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So my gf asked me...

slat1

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how many women I have slept with.
We were laying in bed at the time.

I said "I don't know"

She said "two"

Me "yeah"

Her "four"

Me "yeah"

Her "eight"

Me "Look I have no idea" I said it in an irritated way.

The conversation ended.

My question is who would ask someone that?

Ladies. How they hell does a guy get out of that situation without totally blowing it.
*Note: There is no way I am telling the truth. It would cause all sorts of problems.
 
lolol

thats as bad as when a guy asks if you've ever been with someone bigger or better than him


How in the hell do you answer that?
 
No I agree, what is in the past should always stay in the past. She really shouldn't of asked you that question IMO...is she pretty young? Because us older chicks arent' stupid enough to think that any guy we have been with is a virgin, almost always far from it.
Anyway, I would always hope my b/f or guy dating does have some experience, I don't get the whole "I want a virgin" fantasy.....I want to be with someone that knows what he is doing...maybe even show me a thing or 2 :kiss:
 
FEISTY11975 said:
lolol

thats as bad as when a guy asks if you've ever been with someone bigger or better than him


How in the hell do you answer that?
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lol that is so true!! I have had guys ask me that also...I think that is worst!
 
I was asked that same question. . .after I was married for chrissakes. I handled it the same way. By then, that shit was obviously water under the bridge anyway. Plus, when we get together with friends from college, there's always one or two of "them" in attendance. My wife knowing that shit wouldn't do anyone any good. . .it would just be weird.

Truth be told, no one else in the whole wide world mattered after I met her. :)
 
alien amp pharm said:
So in a ballpark figure, how many have you slept with, and they like it?
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Now that is mean
 
just say a baker's dozen.
 
my bf asked me the same question, I answered truthfully... but I don't dare ask him... LOL
 
slat1 said:
how many women I have slept with.
We were laying in bed at the time.

I said "I don't know"

She said "two"

Me "yeah"

Her "four"

Me "yeah"

Her "eight"

Me "Look I have no idea" I said it in an irritated way.

The conversation ended.

My question is who would ask someone that?

Ladies. How they hell does a guy get out of that situation without totally blowing it.
*Note: There is no way I am telling the truth. It would cause all sorts of problems.
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almost every girl ive been with asked that question
 
you should have just told her that you don't live in the past and you only know that you want to sleep with her. that's when you turn your head and mumble in a soft voice "for now..."

i don't get the point in even asking a question like that for either sex... everyone know's their going to lie!
 
I always ask girls i am about to sleep with how many dudes they have had


hoping it'll be a real low number so they won't realize how much I suck in bed because they'll have nothing to compare it to.
 
slat1 said:
how many women I have slept with.
We were laying in bed at the time.

I said "I don't know"

She said "two"

Me "yeah"

Her "four"

Me "yeah"

Her "eight"

Me "Look I have no idea" I said it in an irritated way.

The conversation ended.

My question is who would ask someone that?

Ladies. How they hell does a guy get out of that situation without totally blowing it.
*Note: There is no way I am telling the truth. It would cause all sorts of problems.
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This question is so bloody stupid. It's laced with insecurity and ruins countless relationships. Good luck bro.
 
Turn it around on her! Even if her answer is a low number pressure her for details (if you can handle it)! rt asking her things such as her first BJ, first time a guy went down on her, etc. She may be wanting to have fantasies about that shit and that is why she is asking you. Either way turn it into an opportunity for immediate sex!
 
FISHTALES said:
almost every girl ive been with asked that question
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I don't even get why the question is asked...

Why? What does it do for you?

after that question then comes a flood of others... was he good, am I better, how big was he (lestat style) what is the most O's you've had... blah blah blah

and ya know ya gonna lie, and so does he... so why all the questions.
 
See now I have a totally different take on this as I only date men mid 40's and up (my fiancee is 55). If the dude I am laying next to hasnt been with so many women that he cant recall, then I would be very VERY creeped out. :worried: I mean, I am still learning about sex. Have NO DESIRE to be teaching a man about any woman 'cept ME! ;)

I thought you have been with this girl for a long time - committed and all. How old is she?.... 18?

PS - if THE MEN that I had been with were ever dumb enough to ask how many men I have bedded before him then he is too dumb to be with me.. period.
 
BIKINIMOM said:
See now I have a totally different take on this as I only date men mid 40's and up (my fiancee is 55). If the dude I am laying next to hasnt been with so many women that he cant recall, then I would be very VERY creeped out. :worried: I mean, I am still learning about sex. Have NO DESIRE to be teaching a man about any woman 'cept ME! ;)

I thought you have been with this girl for a long time - committed and all. How old is she?.... 18?

PS - if THE MEN that I had been with were ever dumb enough to ask how many men I have bedded before him then he is too dumb to be with me.. period.
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'Cause that would be like counting the rings on a sequoia...
 
jnevin said:
'Cause that would be like counting the rings on a sequoia...
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Darlin - I was faithfull to ONE MAN for 13 years. How many I fucked before and/or after is irrelevant.

My current fiancee is a man amongst men. We dont care that we are not the others' "first". All we care about is that we are the others' "LAST".

Feel me?
 
BIKINIMOM said:
Darlin - I was faithfull to ONE MAN for 13 years. How many I fucked before and/or after is irrelevant.

My current fiancee is a man amongst men. We dont care that we are not the others' "first". All we care about is that we are the others' "LAST".

Feel me?
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Probably not after all of the... traffic, but whatever.
 
with some girls ive asked out of curiosity, if it was casual and I didn't really care either way


other times i've been downright afraid to ask and wondered instead if I should pour bleach on my dick and forget about it
 
jnevin said:
Probably not after all of the... traffic, but whatever.
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LOL "traffic".... I have been on these boards for what 6 years now?

ONE MAN

Faithfully committed for 13 years to

ONE MAN

Dont tell me that you are just pissy 'cause t'weren't neither one of 'em you?! ;)
 
BIKINIMOM said:
LOL "traffic".... I have been on these boards for what 6 years now?

ONE MAN

Faithfully committed for 13 years to

ONE MAN

Dont tell me that you are just pissy 'cause t'weren't neither one of 'em you?! ;)
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Lol. I was busting your beef curtains.
 
FEISTY11975 said:
lolol

thats as bad as when a guy asks if you've ever been with someone bigger or better than him


How in the hell do you answer that?
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yeah wtf. i hate that. (psssst...my husband says that no matter what, a woman should ALWAYS tell the man she's with that he is the biggest, even if it's a lie. he says men want you to lie about that. lol ego maniacs)

but the bottom line is, as with anything else. dont ask if you dont want to hear the answer.


YOU CANT HANDLE THE TRUTH!
 
I say tell her the truth..... or tell her you don't feel the need to discuss it.
You don't need to lie. Don't waste your time with ANYONE you feel like you need to lie to in order to keep things going right. Don't lie about anything to a woman. One reason is because we usually find out the truth, anyway. A BIGGER reason is because you are better than that. So you fucked 3 or 3 billion. That's your past, not hers. Your past helps make you what you are, 2day....... the man she is in bed with. She must like how you turned out or she shouldn't be there. Don't ever degrade( LIE ) yourself to save someone else's feelings. What about your feelings? If you REALLY can't remember, then good enough. If you want, tell her that. If you don't think she can handle the truth, tell her that, too. Be honest. Or be honest about not wanting to share your buisness. If she can't respect you for that, then it does not matter.
 
alien amp pharm said:
I always ask girls i am about to sleep with how many dudes they have had


hoping it'll be a real low number so they won't realize how much I suck in bed because they'll have nothing to compare it to.
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First honest post youve had in a while, rob.
 
The correct answer to this question would be:

"Baby it doesn't matter how many came before as after we were to together I discovered no on has touched me on all the levels that you have our bound is so deep the past is a blur."
 
Re: So my gf asked me...

--------------------------------------------------------------------------------

lolol

thats as bad as when a guy asks if you've ever been with someone bigger or better than him


How in the hell do you answer that?
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It is the woman duty to always say that he is the biggest,
 
Saying "I don't know" makes you look like you'd fuck sheep just to get it on...

I would have stopped at 4 just to tell a lie

slat1 said:
how many women I have slept with.
We were laying in bed at the time.

I said "I don't know"

She said "two"

Me "yeah"

Her "four"

Me "yeah"

Her "eight"

Me "Look I have no idea" I said it in an irritated way.

The conversation ended.

My question is who would ask someone that?

Ladies. How they hell does a guy get out of that situation without totally blowing it.
*Note: There is no way I am telling the truth. It would cause all sorts of problems.
Click to expand...
 
superqt4u2nv said:
The correct answer to this question would be:

"Baby it doesn't matter how many came before as after we were to together I discovered no on has touched me on all the levels that you have our bound is so deep the past is a blur."
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lmao...I take it you hear that line often...?
 
EnderJE said:
lmao...I take it you hear that line often...?
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I am not stupid enough to ask that question and don't care to know. I ask have you practiced safer sex and when was your last blood test.
 
ill admit i always lie my ass off when they ask me that ;)

that being said, statistically, the average number of women a man will bed in his lifetime is between 6 and 8.

there are lots of sluts in this thread, by the way. and one slut wannabe. who likes baseball
 
GoldenDelicious said:
ill admit i always lie my ass off when they ask me that ;)

that being said, statistically, the average number of women a man will bed in his lifetime is between 6 and 8.

there are lots of sluts in this thread, by the way. and one slut wannabe. who likes baseball
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That number is bullshit bor. Ive bagged 6 this year alone.
 
My rule of thumb for this: only admit to the ones that she could possibly find out about. That number will be bad enough in her eyes, but not so horrifying that it messes things up.
 
You shouldnt have bragging rights till you used a fist as a penetration device.
 
FEISTY11975 said:
lolol

thats as bad as when a guy asks if you've ever been with someone bigger or better than him


How in the hell do you answer that?
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I wouldn't even ask that question because I know no man is better than me. I'm the best.
 
I'd just tell the truth. I don't have a problem with asking that. She might not like the answer, but at least I havent slept with any animals or a man.
 
tell her,

"Bitch, I've been dating strippers and Porn Stars for I don't know how many years. If i don't remember the years, how would I remember the coochies?"
 
pintoca said:
tell her,

"Bitch, I've been dating strippers and Porn Stars for I don't know how many years. If i don't remember the years, how would I remember the coochies?"
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Its like you are in my head!
 
canadianhitman said:
My rule of thumb for this: only admit to the ones that she could possibly find out about. That number will be bad enough in her eyes, but not so horrifying that it messes things up.
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Unless the dude I am with is like 19, why would I be horrified is my lover had a life before he met me? (And I dont date younger men, let alone boys so that is not an option.)

Peeps are silly... honestly, just silly.

I would be horrified if I bedded a man that gave me any answer different than, "Babe, I honestly couldn't tell you."

Could you imagine being 50 years old and only having had sex with ONE person?

And yes, I would be VERY hesitant to bed a man that only had one woman because he was faithfully married to his wife of 30 years whom he married as a virgin. A lifetime commitment like that speaks volumes and I would honestly feel intimidated by it. Dont know if he could love me the way he did his late wife.

Being 100% straight up honest.
 
Meh, I honestly don't see what the big deal is. I've never had a problem with "the question", I tell her the truth and expect it in return. The past is the past, but I like to know where my partner is coming from experience wise. I also have no problem talking about past encounters either. If you trust someone, then this topic shouldn't be taboo or off limits.

Who cares if she's been with one or one hundred, if I like her before the convresation then I'll like her afterwards. If she is inexperienced then I'll teach her a thing or two, and I've had women who have definately taught me a thing or two.



People make mountains out of molehills sometimes, think about what really matters in life...
 
The truth is probably good enough for a miniseries on HBO.
I am not telling until someone offers me big money.. LOL
 
superdave said:
That number is bullshit bor. Ive bagged 6 this year alone.
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You gotta look at the whole picture, a lot of this board does far better than the average im sure, but look at the people you see in walmart at 4am, think they are banging more than a handful in their life? fuck no
 
Forge said:
Meh, I honestly don't see what the big deal is. I've never had a problem with "the question", I tell her the truth and expect it in return.
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I agree bro. I've never had a problem with any of those questions and while most are a little "uncomfortable" with the number at least they know and I don't have to deal with it any more. I've been with three girls (that I knew of) that had been with more partners than me at the time we slept together... my 1st, 2nd and a girl I was dating last year. She was absolutely gorgeous and was very prim and proper. I was totally shocked when she said she had lost count but she would estimate around 150. She was one hell of a fuck, thats all I cared about. I looked at it as "if she was honest with me about that she's probably not one to try to hide the truth about anything." Now granted I didn't exactly feel like "she was the one" but none the less we had a lot of good times. (I know, DOUBLE STANDARD)

BTW - I could give two shits about a girl telling me I'm the biggest she's ever had. Who gives a fuck?
 
slat1 said:
how many women I have slept with.
We were laying in bed at the time.

I said "I don't know"

She said "two"

Me "yeah"

Her "four"

Me "yeah"

Her "eight"

Me "Look I have no idea" I said it in an irritated way.

The conversation ended.

My question is who would ask someone that?

Ladies. How they hell does a guy get out of that situation without totally blowing it.
*Note: There is no way I am telling the truth. It would cause all sorts of problems.
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This is how it should be handled.

Her - "How many women have you been with?"

You - " Hardly any honestly and I had no idea what I was doing. (insert self depricating laugh here) But it doesn't really matter because I am, and want to stay with you. "

Lay back and get your "reward" lol
 
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