Hey woot, so I am bored right..I am a boring person...But I was thinking(yeah I do that on occasions)
It sucks when people that you love lie to you and fuck you over. Even though they feel in that moment that she did nothing wrong. I mean maybe she figured that it is just words, or messages and that she would never sleep with him while being married to you and that is ok..Thing is that marriage is a two way street. I mean I am sure she would have flipped the deep end if you were talking to another chick although she finds it acceptable for her to do it. Bottom line is that you don't need someone who claims to loves you to be lying to you knowingly hurting you. Marriage should be built on a foundation of understanding and limits. Once that understanding or those limits are busted through then it is on them, not on you. Even if she were to claim that she did it because you were boring, didn't spend enough time with her, or needed a change always remember the effort that you put in. She is looking for justification to back up her wrong doings. It is not your fault. And like I said you don't need someone like that in your life emotionally dragging you down. I know that you feel hurt and betrayed in all this because this is your heart that was played with. However keep in mind that things will get better, even if it means getting better without her. You are a good person with much potential in this life and do not need someone holding you down by lies and shit. Live life remembering that. Right now sucks and I am sure you want to smash her and him in the face for the aggravation. But don't dwell on what cannot be changed. In a sense you should be thankful that all this did not happen 10-15 years down the line after investing more of your heart into her.
Don't be all depressed and sad, it won't change anything. Just try to look at the good in the whole situation. And as far as someone regretting it and what not sit back and let it happen.I am sure she already knows that she has done wrong by you but there is nothing she can do to take back the past all she can do is keep on moving, even if it is in the wrong direction. However she is the one who has to look in the mirror every fucking day and realize that this was all her, she fucked up, not you. Now whether or not she is prideful and selfish is on her she can either say sorry and straighten her ass out of stay on this path of assholism.Either way woot although it may not feel it you are going to be fine without her...Just keep your head up, be strong, and don't worry about things you cannot take back.
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