Bikini Mod
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I took the time to read this entire thread and so far, this woman's only crime has been to not disclose an "e-friendship" with some online bobo... Not cool at all I say. My husband and I met online so we have access to every single aspect of the other one's life anytime we choose = email accounts, phone, computers, etc. Neither of us hide jack schitt, as we don't have to.
Having said that even though her behavior was deceitful to a certain extent that doesn't automatically equal she left her husband for this loser dude.
I know it hurts that your world is crashing down around you, but don't torture yourself further by inventing all sorts of scenarios that you don't know for sure exist. This isn't like myway wear she found a strange woman's intimate undergarments unexplainably turn up in the laundry <----- that right there is straight up fucked up. This situation is just another bit of flame to the fire.
We don't know all the details of what went on in your home and we shouldn't NEED to know. It isn't our business.
I really hope that you will get some answers and closure, if need be so that you can all move on and co-parent your children from separate households if that is what you both decide is best FOR THE KIDS.
I am truly sorry for your pain, but true enlightenment comes through suffering. This will make you stronger.
Having said that even though her behavior was deceitful to a certain extent that doesn't automatically equal she left her husband for this loser dude.
I know it hurts that your world is crashing down around you, but don't torture yourself further by inventing all sorts of scenarios that you don't know for sure exist. This isn't like myway wear she found a strange woman's intimate undergarments unexplainably turn up in the laundry <----- that right there is straight up fucked up. This situation is just another bit of flame to the fire.
We don't know all the details of what went on in your home and we shouldn't NEED to know. It isn't our business.
I really hope that you will get some answers and closure, if need be so that you can all move on and co-parent your children from separate households if that is what you both decide is best FOR THE KIDS.
I am truly sorry for your pain, but true enlightenment comes through suffering. This will make you stronger.