Relationships? What's the fu*kin point?

[canadianhitman]

Yeah but I feel like an asshole for holding shit like a kid or whatever against someone, i mean everyone makes mistakes, I just feel bad not giving someone a chance because of something in their past....but i guess ive learned my lesson, to stop caring about shit that shouldnt be my problem and to stop being so overly nice because i feel its the "right" thing to do. Im always worried about making th e"right" choices to help people because i feel that its the "good" thing to do. But i have to start being more selfish and focus on myself more than trying to please everyone.

LMAO at shit like giving somebody a chance, doing the 'right' or 'good' thing. Right and good by who's fucking standards?! The person you have to do the 'right' thing for first and foremost is YOU. Don't ever forget that again.

You've wasted a lot of money and wasted four years of your life...that sucks.

But, the silver lining: you didn't knock her up or marry her, so you're not going to have to pay her fuck-all going forward...and that is a HUUUUUUGE plus. As crappy as you probably feel right now, you're coming off looking pretty good compared to dudes paying exorbitant alimony and child support payments that are guaranteed to keep them in the poor house for most of their life.

It's never as bad as you think.

 

[DJLegacy2k1]

Yeah and i have some Test and Mast coming in this week along with my Beastdrol, so hopefully ill be feeling super soon enough. lol

 

[ceo]

did she give you your balls back?

 

[DJLegacy2k1]

did she give you your balls back?

No im planning on injecting the Test directly into my sack to try to reproduce them...or at least have a nice full sack of test at the end of it all...

 

[canadianhitman]

Test and masteron....nice combo; you'll be too busy being a poon-hound to mope.

 

[DJLegacy2k1]

Beast/Test/Mast :chomp chomp:

 

[calveless wonder]

how does 1 crazy broad prove that relationships are pointless?

relationships with mooching lazy bitches that want you to raise their kids are pointless

4 kids at 30? Holy read flag

 

[DJLegacy2k1]

how does 1 crazy broad prove that relationships are pointless?

relationships with mooching lazy bitches that want you to raise their kids are pointless

4 kids at 30? Holy read flag

*red

 

[DJLegacy2k1]

This isnt the first crazy chick obviously and im not going to get into the "they are all crazy" debate as most people will say...Im just saying overall, what is the point of long term committed relationships, over 50% of marriage end in divorce now and overall most people go through multiple attempts at it and wind up losing half of what they own...Just starting to seem like the whole thing is kind of pointless.

 

[canadianhitman]

This isnt the first crazy chick obviously and im not going to get into the "they are all crazy" debate as most people will say...Im just saying overall, what is the point of long term committed relationships, over 50% of marriage end in divorce now and overall most people go through multiple attempts at it and wind up losing half of what they own...Just starting to seem like the whole thing is kind of pointless.

Good relationships can be had...you just need to keep your standards VERY high and NEVER settle.

I mean, look at the last one. She's not even hit it and quit it material for most of us. Most of us would have come back from the club to her place, seen the signs that she has a damn litter of kids there and said "WTF...either this is a sleepover daycare, or you're the old woman who lived in a shoe. Either way...I'm the fuck out of here!" and bounced. I can only guess that your standards were as low and your judgement as lacking on the past relationships that ended in disaster.

Make your standards for a 1st date high, a second even higher, and so on and so forth. If she's still around months later, and you haven't relaxed any of your standards, then she just might be worth investing in emotionally. It's not just the women that are flawed, it's your selection process.