She wants me to lose muscle for her

[JDarty6173]

I'm about 240 at 6ft .. Not real sure of bf% but abs are always visible... But I tend to normally date small girls...Like my current one is about 5ft3" and 105.. And I have never had one tell me I was "too" big or even hint at me to drop weight.... But IMO.. If she is serious about that, drop her ass....

 

[Paulos]

Fuck that bitch, she has no idea the blood, sweat, and tears that go into building your physique - find a girl who will appreciate what you've done.

 

[Night Fly]

You don't ever need to change who you are and what you have worked your ass off for...just for a woman. Forget that. If she can't respect your lifestyle and the fact that you like to build muscle and not loose it....then you need to drop her. If your size bothered her enough and you didn't change, then eventually she would leave you.

This situation is just ridiculous. I'm with Frackal. Keep building that muscle if it's what YOU want. I can understand 'compromise' on certain things, but you have worked hard for this. Don't let her make you want to change that....EVER.

Some women can be so ridiculous asking this kind of stuff. Geez.

 

[Zander1983]

You've got a great chance to see what she's really made of.

Do what you want to do, for you and nobody else. If she can't deal with that, then you don't need to be dealing with her.

 

[DUSTY]

SHE'S LYING TO YOU BRO! SHE LOVES IT WITH ALL THOSE MUSCLES YOU HAVE AND SHE KNOWS IT.

 

[DrBones]

My ex gf was like that too...
she was around 5'7 105 lbs...
I am/was roughly 200 lbs....
She always harrassed me to be a skinny boy.... She wanted me to look like what I looked like in high school... all 150 lbs of me.
We never broke up because of this issue... but for the record.. she is now with a guy who is 6' 140-150 lbs soakin wet...

Keep your muscle bro... you built it for a reason... its yours.. you shouldn't let anybody take it away from you unless it is your OWN conscious desicion based on what you and ONLY you think.

 

[Mandinka2]

I'm 230+ , 6 foot , my ex was 5' 6 and 110 , man I used to fuck the hell outta her , it was great! She was a total psycho though and constantly complainin about me bein too big , until of course I laid down the pipe again , then she loved it (....after she could walk again of course). Man I sure wished her sweet-tastin pussy was sittin on top of my face again.... sigh

 

[plornive]

Thanks...

This thread was awesome! Before I met her I was planning to stay the same weight. I will do that. This IS a good test of what she is made of. And YES, I think in a way she loves my build because I can pick her up like she is nothing.

 

[HansNZ]

At that size you're hardly a monster. If she wants some waify twink then she should go elsewhere.

 

[rnch]

sounds like she is trying to use you to exorcise her own insecurities.

i agree; sounds like she is jealous becaude u look better in bed than she does...............dump the biatch!