Relationships? What's the fu*kin point?

[cindylou]

lol I don't know what the point is, though I think it's important to stay optimistic. If you're with someone for 4 years, not married and having these kind of problems I would say that it's best to get out.

If you can get through this now, you'll never look back.

 

[Sub-Zero]

or the fool who quit one of his jobs doing what he was passionate about for a girl.



stop crying DJ. you're trying to paint this girl out to be some awful person, but if that were the case you'd be happy to leave instead of bitching and moaning on an internet forum about it.

in the dude's defense leaving someone after 4 years cant be easy even if the person was the biggest cunt in the world.

hell, people stay with partners taht abuse them on a regular basis. a big change such as a break up, with someone you love, but know you cant be with anymore, is NEVER a happy situation.

unless ur leaving for a new broad

 

[DJLegacy2k1]

Ok a few details, she didnt work because she still had her youngest all the time. she doesnt go to school until September so she didnt work. The government pays for her food, and helped with some other bills. She collected minimal child support, and i mean like $60 a week or less for 3 of the children. One of the babies dads was on work release from jail for multiple DUIs so he was only sending in about 35$ a week. I paid for everything in the house from furniture, to TVs, computers, Phones, and all services. Also, I no longer work for RadioShack although I making great money at that job. I now work for a privately owned AT&T store, making about the same money, but MUCH closer to my house and less responsibility so it works out well. I make hourly plus commission for the total of two stores and my insurance and all is completely paid for me. Am I making 6 figures, obviously not, and am i going to do this forever, no Im not, but its isnt TERRIBLE money.

This is mainly to some of Smufy's questions, I cant remember is there were any more...

 

[Sub-Zero]

Ive made that mistake plunkey hahaha, free p00n = relationship to me

hey DJ ill leave my girl too bro so you dont feel so left out, haha

same here dude iv just barely (had boner issues for 1/6 so i stuffed my floppy in her so i could count it) fucked half of his magic number, as my total. no way i could get to 12

i'm not in a place in my life to make sacrifices right now anyway - so if someones down to fuck regularly ill call her my GF, but id prob be a bad/boring boyfriend anyway, and wouldnt really care what she did

 

[Smurfy]

I guess the idea of not working is foreign to me. I was a single parent with no child support and I worked 2 jobs so it seems weird to me that someone who was able to make an income would choose not to work. I wasn't implying that you made terrible money, But I also know how much it costs to support a family and especially in MD where the cost of living can be higher. We make 6 figures between 2 people and occasionally I worry about money. So I can't imagine having 4 kids and not having both people working.

That's where my questions came from. More like intrigue rather than judgment.

 

[Sub-Zero]

I guess the idea of not working is foreign to me. I was a single parent with no child support and I worked 2 jobs so it seems weird to me that someone who was able to make an income would choose not to work. I wasn't implying that you made terrible money, But I also know how much it costs to support a family and especially in MD where the cost of living can be higher. We make 6 figures between 2 people and occasionally I worry about money. So I can't imagine having 4 kids and not having both people working.

That's where my questions came from. More like intrigue rather than judgment.

im disappointed we never had a meatup smurf

 

[the.gladiator1987]

same here dude iv just barely (had boner issues for 1/6 so i stuffed my floppy in her so i could count it) fucked half of his magic number, as my total. no way i could get to 12

i'm not in a place in my life to make sacrifices right now anyway - so if someones down to fuck regularly ill call her my GF, but id prob be a bad/boring boyfriend anyway, and wouldnt really care what she did

lmao

 

[nangiggles]

I can probably guess that if I did or didnt leave my g/f, she would somehow end up with 4 kids as well....and they might not be mine.....

Well this first one almost wasnt... u definitely leaving her,does she know?

 

[DJLegacy2k1]

I guess the idea of not working is foreign to me. I was a single parent with no child support and I worked 2 jobs so it seems weird to me that someone who was able to make an income would choose not to work. I wasn't implying that you made terrible money, But I also know how much it costs to support a family and especially in MD where the cost of living can be higher. We make 6 figures between 2 people and occasionally I worry about money. So I can't imagine having 4 kids and not having both people working.

That's where my questions came from. More like intrigue rather than judgment.

Dont worry, I didnt assume you were stating the NEGATIVE, I was just trying to clarify the issues, didnt think you were trying to judge.

But yeah, thats my point, I sacrificed a whole hell of allot because I was trying to do that whole "compromise" thing and blah blah blah trying to be the good person that tries to help make things work, but I got nothing but grief for everything else under the sun...One of those things where if I was quite minding my own business watching tv, she would start a fight by saying i was benig antisocial and ignoring her...or whatever it was that day.

 

[Smurfy]

well be happy to be moving on then. in my past breakups (yes, i've had several) i didn't find it hard to leave. I found it refreshing. i guess when you get to the point where you can't stand the other person, then it's past time to go.