Roonytunes
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*Bunny* said:I know these social activities are very important to you, but I just wanted to share my thoughts on the matter.
I want nothing more for you to get past this little bump, but I keep coming back to the cheat meals being the culprit. Have you ever considered cutting them out completely to see if that will impact your results? You will never know if you don't at least try it.
You will be able to add them back in SLOWLY once you get your body to where you want it to be.
Hiya Bunns

I love my friends and have worked very hard to build up my social circle locally. Every so often, there is a birthday dinner or some other occasion that calls for celebration. Not to mention, being single and living on my own, I think I'd go nutso if I didn't get out and socialize. It's just my personality - I'm very outgoing and truly enjoy being part of "the scene".
I've come to the realization that I'm at crossroads right now. If it's a choice between my lil' pooch (going from 16% to 10-12% bf) and my mental happiness, I've decided to pick the latter. I just feel that I'm only going to be young once and I need to find a happy medium where I can still enjoy life and accomplish my fitness goals.
That said, what I'm working on right now:
1) limiting my cheat meals. I no longer schedule one on a weekly basis, but only allow them into my schedule when an occasion arises
2) being selective of when I go out...I am prioritizing my invites and accepting only when I really want to attend
3) doing 5-6 days of various types of morning cardio to keep my metabolism high through the day and creating a calorie deficit
What I need to work on harder:
1) limiting sugar and alcohol in my cheat meals
2) exhibiting more self-control in my cheat meals with portion control
Bunns, I value your opinion highly and thank you for making me think about this all clearly.

ps - I just came home after running stairs with my outdoor activity group. After our workout, they decided they "deserved" cheesesteaks. I told them a little bit about my clean eating routine and of course, I got the "you're crazy" look and the "you're already so tiny" speech. And this is from a group that supposedly focuses on fitness...gah!

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