.

I have learned that spanking only teaches them to hit somebody when you're mad at them!

anyway, in your opinon what takes it from a spanking to a beating?
I was never beat as a kid. If I was spanked it was only 1 slap on the ass. But I had friends who told me they got "major lickings"

thanks.
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Showing anger when you spank will teach them to hit when they are mad. Easier said than done. My mother has been a foster parent for 20 years or so. Bruising that last 24 hrs or longer generally qualify as abuse. But the laws may have changed in the 11 years since I lived at home.
 
I don't believe in inflicting pain on a child for any reason, unless you wake up in the middle of the night ,and they are standing there with a gun to you're head.
 
TOTW potential right here. People's personal opinions are always different than what the State Officials and Laws say.
there is a different between Corporal Punishment (physical discipline) and what is considered Physical Abuse. These are not one in the same, but they can be. Meaning, all corporal punishment would not be considered Child Abuse in the eyes of the law. Llightly spanking a kid on their rump is not considered Child Abuse. Although some people are so much against any spanking at all, they would believe it is.
 
heavy_duty said:
It would help if we post up how many kids we have.
I have at least 2
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I have one. Also, my previous job was as a Licensed Child Welfare Professional for Cook County for 12 years. I've pretty much seen it all when it comes to Child Abuse and Neglect
 
A spanking is not abuse. period.

An adult doesn't need to be told the difference.

I got the spanked with hands, belts, wooden spoons (when they broke, it was plastic spatulas) and switches I got to pick out.
Nothing wrong with it. More parents should spank.
 
The best way to get a sugar filled screaming kid to behave is to try to relate to it, show it respect and try to understand it's feelings.

if that doesn't work, a stern talking to followed by a time out would be the best route.

sometimes, I wish I were allowed to spank other peoples kids :(
 
My parents spanked me, they used wooden spoons.
My dad only beat me once and thats when I cursed at my mother. He taught me never to disrespect a women. It worked!
 
cboogsrun said:
Showing anger when you spank will teach them to hit when they are mad. Easier said than done. My mother has been a foster parent for 20 years or so. Bruising that last 24 hrs or longer generally qualify as abuse. But the laws may have changed in the 11 years since I lived at home.
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I dont believe that. Spanking them when they are bad will teach them that there are consequences for their actions and keep them from going to jail
 
heavy_duty said:
It would help if we post up how many kids we have.
I have at least 2
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i have three. . .they all get smacked on the bum from time-to-time. . .children have very short attention spans and a smack on the bum very quickly lets them know, in no uncertain terms, that they have done something wrong and there are consequences for their actions. . .time out is bullshit imho. . .my kids would think about what they did wrong for about two seconds then something else would get their attention and that would be the end of it. . .

imho. . .sticking them in their room, by themselves, not allowing them to have any contact with anyone and ignoring them while they "think about what they did wrong" is abuse. . .plus it's absentee parenting. . .smack'em in the bum, tell them what they did wrong and let them get on with their lives. . .

abuse is torture (mental or physical). . .a smack on the bum is not torture, therefore it is not abuse. . .it's merely a clear and concise corrective action. . .
 
Beating would be causing extreme bodily harm like choking, whipping leaving beat marks.

Spanking - what i recived would be enough to make me cry. up till i was like 12 but we never got spanked on the ass..

Dad- slap on the face

Mom her slaps were weak so she would use a wooden spoon or coat hanger.

It wasnt like timed spankins.

like say i got my report card. My dad would be going over it, call me down talk them wham wham faizakafez is in tears
 
I was spanked ; but only when I disobeyed instructions that were there for my safety , running in the street, not looking both ways, talking to strangers, not listening to my mom when she told me to stay away from the oven, etc.

I believe in spanking, I think the difference is pain to control vs pain to love and teach.
 
cindylou said:
lol I used to pretend to cry and scream, and act like it hurt so bad, and it never really did lololol
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lol with my mom when i got a older like 12-13 i would be like are you done yet?

but my dad oh hell no..
 
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