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Should i become a "Frat" boy

Should i join/start a frat?

  • yes

    Votes: 8 57.1%

  • no

    Votes: 6 42.9%
  • Total voters
    14
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iggy

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i know it's against most of the ideals i hold. i don't dig frat boys who are stuck up rich boys who talk a lot of shit (which there are a ton of them at my university). but it has its advantages which outweigh the disadvantages.

my cousin and i are contemplating starting one fresh next year.
old school style. picking up a bunch of the most hard-core drinkers and characters to start one.

what do you guys think? should i just continue with my own party crowd, or try and do something big like this?

i'm positive i will get an old man to join just like in old school.

not sure if i will act on this or not.

pdaddy, you and java are expected to pledge.
when people ask you if your in a frat, tell them you don't know what they are talking about.
 
cheesy idea. you cant just start a frat. there is a whole process that needs to take place. should you join one? depends on the dynamics of your school. some schools have great frats, some dont.
 
if i can prove to myself i can keep my gpa up while partying on the weekends i can succeed at doing that samoth
 
thanks 75th. hope all is well man.
i'm about to duck tape two 40s of king cobra to my hands and drink them.
then go out to some different festivities of tonight.
 
I'm not familiar with the social dynamic of a UT undergrad. My best friend from high school went to Miami of Ohio and it was essential for a social life to join a fraternity, the only way you could drink and socialize(ie get laid occasionally). At Ohio State it was completely unnecessary, you could join the ski club and drink at bars underage and as long as you didn't hit up a "frat bar" you didn't have to worry about a chick only hooking up if you paid for the right friends. There was also a house party almost every night if you worked your classes into a social network.

On a second point, you can gain some valuable post college job connections by joining a fraternity. However, they have "adult" fraternities for that too, Freemasons.
 
If you pledge one with cool guys, and you're cool IRL, you'll have lots of poon opportunities.
 
i was one as a freshman at a major college who thought frat boys were wack, then I joined one and still thought other fratboys were wack but not the frat I was in.

all frats are diff, that's why they have pledge week so dudes can shop around and check out which frat is for them and more importantly the other guys that are in it. Try and picture yourself being friends with them is the key

I simply joined a party frat house that constantly had big parties and constantly had mass amounts of hot chicks come to their house 25/8 because I like to party and I liked hanging out with girls. Yeah, it sounds douchey, it somewhat is but I would've NEVER done and seen what I had if i'd never joined. "dude I can go to the club n see the same shit"- RG lol, stfu. Thousands of stories, too many girls to keep up with. There's no way I could've met so many people, well over 300 chicks I knew by name within months, most during pledging. Something you can't get going to bars and in a dorm/apt, unless you have a connection of 40+ highschool friends already down there. But that's ME, fucking the most dirty sluts at 19yo was the sweetest thing in my mind, my type of scenario and I got the best of it to the fullest. Some frats are for sports, some specific degrees, some specific race etc. Myself, I never wore a frat shirt in my life or my greek letters. But some frats they're more into the "brotherly bonding", wearing and repping their frat.

1500 is spot on, you're pledge brothers will be some of your best friends for life.

Not only does a frat constantly keep you busy with events, you gain so many lifelong connections, career opportunities.
 
I would be your token old school guy if i didnt graduate last year. and went to your school and shit too
 
1500 said:
If you pledge one with cool guys, and you're cool IRL, you'll have lots of poon opportunities.
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If you have any type of game/social skills you'll have poon opportunities. :)

I was invited to Beta parties, one of the "cool" frats at OSU, and banged their chicks without being a member. You occasionally run into chicks that value membership over anything but...I dated a Delta Gamma from OU that was the president, that made me the "anchor man", it's a gay sorority thing...:) It just made me responsible for making sure all the bitches were taken care of...:mad:
 
Honestly, u VERY MUCH seem like a frat boy to me. I don't mean anything by that, just, well, I get that vibe.
I think it could be a good experience for you, and I mean NOTHING bad when I say this.
Remember: life- it's ALL about making memories. Frat isn't a lifelong thing. Its a period of your life. Do it if u want to do it.
Live your life.
 
myway said:
Honestly, u VERY MUCH seem like a frat boy to me. I don't mean anything by that, just, well, I get that vibe.
I think it could be a good experience for you, and I mean NOTHING bad when I say this.
Remember: life- it's ALL about making memories. Frat isn't a lifelong thing. Its a period of your life. Do it if u want to do it.
Live your life.
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My best friend told me a story years ago about a field trip he took with his "brothers" to Chicago. Apparently, a hawt chick looked and pointed, "Holy frat boys on parade." :)
 
thats one of the main dynamics. only black athletes and frat "bros" get laid in toledo.
although i pull in a decent amount for the avg white boi
 
and thats what my friends have told me.
i love taking charge of things and
friends have told me i can drink more than most people my age.

my buddies last year had the ultimate party house.
im talking kegs every thurs, fri, sat.
tons of girls, i mean TONS. everybody having a good time.
hookah, big screen t.v., beer pong table with a t.v. inside.
i mean they played football with me in highschool and were a couple of years
older than me. but these guys were my fucking idols.
they all got girlfriends this year and my other two buddies my age flunked out
with a bunch of my other buddies. they hardly party and all turned 21 and go out to the bars.

one of them is a legend and could shotgun a beer in a second. fastest ive ever seen.

i miss those times of last year. chugging das boots. making out with crazy chicks.
making crazy memories. playing three games of kings with jaegar. just all the crazy shit.
i'm really thinking hard about this one.
 
iggy said:
and thats what my friends have told me.
i love taking charge of things and
friends have told me i can drink more than most people my age.

my buddies last year had the ultimate party house.
im talking kegs every thurs, fri, sat.
tons of girls, i mean TONS. everybody having a good time.
hookah, big screen t.v., beer pong table with a t.v. inside.
i mean they played football with me in highschool and were a couple of years
older than me. but these guys were my fucking idols.
they all got girlfriends this year and my other two buddies my age flunked out
with a bunch of my other buddies. they hardly party and all turned 21 and go out to the bars.

one of them is a legend and could shotgun a beer in a second. fastest ive ever seen.

i miss those times of last year. chugging das boots. making out with crazy chicks.
making crazy memories. playing three games of kings with jaegar. just all the crazy shit.
i'm really thinking hard about this one.
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Consider your post drunken brother...you answered yourself. You have more game as a radical than someone that supports the status quo. Drinking and womanizing is a path that will lead you to nothing...been there and done that. What does it matter that you bang a hot skank? Really, how does it improve your life?
 
javaguru said:
CS 4.0 :cool:


Lol...sorry...
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With all his energy into partying, girls, and socializing, I'm thinking he needs to redirect that energy into double-majoring and/or working on research. Kids with 3.4 in fluff majors (which includs crap like "business" majors) are getting ITE pwned at every corner.

(First thing I read this morning? washingtonpost.com)



:cow:
 
samoth said:
With all his energy into partying, girls, and socializing, I'm thinking he needs to redirect that energy into double-majoring and/or working on research. Kids with 3.4 in fluff majors (which includs crap like "business" majors) are getting ITE pwned at every corner.

(First thing I read this morning? washingtonpost.com)



:cow:
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No doubt...pursuing wiminz leads to conformity to social norms..just have to overcome evolution, not easy.:)
 
dont start your own; you'll work your fucking ass off and graduate before you can reap the benefits
 
iggy said:
i know it's against most of the ideals i hold. i don't dig frat boys who are stuck up rich boys who talk a lot of shit (which there are a ton of them at my university). but it has its advantages which outweigh the disadvantages.

my cousin and i are contemplating starting one fresh next year.
old school style. picking up a bunch of the most hard-core drinkers and characters to start one.

what do you guys think? should i just continue with my own party crowd, or try and do something big like this?

i'm positive i will get an old man to join just like in old school.

not sure if i will act on this or not.

pdaddy, you and java are expected to pledge.
when people ask you if your in a frat, tell them you don't know what they are talking about.
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how do you maintain the bodybuilder lifestyle while drinking all the time/how often do u drink
 
yeah, basically scratch the idea of starting a frat, not gonna happen.
the pros for me were:
-got to meet a great crew of bros...my school had a lotta peeps from my hometown. and they never
really met a new crowd, they always hung out with people from home. i didn't want that and wanted the
full college experience. pledging was great for that
-girls, girls, girls...suck cause i had a gf all thru college, but the opportunity was there
-get to hang out with like minded folks...shop around you'll find one that fits you perfectly.

cons:
-costs a bit of money
-pledging has it's shitty moments
-fuggin gayye to wear greek shirts/stickers/etc
 
Sub-Zero said:
how do you maintain the bodybuilder lifestyle while drinking all the time/how often do u drink
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llol at putting bbers on a pedestal like that.
drinking is proly the least of a bb'ers health worries, i think i'd be more concerned with all the homegrown hormones getting pumped in their systems fuging up balls sacks and what not
 
iggy said:
thanks 75th. hope all is well man.
i'm about to duck tape two 40s of king cobra to my hands and drink them.
then go out to some different festivities of tonight.
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d00d. . .i'm no genius. . .but, it's DUCT tape. . .like the kinda shit you'd use when you were putting together DUCT-work, you dig??

you ought to listen to sammy. . .oh. . .and put down the duct tape. . .
 
Yeah..
First based on your persona I would say no, you are headstrong and don't take orders well.
However, U need a change of pace. U need a change of scenery.
I do not approve of the crowd you are running with now.
Just Sayin

I don't like some of the situations you are finding yourself in.
It's not my right to interfere..however, some structure, and understanding of how a hierarchy works would be good for U.
It would teach you how the world of business works.
I was an SAE, but dropped out of participation as I"m a loner.
However, the few lessons I got were on how the corporate world works.
U need this.
Trust Me.
U have creativity, smarts, a good work ethic.. U would rise to power.
Also the change of scenery would fuel your ambition to make something out of yourself.
You have potential, I just don't want you to waste... it.
 
0o__o0 said:
llol at putting bbers on a pedestal like that.
drinking is proly the least of a bb'ers health worries, i think i'd be more concerned with all the homegrown hormones getting pumped in their systems fuging up balls sacks and what not
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huh? im talking about for lean mass, not for a long healthy life. duh
 
digimon7068 said:
d00d. . .i'm no genius. . .but, it's DUCT tape. . .like the kinda shit you'd use when you were putting together DUCT-work, you dig??

you ought to listen to sammy. . .oh. . .and put down the duct tape. . .
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Well he might have meant small animals of the forest and farm...

The downside to frats seems to be most people frat age spend their time being consumed with the frat life and don't network with others at school. When you grow up you will really miss spending time with the new VP of a company you have no shot of working with unless you know someone.

I found the guys in the frat I joined in the early 14th century are big talking losers that can only recall all the chicks they boned (or said they did) and usually have their name on their shirt.

Look to the long haul and try not to get into the "today I am really hot" Seems some here will find this out in a few years. All the bad relationships, the smack talk and their pics of their asses online will fade when they find life ain't so damn easy when you actually have to do something but drink and party. Shit I wish I had a job of going to school. What a piece of cake that was.

I think back to some of the things I said and did, I am actually embarrassed to have had those words come out of my mouth and that someone saw me do something so stupid. What is kinda funny I read the same words I spoke and read about the same actions I took. But, hey they will be writing the same words in a century or so to some other dumbass posting in some virtual holographic board. But maybe then your actual image will go with your words so no more posing and no more bullshit e-pretty or e-rich peeps.

But join away as long as you spend time with other groups. Was actually a lot of good bro times.
 
When I was in college I was under the impression that *going greek* was necessary in order to fully experience college life. NO ONE in my family had ever attended college, let alone graduated (we were all off the boat) LOL. My only viewpoint about what college life was supposed to be like was from one of my alltime favorite movies (National Lampoon's Animal House).

Anyways, I looked into pledging a sorority. So I went to a mixer. About 15 minutes after I arrived, I thought to myself, not only no... but HELL NO. These bitches were THE MOST ARROGANT... WHORES I'd ever had the displeasure to be stuck in the same room with for 30 minutes. I wouldn't want to be identified with them for any reason whatsoever. I'd rather live as a man on campus if living as a female meant being one of them. <--- not kidding.

So because I couldn't join a fraternity (wrong urinary tract) the only other option was to become a *little sister* at one of the frats on campus. Seemed intriguing. A couple of the guys who were in the Kirkpatrick Chapel Choir (one of the most prestigious of the RU choirs) had joined a fraternity the previous semester and said it was cool. It was too late that year as the pledge process was well underway but *for me* they made an exception (I was ALWAYS a cool broad). I was THE ONLY FEMALE *allowed* to drink at the brother's private bar. It was fun for a minute but then one evening I was in my friends' room (they were the newly annointed brothers) and another more senior brother who was TOTALLY FUCKED UP barged into the room and got really REALLY nasty with me when I declined his sexual advances. I wasn't remotely interested in dating/fucking ANY of the brothers and I made that abundantly clear in the beginning. My two friends had to forcibly remove the guy from the room (we are talking I was *this close* to calling the police THAT is how threatened I felt). I was MORTIFIED that a brother would treat one of the *little sisters* this way to begin with. Well, there was ZERO disciplinary action taken by the other brothers so I was like, "WTF? Why would I consider joining an organization that would tolerate such behavior towards ANY female, let alone a female that was SUPPOSED TO BE ONE OF THEIR OWN?"

Not only no... but FUCK NO.

That was my personal experience when I was a 20 something.

Now that I am near 42 and travel very fluidly in the world of business (mainly entrepeneurship - not the corporate world we are talking totally self-made men of considerable networths) I can honestly tell you that NEVER have I heard either directly or indirectly any man ask or volunteer ANY EXPERIENCE with a fraternity. I mean NEVER. I've heard and talked about nearly every other aspect of life - but NOTHING about fraternities.

^^^ What conclusion you draw from my personal experiences is strictly up to you.
 
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Bro.... your gonna do what you want no matter what we all say. Java killed me with the Freemason statement, LOL that was good, but true.
 
Join a real frat and don't party like an idiot. The connections could help you with jobs in the future.
 
Dial_tone said:
Join a real frat and don't party like an idiot. The connections could help you with jobs in the future.
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^^^This is the only real reason to become a frat douche -- once you become a part of the good-old-boy network, it's like being a made man. As long as you don't mind that all your cronies are also douches.
 
i played rugby when i was in college. . .i made great friends. . .we had a house "the rugby house" (we weren't real creative namesters) where a bunch of us lived. . .we had epic parties. . .we had mixers with all the sororities. . .and i didn't have to take a bunch of shit to get in. . .i just had to knock the snot out of a few people on a regular basis. . .i earned my jacket, and i was in. . .
 
iggy said:
what would you say are some pros for you nimbus?
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1. Frat house. basically a spot where if you are stressed/whatever, you will always find good bros who are down to chill, blaze, lift, party, whatever.

2. Sick parties being thrown all the time. Just a group of friends can't afford to throw parties as epically and frequently as a frat does. So you pretty much always have a place to bring girls and meet new girls

3. I got a job once because an alumn was high up at a company

4. Exchanges/mixers - Basically the most effective way by far to meet sorority girls. pretty much cannot be beat; i knew almost zero sorostitutes until i joined one

5. Sports - they can field competitive IM teams for pretty much any sport; i love it.

So yea i got to party harder, got laid more, played more sports, and it got me a job
 
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nimbus said:
1. Frat house. basically a spot where if you are stressed/whatever, you will always find good bros who are down to chill, blaze, lift, party, whatever.

2. Sick parties being thrown all the time. Just a group of friends can't afford to throw parties as epically and frequently as a frat does. So you pretty much always have a place to bring girls and meet new girls

3. I got a job once because an alumn was high up at a company

4. Exchanges/mixers - Basically the most effective way by far to meet sorority girls. pretty much cannot be beat; i knew almost zero sorostitutes until i joined one

5. Sports - they can field competitive IM teams for pretty much any sport; i love it.

So yea i got to party harder, got laid more, played more sports, and it got me a job
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How is the girl?
 
-Ariel- said:
How is the girl?
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long story. but she threw a bitch fit about something, which totally took me by surprise. I think she may be a totally different person than i thought initially, which is pretty lame. Or it was just a bad day. Haven't really spoken since.. She is on hold for now, and i started something with someone else. Not as excited about it but so far so good
 
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