seems like every woman i've met has either been raped or was abused as a child

[puddlemonkey]

my grandma used to molest me when I was a school boy

I thought it was the other way around?

 

[N00bzNight0ut]

Just don't date women. You obviously hate them. You probably shouldn't be let out of the house.

apparantely Heather was raped and/or assaulted before. (prolly both)


don't worry heather, were here for you.

 

[DannoMight]

I knew this chick who claimed this guy at her work raped her. She even went to the police and filed a report only to have the case dropped when her ex testified. He was picking her up from work(while they were still together) and happened to walk by a noisy parked car and decided to be a peeking tom and look inside only to see some guy dining at her Y. So he busted out the window and said hey babe whatcha doin? and left her there. He also used her 20 something apology voice mails against her. She wanted to be with him cause he was loaded. It wasn't quite rape just regret.

 

[Sub-Zero]

if a woman was TRUELY raped or abused ....... Don't you think it would be to tramatic and embarassing to talk about to someone you just met?

women's need for attention generally overpowers their need for privacy and embarrasment.

its kinda hard to ignore a girl while she telling u how she was raped

 

[DannoMight]

women's need for attention generally overpowers their need for privacy and embarrasment.

its kinda hard to ignore a girl while she telling u how she was raped

They must have liked it to talk about it so much.

 

[nefertiti]

That stat seems a little off to me. Look at it from the flip side...if that many women are being raped abused or assaulted, that means there are that many rapists, abusers, and assaulters, or even a smaller but still unlikely percentage of guys who do it multiple times. Times have changed and I just don't think there are that many warped guys out there anymore...but maybe I'm naive.

(I'm not calling anyone a liar, but I do think if someone is disclosing something like that early on to a guy, unless it was directly relevant to the conversation, they are looking for sympathy)

 

[heatherrae]

They must have liked it to talk about it so much.

I really hope you men are kidding. Some things maybe you shouldn't joke about.

 

[N00bzNight0ut]

That stat seems a little off to me. Look at it from the flip side...if that many women are being raped abused or assaulted, that means there are that many rapists, abusers, and assaulters, or even a smaller but still unlikely percentage of guys who do it multiple times. Times have changed and I just don't think there are that many warped guys out there anymore...but maybe I'm naive.

(I'm not calling anyone a liar, but I do think if someone is disclosing something like that early on to a guy, unless it was directly relevant to the conversation, they are looking for sympathy)

So basically Heather is saying that everyone male whom is platinum member here which is about 30% c&c has either beat his wife or raped someone.


sounds accurate to me

 

[Sub-Zero]

i heard a story about a woman who had a boyfriend and was working and was forced into her car by a co-worker and to drive allthe way to an abandoned parkinglot and then he raped her....

dude had a stapler or something.

i asked about details from the friend of the friend and he didnt have a gun or weapon or antyhing she was "just scared"

if someone had just fists and tried to rape me id make so much noise and enough struggle to at least get a broken nose or black eye to show i struggled.

i dont get these women who say they are pressured into rape without showing signs of a struggle at least to fight the person off.

i think that there is a strong corroleation between mental weakness and rape.

and like dannomight said, regret=rape in most girls minds

 

[heatherrae]

Okay, so rape victims are liars, sluts, and mentally weak...

You men are really priceless.